{"id":12660,"date":"2010-05-04T10:53:13","date_gmt":"2010-05-04T07:53:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=12660"},"modified":"2011-07-21T14:24:52","modified_gmt":"2011-07-21T11:24:52","slug":"pisteen-tuolle-puolen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/05\/04\/pisteen-tuolle-puolen\/","title":{"rendered":"Pisteen tuolle puolen"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Kallionjyrk\u00e4nne\"<\/a> Olen saa\u00adnut t\u00e4h\u00e4n men\u00adnes\u00ads\u00e4 ker\u00e4\u00adtyk\u00adsi kak\u00adsi tapaus\u00adta psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgin anta\u00admaan teh\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4n<\/a>. Teh\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4\u00adni oli siis tark\u00adkail\u00adla nii\u00adt\u00e4 tilan\u00adtei\u00adta, jois\u00adsa tur\u00adhuu\u00adden tajua\u00admi\u00adnen on l\u00e4s\u00adn\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Ensim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4 mie\u00adtin sit\u00e4, kuin\u00adka minun pit\u00e4i\u00adsi joten\u00adkin onnis\u00adtua vies\u00adtit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n h\u00e4nel\u00adle se, ett\u00e4 kuten aina, tun\u00adnen siel\u00adl\u00e4\u00adkin puhues\u00adsa\u00adni puhu\u00adva\u00adni ihan v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adris\u00adt\u00e4 asiois\u00adta ja esit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adni oikeat\u00adkin asiat aivan v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrin pai\u00adno\u00adtuk\u00adsin. T\u00e4m\u00e4 oli siis er\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adlai\u00adnen p\u00e4i\u00adv\u00e4\u00aduni, jos\u00adsa onnis\u00adtuin selit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n tuon tun\u00adte\u00admuk\u00adse\u00adni, ja jos\u00adsa se ymm\u00e4r\u00adre\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n, min\u00adk\u00e4 j\u00e4l\u00adkeen sii\u00adhen p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n k\u00e4sik\u00adsi ja sit\u00e4 kaut\u00adta p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n ik\u00e4\u00e4n kuin uudel\u00adle tasol\u00adle yhtei\u00adsym\u00adm\u00e4r\u00adryk\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Sii\u00adn\u00e4 vai\u00adhees\u00adsa, kun haa\u00advei\u00adlu\u00adni ete\u00adnee tuo\u00adhon pis\u00adtee\u00adseen, jos\u00adsa yhtei\u00adsym\u00adm\u00e4r\u00adryk\u00adsen syn\u00adty\u00admi\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 on koi\u00adtu\u00admas\u00adsa mie\u00adli\u00adhy\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4, tajuan, tai pikem\u00admin muis\u00adtan, ett\u00e4 todel\u00adli\u00adsuus on toi\u00adsen\u00adlai\u00adnen. Ensin\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n juu\u00adri sik\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 ilmai\u00adsu\u00adni on niin heik\u00adkoa, en pys\u00adty ymm\u00e4r\u00adret\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti ilmai\u00adse\u00admaan edes sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4<\/em> ilmai\u00adsu\u00adni on<\/em> niin heik\u00adkoa. En pys\u00adty saa\u00admaan tois\u00adta tun\u00adte\u00admaan t\u00e4s\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adleen sit\u00e4 mit\u00e4 min\u00e4 tun\u00adnen, vaan j\u00e4\u00e4n tun\u00adtee\u00adni kans\u00adsa yksin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Toi\u00adsek\u00adseen, vaik\u00adka onnis\u00adtui\u00adsin\u00adkin t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 koh\u00adtaa ylit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n itse\u00adni, tai jos toi\u00adsen ymm\u00e4r\u00adrys\u00adky\u00adky pys\u00adtyy kom\u00adpen\u00adsoi\u00admaan ilmai\u00adsu\u00adni heik\u00adkout\u00adta riit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti niin, ett\u00e4 pys\u00adtyn v\u00e4lit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n tun\u00adtee\u00adni, sen v\u00e4lit\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen on vain het\u00adkel\u00adlis\u00adt\u00e4<\/em>. Toi\u00adnen kyke\u00adnee palaut\u00adta\u00admaan itsen\u00ads\u00e4 takai\u00adsin tun\u00adne\u00adti\u00adlaan, joka vas\u00adtaa h\u00e4nen<\/em> ilmai\u00adsu\u00adky\u00adky\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n, ja min\u00e4 j\u00e4\u00e4n taas omaan tun\u00adne\u00adti\u00adlaa\u00adni yksin. Het\u00adkel\u00adli\u00adnen yhtei\u00adsym\u00adm\u00e4r\u00adrys voi\u00addaan siis saa\u00advut\u00adtaa, mut\u00adta sil\u00adl\u00e4 ei ole mit\u00e4\u00e4n vai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adta minuun, sii\u00adt\u00e4 ei ole mit\u00e4\u00e4n hy\u00f6\u00adty\u00e4 kun taas olen yksin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00e4m\u00e4n seu\u00adrauk\u00adse\u00adna en pys\u00adty moti\u00advoi\u00adtu\u00admaan tun\u00adteis\u00adta\u00adni yll\u00e4 kuva\u00adtul\u00adla taval\u00adla ker\u00adto\u00admi\u00adseen. Voin moti\u00advoi\u00adtua vain siten, ett\u00e4 upo\u00adtan sen osak\u00adsi t\u00e4l\u00adlais\u00adta meta\u00adker\u00adto\u00admus\u00adta, jon\u00adka tur\u00adhuut\u00adta yri\u00adt\u00e4n olla ajat\u00adte\u00adle\u00admat\u00adta. Jos en yri\u00adt\u00e4, aja\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adni kul\u00adkee samaa rataa kuin sisen\u00adne\u00adtys\u00ads\u00e4 ker\u00adto\u00admuk\u00adses\u00adsa, ja mene\u00adt\u00e4n moti\u00advaa\u00adtion my\u00f6s meta\u00adker\u00adto\u00admuk\u00adsen esil\u00adle tuo\u00admi\u00adseen. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Toi\u00adnen tapaus oli sekin pikai\u00adnen p\u00e4i\u00adv\u00e4\u00aduni. H\u00e4m\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adte\u00adlen usein japa\u00adni\u00adlais\u00adten moti\u00advaa\u00adtio\u00adta, sil\u00adl\u00e4 se muis\u00adtut\u00adtaa sit\u00e4 nyt naii\u00advi\u00adna pit\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adni moti\u00advaa\u00adtio\u00adta, jota minul\u00adla itsel\u00adl\u00e4\u00adni\u00adkin oli kou\u00adlui\u00adk\u00e4i\u00adse\u00adn\u00e4, mut\u00adta joka toi\u00adsel\u00adla puo\u00adlel\u00adla maa\u00adpal\u00adloa vai\u00adkut\u00adtaa kes\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n aikui\u00adsi\u00e4l\u00adle. Se perus\u00adtuu maa\u00adgi\u00adseen uskoon sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 kun teen asiat mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adsim\u00adman huo\u00adlel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti ja hyvin, sii\u00adt\u00e4 koi\u00adtuu minul\u00adle hyv\u00e4\u00e4. Saan itse\u00adni sil\u00adloin t\u00e4l\u00adl\u00f6in vie\u00adl\u00e4\u00adkin kiin\u00adni t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 ajat\u00adte\u00adlus\u00adta, ja sii\u00adt\u00e4 t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa oli kyse: mie\u00adtin, ett\u00e4 jos opis\u00adke\u00adli\u00adsin jotain, ja teki\u00adsin sen mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adsim\u00adman hyvin, sii\u00adt\u00e4 seu\u00adrai\u00adsi ehk\u00e4 jotain hyv\u00e4\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00e4m\u00e4 on se pis\u00adte jota nuo\u00adrem\u00adpa\u00adna en osan\u00adnut ylit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, ja jon\u00adka seu\u00adraus\u00adta kaik\u00adki saa\u00advu\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adni oli\u00advat. Opis\u00adke\u00adlus\u00adsa on lop\u00adpu\u00adjen lopuk\u00adsi var\u00adsin help\u00adpo lois\u00adtaa, jos antaa kaik\u00adken\u00adsa ja uskoo kaik\u00adken\u00adsa anta\u00admi\u00adsen ole\u00advan paras\u00adta mit\u00e4 voi teh\u00add\u00e4, eli on sata\u00adpro\u00adsent\u00adti\u00adsen moti\u00advoi\u00adtu\u00adnut. Mut\u00adta kyse on siis vain hyvin sup\u00adpeal\u00adla alu\u00adeel\u00adla p\u00e4te\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 s\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adn\u00f6s\u00adt\u00e4, joka el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n laa\u00adjem\u00adman kir\u00adjon k\u00e4y\u00adt\u00e4n\u00adt\u00f6\u00f6n sovel\u00adlet\u00adtu\u00adna on silk\u00adkaa magi\u00adaa. Hyvin teke\u00admis\u00adt\u00e4 voi kaa\u00adtaa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n loput\u00adto\u00admas\u00adti, eik\u00e4 sil\u00adl\u00e4 ole mit\u00e4\u00e4n vai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adta itsel\u00adle koi\u00adtu\u00advan hyv\u00e4n m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4\u00e4n. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Tajusin siis opis\u00adke\u00adlu\u00adhaa\u00advei\u00adta taas het\u00adken el\u00e4\u00adtel\u00adty\u00e4\u00adni, etten sil\u00adl\u00e4 saa\u00advut\u00adtai\u00adsi kui\u00adten\u00adkaan sit\u00e4 hyv\u00e4\u00e4, mit\u00e4 el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4 haluan. Vaik\u00adka ole\u00adte\u00adtaan, ett\u00e4 kyke\u00adni\u00adsin\u00adkin opis\u00adke\u00adluun, ja ett\u00e4 kyke\u00adni\u00adsin jopa moti\u00advoi\u00adtu\u00admaan sii\u00adhen tuol\u00adla edel\u00adl\u00e4 kuvaa\u00admal\u00adla\u00adni taval\u00adla, mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adset saa\u00advu\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adni sijoit\u00adtui\u00adsi\u00advat kui\u00adten\u00adkin vain t\u00e4l\u00adle sup\u00adpeal\u00adle vy\u00f6\u00adhyk\u00adkeel\u00adle, jon\u00adka mer\u00adki\u00adtys on minul\u00adle lop\u00adpu\u00adjen lopuk\u00adsi rehel\u00adli\u00adnen ollak\u00adse\u00adni aivan mit\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n. Mit\u00e4\u00e4n kun\u00adnian\u00adhi\u00admoa minul\u00adla ei ole kos\u00adkaan ollut. Saa\u00advu\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adni ovat aina perus\u00adtu\u00adneet tuo\u00adhon lap\u00adse\u00adnus\u00adkoon, ett\u00e4 hyvin teke\u00admi\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 seu\u00adraa minul\u00adle ylei\u00adses\u00adti jotain hyv\u00e4\u00e4, ett\u00e4 se tekee el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni hyv\u00e4\u00e4. Se hyv\u00e4, mit\u00e4 opis\u00adke\u00adlus\u00adta koi\u00adtuu, ei kui\u00adten\u00adkaan todel\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa ole minul\u00adle mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adsel\u00adlis\u00adt\u00e4 hyv\u00e4\u00e4<\/a>. #<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00e4m\u00e4n oival\u00adluk\u00adsen my\u00f6\u00adt\u00e4 moti\u00advaa\u00adtio haih\u00adtuu t\u00e4y\u00adsin, ja j\u00e4l\u00adjel\u00adle j\u00e4\u00e4 vain tym\u00adpey\u00adden tun\u00adne, jon\u00adka p\u00e4i\u00adv\u00e4\u00adunis\u00adta maan pin\u00adnal\u00adle paluu aiheut\u00adtaa. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Olen saa\u00adnut t\u00e4h\u00e4n men\u00adness\u00e4 ker\u00e4\u00adtyksi kak\u00adsi tapaus\u00adta psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgin anta\u00admaan teh\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4n. Teh\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n\u00e4 oli siis tark\u00adkailla nii\u00adt\u00e4 tilan\u00adteita, jois\u00adsa tur\u00adhuu\u00adden tajua\u00admi\u00adnen on l\u00e4sn\u00e4.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[1594,8061,1986],"class_list":["post-12660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-motivaatio","tag-opiskelu","tag-psykologia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12660"}],"version-history":[{"count":31,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12660\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19696,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12660\/revisions\/19696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}