{"id":1148,"date":"2005-04-29T23:28:18","date_gmt":"2005-04-29T21:28:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=1148"},"modified":"2005-04-29T23:28:18","modified_gmt":"2005-04-29T21:28:18","slug":"1148","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2005\/04\/29\/1148\/","title":{"rendered":"Ahdistus, uhattuus, rauhattomuus ja musta narsismi"},"content":{"rendered":"

En vie\u00adl\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adsyt l\u00e4hel\u00adle\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n edel\u00adli\u00adsen tut\u00adki\u00admuk\u00adsen<\/a> lop\u00adpua ennen kuin aloin lukea Theo\u00adry & Psyc\u00adho\u00adlo\u00adgyn split\u00adting-jut\u00adtua<\/a>. Sii\u00adn\u00e4 mai\u00adnit\u00adtiin nar\u00adsis\u00admi, ja eksyin sit\u00adten luke\u00admaan sit\u00e4 k\u00e4sit\u00adte\u00adle\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4 jut\u00adtua<\/a> Jor\u00adma Myl\u00adl\u00e4r\u00adnie\u00admen sivuil\u00adta<\/a>. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cMinuu\u00addel\u00adtaan hei\u00adkol\u00adle t\u00e4y\u00adden\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n toi\u00adsen tar\u00adve voi olla niin voi\u00adma\u00adkas, ett\u00e4 sii\u00adhen ei oikeas\u00adtaan kukaan pys\u00adty vas\u00adtaa\u00admaan. L\u00e4s\u00adn\u00e4\u00adolon t\u00e4y\u00adtyi\u00adsi olla mel\u00adkein jat\u00adku\u00advaa, pie\u00adni\u00adkin eros\u00adsa olo voi tun\u00adtua sie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4 ja her\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 eri\u00adlai\u00adsia ahdis\u00adtuk\u00adsia, joil\u00adle kui\u00adten\u00adkin on yhteis\u00adt\u00e4 minuu\u00adden hajoa\u00admi\u00adsen uhka. T\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 tavoin nar\u00adsis\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti vam\u00admau\u00adtu\u00adnut jou\u00adtuu pakos\u00adta\u00adkin koke\u00admaan sie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n\u00adt\u00e4 itsen\u00ads\u00e4 menet\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adsen uhkaa tai kipua, joka puo\u00adles\u00adtaan voi lau\u00adkais\u00adta masen\u00adnuk\u00adsen. T\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4\u00adkin tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa masen\u00adnus\u00adla\u00admaan\u00adnus toi\u00admii \u00bbhen\u00adki\u00adsen koko\u00advar\u00adta\u00adlo\u00adpuu\u00addu\u00adtuk\u00adsen\u00ab tavoin yri\u00adtyk\u00adse\u00adn\u00e4 vai\u00admen\u00adtaa itsen menet\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adsen uhkaan liit\u00adty\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4 kipua.\u201d #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

T\u00e4t\u00e4 se on, minun el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00adni. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cNar\u00adsis\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti vam\u00admau\u00adtu\u00adnut kokee, ettei h\u00e4n sel\u00advi\u00e4 yksin, kos\u00adka h\u00e4nel\u00adl\u00e4 ei ole kyky\u00adj\u00e4 k\u00e4si\u00adtel\u00adl\u00e4 mui\u00adden itseen\u00ads\u00e4 koh\u00addis\u00adta\u00admia odo\u00adtuk\u00adsia tai itses\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n kum\u00adpua\u00advia eri\u00adlai\u00adsia halu\u00adja. Jos n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 pai\u00adnei\u00adta ei saa\u00adda riit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti puret\u00adtua tyy\u00addyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtuk\u00adses\u00adsa tai omia kyky\u00adj\u00e4 k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4, seu\u00adrauk\u00adse\u00adna voi olla sie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n\u00adt\u00e4 rau\u00adhat\u00adto\u00admuut\u00adta, joka ker\u00adtoo minuu\u00adden eheyt\u00adt\u00e4 ja ole\u00admas\u00adsao\u00adloa uhkaa\u00advas\u00adta ep\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 kiih\u00adty\u00admys\u00adti\u00adlas\u00adta tai ahdis\u00adtuk\u00adses\u00adta, joka voi saa\u00adda hypo\u00adkondri\u00adsia<\/a> muo\u00adto\u00adja.\u201d #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Tuo \u201csie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n rau\u00adhat\u00adto\u00admuus\u201d ja \u201cole\u00admas\u00adsao\u00adloa uhkaa\u00adva ep\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adnen kiih\u00adty\u00admys\u00adti\u00adla\u201d kuvaa\u00advat t\u00e4s\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adleen sit\u00e4, mit\u00e4 olo\u00adni on pahim\u00admil\u00adlaan<\/a>. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cJos syn\u00adty\u00adnyt\u00adt\u00e4 minuu\u00adden eheyt\u00adt\u00e4 uhkaa\u00advaa kiih\u00adty\u00admys\u00adti\u00adlaa ei saa\u00adda riit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti rau\u00adhoit\u00adtu\u00admaan ja psyyk\u00adki\u00adnen eheys on todel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adsa hajoa\u00admis\u00advaa\u00adras\u00adsa, astuu kuvaan mukaan er\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adlai\u00adse\u00adna vii\u00admei\u00adse\u00adn\u00e4 puo\u00adlus\u00adtus\u00adkei\u00adno\u00adna pyr\u00adki\u00admys, jos\u00adta psy\u00adkoa\u00adna\u00adlyy\u00adsin pii\u00adris\u00ads\u00e4 on puhut\u00adtu mus\u00adta\u00adna, nega\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adse\u00adna tai kuo\u00adle\u00adman nar\u00adsis\u00admi\u00adna. Sen p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 on rau\u00adhoit\u00adtaa uhkaa\u00adva psyyk\u00adki\u00adnen kaa\u00ados kei\u00adnol\u00adla mil\u00adl\u00e4 hyv\u00e4n\u00ads\u00e4 seu\u00adrauk\u00adsis\u00adta v\u00e4lit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4. Se voi tapah\u00adtua lamaan\u00adnut\u00adta\u00admal\u00adla kai\u00adken\u00adlai\u00adnen psyyk\u00adki\u00adnen toi\u00admin\u00adta ja halua\u00admi\u00adnen. #<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adnen ihmi\u00adnen j\u00e4h\u00admet\u00adtyy, kivet\u00adtyy, sam\u00admuu, kuo\u00adlee el\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4. Ulos\u00adp\u00e4in n\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 sil\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 h\u00e4n on lakan\u00adnut koko\u00adnaan halua\u00admas\u00adta, mik\u00e4\u00e4n ei kiin\u00adnos\u00adta, mil\u00adl\u00e4\u00e4n ei ole mit\u00e4\u00e4n v\u00e4li\u00e4. H\u00e4n n\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 vet\u00e4y\u00adty\u00adneen itseen\u00ads\u00e4 eik\u00e4 h\u00e4n ole kiin\u00adnos\u00adtu\u00adnut kans\u00adsaih\u00admi\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4. H\u00e4n on olo\u00adti\u00adlas\u00adsa, joka on l\u00e4hel\u00adl\u00e4 ole\u00admat\u00adto\u00admuut\u00adta ja tyh\u00adjyyt\u00adt\u00e4. Sisim\u00adm\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n t\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adnen ihmi\u00adnen kokee kos\u00admis\u00adta yksi\u00adn\u00e4i\u00adsyyt\u00adt\u00e4 ja ulko\u00adpuo\u00adli\u00adsuut\u00adta. H\u00e4n on kuin ava\u00adruu\u00adteen sin\u00adkou\u00adtu\u00adnut yksi\u00adn\u00e4i\u00adnen kap\u00adpa\u00adle.\u201d #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Whoa! Kuo\u00adle\u00adman mus\u00adta nar\u00adsis\u00admi! Siiiiis\u00adti\u00e4!<\/em> #<\/a><\/p>\n

Nar\u00adsis\u00adti\u00adna tun\u00adnen tie\u00adtys\u00adti vetoa t\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adsiin \u00e4\u00e4rim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adsyyk\u00adsiin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Jor\u00adma Myl\u00adl\u00e4r\u00adnie\u00admi: \u201cOnko nar\u00adsis\u00admi sairaus?\u201d<\/a>
\nJ. Myl\u00adl\u00e4r\u00adnie\u00admi<\/a> (via Tai\u00admi<\/em><\/a>) #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

En vie\u00adl\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adsyt l\u00e4hel\u00adle\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n edel\u00adli\u00adsen tut\u00adki\u00admuk\u00adsen lop\u00adpua ennen kuin aloin lukea Theo\u00adry & Psyc\u00adho\u00adlo\u00adgyn split\u00ad\u00adting-jut\u00ad\u00adtua. Sii\u00adn\u00e4 mai\u00adnit\u00adtiin nar\u00adsis\u00admi, ja eksyin sit\u00adten luke\u00admaan sit\u00e4 k\u00e4sit\u00adte\u00adle\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4 jut\u00adtua Jor\u00adma Myl\u00adl\u00e4r\u00adnie\u00admen sivuil\u00adta. # \u201cMinuu\u00addel\u00adtaan hei\u00adkol\u00adle t\u00e4y\u00adden\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n toi\u00adsen tar\u00adve voi olla niin voi\u00adma\u00adkas, ett\u00e4 sii\u00adhen ei oikeas\u00adtaan kukaan pys\u00adty vas\u00adtaa\u00admaan. L\u00e4s\u00adn\u00e4\u00adolon t\u00e4y\u00adtyi\u00adsi olla mel\u00adkein jat\u00adku\u00advaa, pie\u00adni\u00adkin eros\u00adsa olo voi tun\u00adtua sie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4 ja her\u00e4tt\u00e4\u00e4 [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1148","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1148"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1148\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1148"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1148"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1148"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}