{"id":13210,"date":"2010-06-23T17:32:12","date_gmt":"2010-06-23T14:32:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=13210"},"modified":"2010-08-07T16:52:51","modified_gmt":"2010-08-07T13:52:51","slug":"ei-yleistettavan-harjoittelemista-vaan-ehdollistuman-korvaamista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/06\/23\/ei-yleistettavan-harjoittelemista-vaan-ehdollistuman-korvaamista\/","title":{"rendered":"Ei yleistett\u00e4v\u00e4n harjoittelemista vaan ehdollistuman korvaamista"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Nainen<\/a> Oival\u00adsin taas t\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n, psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgil\u00adla. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Yri\u00adtin etsi\u00e4 t\u00e4h\u00e4n arkis\u00adtois\u00adta\u00adni mer\u00adkin\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, jos\u00adsa mol\u00adla\u00adsin (ryhm\u00e4?)psykoterapiaa ja opus\u00adta, jon\u00adka mukaan tera\u00adpias\u00adsa on kyse sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 sii\u00adn\u00e4 saa \u201char\u00adjoi\u00adtel\u00adla sosi\u00adaa\u00adli\u00adsia tai\u00adto\u00adja tur\u00adval\u00adli\u00adses\u00adsa ymp\u00e4\u00adris\u00adt\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4\u201d (muis\u00adtin\u00adva\u00adrai\u00adnen, yksin\u00adker\u00adtais\u00adta\u00adva sitaat\u00adti). Minus\u00adta se oli ihan nau\u00adret\u00adta\u00advaa, sil\u00adl\u00e4 en pid\u00e4 miten\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adse\u00adna sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 tuol\u00adlai\u00adses\u00adsa hiek\u00adka\u00adlaa\u00adti\u00adkos\u00adsa ope\u00adtel\u00adtu\u00adja tai\u00adto\u00adja voi\u00adsi yleis\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 my\u00f6\u00adhem\u00admin hy\u00f6\u00addyn\u00adnet\u00adt\u00e4\u00advik\u00adsi muu\u00adal\u00adla, todel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adsa ulko\u00admaa\u00adil\u00admas\u00adsa. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Mut\u00adta t\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n siis oival\u00adsin. Jos\u00adpa kyse ei ole\u00adkaan olen\u00adnai\u00adses\u00adti sii\u00adt\u00e4 tai\u00adto\u00adjen har\u00adjoit\u00adte\u00adlus\u00adta, vaan sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 tera\u00adpias\u00adsa saat\u00adtaa saa\u00adda aiem\u00admin val\u00adlin\u00adneen koke\u00admuk\u00adsen<\/em> tilal\u00adle uuden val\u00adlit\u00adse\u00advan koke\u00admuk\u00adsen<\/em> sii\u00adt\u00e4, kuin\u00adka omaan k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00admi\u00adseen suh\u00adtau\u00addu\u00adtaan. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Ote\u00adtaan esi\u00admer\u00adkik\u00adsi vaik\u00adka\u00adpa ihmi\u00adnen, joka on lap\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsaan ehdol\u00adlis\u00adtu\u00adnut n\u00e4in: \u201cjos pal\u00adjas\u00adtan viha\u00adni<\/a>, minuun suh\u00adtau\u00addu\u00adtaan alen\u00adtu\u00advas\u00adti, v\u00e4hek\u00adsyen tai pil\u00adkal\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti\u201d. Var\u00adhai\u00adses\u00adsa, oman sel\u00adviy\u00adty\u00admi\u00adsen\u00ads\u00e4 kan\u00adnal\u00adta kriit\u00adti\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4 vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adsuh\u00adtees\u00adsaan n\u00e4in ehdol\u00adlis\u00adtu\u00adnut ihmi\u00adnen kan\u00adtaa t\u00e4t\u00e4 usko\u00admus\u00adta muka\u00adnaan aina, ja se v\u00e4rit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 toden\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6i\u00adses\u00adti enin\u00adt\u00e4 osaa h\u00e4nen vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adteis\u00adtaan. Viha on sen\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n inhi\u00admil\u00adli\u00adnen tun\u00adne, ja vaik\u00adka sit\u00e4 ei kai\u00adkis\u00adsa vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adteis\u00adsa esiin\u00adtyi\u00adsi\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n, sen ilmes\u00adty\u00admis\u00adt\u00e4 ei voi enna\u00adkoi\u00adda, joten sen mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adsuus vaa\u00adnii kum\u00admi\u00adtuk\u00adsen lail\u00adla aina taka\u00adrai\u00advos\u00adsa. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Tera\u00adpias\u00adsa pyri\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n syr\u00adj\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n tuo lap\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa syn\u00adty\u00adnyt ehdol\u00adlis\u00adtu\u00adma uudel\u00adla koke\u00admuk\u00adsel\u00adla: \u201cminul\u00adla on oikeus pal\u00adjas\u00adtaa viha\u00adni\u201d. Impli\u00adsiit\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti<\/a> se sis\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 my\u00f6s t\u00e4m\u00e4n aja\u00adtuk\u00adsen: \u201cuskon, ett\u00e4 jos pal\u00adjas\u00adtan viha\u00adni minul\u00adle mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adsel\u00adli\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4 vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adsuh\u00adtees\u00adsa<\/em>, sii\u00adhen ei suh\u00adtau\u00addu\u00adta<\/em> alen\u00adtu\u00advas\u00adti, v\u00e4hek\u00adsyen tai pil\u00adkal\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti\u201d. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Toi\u00adsin sanoen ihmi\u00adnen saat\u00adtaa vas\u00adtai\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa\u00adkin t\u00f6r\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00e4 aiem\u00admin koh\u00adta\u00adlok\u00adkaan vaa\u00adral\u00adli\u00adse\u00adna ja pelot\u00adta\u00adva\u00adna pit\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n\u00ads\u00e4 pil\u00adkal\u00adli\u00adseen suh\u00adtau\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adseen, mut\u00adta ero\u00adna aiem\u00adpaan h\u00e4nel\u00adl\u00e4 on nyt apu\u00adnaan usko sii\u00adhen, ett\u00e4 n\u00e4in ei suin\u00adkaan tapah\u00addu aina. Mik\u00e4 t\u00e4r\u00adkein\u00adt\u00e4, h\u00e4nel\u00adl\u00e4 on joku tai joi\u00adtain sel\u00adlai\u00adsia luot\u00adto\u00adkon\u00adtak\u00adte\u00adja, mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adsel\u00adli\u00adsi\u00e4 vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adsuh\u00adtei\u00adta<\/em>, jois\u00adsa h\u00e4n tie\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, ett\u00e4 n\u00e4in ei<\/em> k\u00e4y, vaik\u00adka satun\u00adnai\u00adsis\u00adsa vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adta\u00adpah\u00adtu\u00admis\u00adsa oli\u00adsi\u00adkin toi\u00adsin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

En tie\u00add\u00e4 voi\u00adko t\u00e4h\u00e4n ongel\u00admaan jol\u00adla\u00adkul\u00adla vie\u00adl\u00e4 lis\u00e4k\u00adsi kie\u00adtou\u00adtua ehdot\u00adto\u00adman mus\u00adta\u00adval\u00adkoi\u00adnen ajat\u00adte\u00adlu, eli aja\u00adtus sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 kaik\u00adkien vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adsuh\u00adtei\u00adden<\/em> t\u00e4y\u00adtyi\u00adsi olla t\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 taval\u00adla ehdot\u00adto\u00adman tur\u00adval\u00adli\u00adsia. Jos se on mah\u00addol\u00adlis\u00adta, edel\u00adl\u00e4 kuvaa\u00adma\u00adni meka\u00adnis\u00admi ei tie\u00adten\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n sel\u00adlai\u00adse\u00adnaan rii\u00adt\u00e4 rat\u00adkai\u00adse\u00admaan ihmi\u00adsen vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adtei\u00adsiin liit\u00adty\u00advi\u00e4 ongel\u00admia. Itses\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni kui\u00adten\u00adkin tun\u00adnis\u00adtan joi\u00adden\u00adkin asioi\u00adden osal\u00adta tuon meka\u00adnis\u00admin, joka suo\u00adje\u00adlee minua vas\u00adtoin\u00adk\u00e4y\u00admi\u00adsis\u00ads\u00e4 muis\u00adtol\u00adla mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adsel\u00adli\u00adsil\u00adt\u00e4 kon\u00adtak\u00adtil\u00adta vas\u00adtaa\u00advis\u00adsa tilan\u00adteis\u00adsa saa\u00admis\u00adta\u00adni posi\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adsis\u00adta koke\u00admuk\u00adsis\u00adta. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kyse ei ole\u00adkaan olen\u00adnai\u00adsesti tai\u00adto\u00adjen har\u00adjoit\u00adte\u00adlusta, vaan sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 tera\u00adpiassa saa aiem\u00admin val\u00adlin\u00adneen koke\u00admuk\u00adsen tilal\u00adle uuden val\u00adlit\u00adse\u00advan koke\u00admuk\u00adsen sii\u00adt\u00e4, kuin\u00adka omaan k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00admi\u00adseen suhtaudutaan.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[8608,2891],"class_list":["post-13210","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-terapia","tag-viha"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13210","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13210"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13210\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13763,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13210\/revisions\/13763"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13210"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13210"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13210"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}