{"id":1465,"date":"2005-08-26T00:36:36","date_gmt":"2005-08-25T21:36:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=1465"},"modified":"2005-08-26T00:36:36","modified_gmt":"2005-08-25T21:36:36","slug":"kiltteys-hyvyys-ja-liian-kiltit-ihmiset","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2005\/08\/26\/kiltteys-hyvyys-ja-liian-kiltit-ihmiset\/","title":{"rendered":"Kiltteys, hyvyys ja liian kiltit ihmiset"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n tyt\u00adt\u00f6 sitee\u00adra\u00adsi juu\u00adri See\u00adla Sel\u00adlaa<\/a> aiem\u00adman, kilt\u00adteyt\u00adt\u00e4 k\u00e4si\u00adtel\u00adleen jut\u00adtun\u00adsa<\/a> jat\u00adkok\u00adsi. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cKilt\u00adteys ja hyvyys sekoi\u00adte\u00adtaan usein kes\u00adke\u00adn\u00e4\u00e4n, vaik\u00adka ne eiv\u00e4t ole sama asia, See\u00adla poh\u00adtii. H\u00e4n haluai\u00adsi olla hyv\u00e4 mut\u00adta ei kilt\u00adti. Kilt\u00adteys saa h\u00e4net jopa raivostumaan.
\n\u2013En haluai\u00adsi aina olla se joka ottaa muut huo\u00admioon. Haluai\u00adsin, ett\u00e4 muut ottai\u00adsi\u00advat minut huo\u00admioon. Mut\u00adta ei se mihin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n muu\u00adtu en\u00e4\u00e4. Ehk\u00e4 minul\u00adla oli\u00adsi pit\u00e4\u00adnyt olla se mur\u00adro\u00adsi\u00adk\u00e4 jos\u00adkus.\u201d #<\/a><\/p>\n

See\u00adla Sel\u00adla Kodin kuva\u00adleh\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4 15\/05
\nN\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n tyt\u00adt\u00f6<\/a> #<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Kilt\u00adteys sana\u00adna, k\u00e4sit\u00adtee\u00adn\u00e4 on koke\u00adnut inflaa\u00adtion joh\u00adtuen sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 sen mer\u00adki\u00adtys on laa\u00adjen\u00adtu\u00adnut. Sii\u00adt\u00e4 on tul\u00adlut l\u00e4hes\u00adtul\u00adkoon syno\u00adnyy\u00admi perik\u00adsian\u00adta\u00admi\u00adsel\u00adle, my\u00f6\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adlyl\u00adle ja tah\u00addot\u00adto\u00admuu\u00addel\u00adle. #<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00e4m\u00e4 on ongel\u00admal\u00adlis\u00adta sik\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 l\u00e4h\u00adt\u00f6\u00adkoh\u00adtai\u00adses\u00adti meis\u00adt\u00e4 useim\u00admil\u00adle var\u00admaan\u00adkin on pie\u00adne\u00adn\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adh\u00e4n iskos\u00adtet\u00adtu, ett\u00e4 kilt\u00adteys on hyv\u00e4 ja tavoi\u00adtel\u00adta\u00adva omi\u00adnai\u00adsuus. Kun omi\u00adnai\u00adsuu\u00adden nimen mer\u00adki\u00adtys muut\u00adtuu, ei var\u00adhain syn\u00adty\u00adnyt mie\u00adli\u00adjoh\u00adteem\u00adme sii\u00adhen nimeen liit\u00adty\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 hyvyy\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4 muu\u00adtu\u00adkaan. Ehk\u00e4 t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 on yksi seli\u00adtys sil\u00adle, mik\u00adsi uskon\u00adnois\u00adsa sano\u00adjen mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 pyri\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n pit\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n kiin\u00adni poik\u00adkeuk\u00adsel\u00adli\u00adsen tiu\u00adkas\u00adti; n\u00e4in este\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n t\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adnen pit\u00adk\u00e4n ajan kulues\u00adsa tapah\u00adtu\u00adva hyv\u00e4n uudel\u00adleen\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrit\u00adte\u00adly. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Mit\u00e4 sit\u00adten on se alku\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adnen kilt\u00adteys, joka meil\u00adle pie\u00adne\u00adn\u00e4 on hyv\u00e4k\u00adsi ope\u00adtet\u00adtu? Ei se ole koko\u00adnaan edel\u00adl\u00e4 lis\u00adtaa\u00admis\u00adta\u00adni, huo\u00adnol\u00adta kals\u00adkah\u00adta\u00advis\u00adta omi\u00adnai\u00adsuuk\u00adsis\u00adta poik\u00adkea\u00adva, vaan uskoak\u00adse\u00adni kyse on osit\u00adtain samois\u00adta asiois\u00adta, mut\u00adta eri m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adris\u00ads\u00e4: perik\u00adsian\u00adta\u00admi\u00adnen sil\u00adloin t\u00e4l\u00adl\u00f6in, my\u00f6\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adly olo\u00adsuh\u00adtei\u00adden vaa\u00adti\u00admuk\u00adses\u00adta, kyky jous\u00adtaa on hyv\u00e4. N\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 lap\u00adses\u00adsa\u00adni havai\u00adtes\u00adsa\u00adni aina\u00adkin min\u00e4 kehui\u00adsin h\u00e4n\u00adt\u00e4 kil\u00adtik\u00adsi. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e4\u00adp\u00e4 jos lap\u00adsi sat\u00adtuu ole\u00admaan per\u00adfek\u00adtio\u00adnis\u00adti ja \u00e4ly\u00adk\u00e4s sanan sii\u00adn\u00e4 mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4, ett\u00e4 h\u00e4n on erit\u00adt\u00e4in ter\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4 havait\u00adse\u00admaan s\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adn\u00f6n\u00admu\u00adkai\u00adsuuk\u00adsia ja toi\u00admin\u00adtan\u00adsa ja nii\u00adt\u00e4 seu\u00adraa\u00advien ilmi\u00f6i\u00adden v\u00e4li\u00adsi\u00e4 yhteyk\u00adsi\u00e4? Mie\u00adlee\u00adni hii\u00adpii aja\u00adtus, ett\u00e4 sil\u00adloin lap\u00adsel\u00adle on t\u00e4y\u00adsin luon\u00adnol\u00adlis\u00adta poi\u00admia n\u00e4m\u00e4 samat, kilt\u00adtey\u00adden taak\u00adse k\u00e4t\u00adkey\u00adty\u00adv\u00e4t omi\u00adnai\u00adsuu\u00addet ja venyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 ne \u00e4\u00e4rim\u00admil\u00adleen kilt\u00adtey\u00adten\u00ads\u00e4 mak\u00adsi\u00admoi\u00adsek\u00adsi. Sit\u00e4 lap\u00adsi ei voi tie\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, ett\u00e4 tulok\u00adse\u00adna ole\u00adva, aina perik\u00adsian\u00adta\u00adva, my\u00f6\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adle\u00adv\u00e4, tah\u00addo\u00adton per\u00adsoo\u00adna ei en\u00e4\u00e4 ole\u00adkaan h\u00e4nel\u00adle itsel\u00adleen niin edul\u00adli\u00adnen, kuin voi\u00adsi olet\u00adtaa sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 h\u00e4nen pyr\u00adki\u00admyk\u00adse\u00adn\u00e4\u00e4n on ainoas\u00adtaan ollut mak\u00adsi\u00admoi\u00adda kilt\u00adtey\u00adten\u00ads\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Mik\u00adsei sit\u00adten kai\u00adkis\u00adta tule lii\u00adan kilt\u00adte\u00adj\u00e4? Tus\u00adkin se joh\u00adtuu pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n \u00e4lyk\u00adkyy\u00adse\u00adrois\u00adta. Edel\u00adl\u00e4 kehit\u00adte\u00adle\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adni hypo\u00adtee\u00adsia voi\u00adsi jopa jat\u00adkaa niin\u00adkin, ett\u00e4 kaik\u00adkien<\/em> las\u00adten, joi\u00adden kas\u00adva\u00adtuk\u00adses\u00adsa kilt\u00adteyt\u00adt\u00e4 koros\u00adte\u00adtaan hyv\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 omi\u00adnai\u00adsuu\u00adte\u00adna, ja jos\u00adsa kilt\u00adtey\u00adteen lii\u00adtet\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t omi\u00adnai\u00adsuu\u00addet ovat joh\u00addon\u00admu\u00adkai\u00adsia, on mah\u00addol\u00adlis\u00adta l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4 sama punai\u00adnen lan\u00adka, joka takaa sen, ett\u00e4 lap\u00adsi voi pit\u00e4\u00e4 itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n kilt\u00adti\u00adn\u00e4 pysy\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Kilt\u00adtey\u00adden koros\u00adta\u00admi\u00adnen ei suin\u00adkaan ole uni\u00adver\u00adsaa\u00adli kas\u00adva\u00adtus\u00adta\u00adpa ja surul\u00adli\u00adsen pal\u00adjon on var\u00admas\u00adti sel\u00adlai\u00adsia\u00adkin kas\u00advat\u00adta\u00adjia, jot\u00adka h\u00e4m\u00admen\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t las\u00adtaan vaa\u00adti\u00admal\u00adla t\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4 kilt\u00adteyt\u00adt\u00e4 tar\u00adjoa\u00admat\u00adta kui\u00adten\u00adkaan samal\u00adla t\u00e4l\u00adle joh\u00addon\u00admu\u00adkais\u00adta mal\u00adlia sii\u00adt\u00e4, mit\u00e4 kilt\u00adtey\u00addel\u00adl\u00e4 tark\u00adkaan ottaen tar\u00adkoit\u00adta\u00advat. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Mut\u00adta mik\u00e4\u00adli vaih\u00adtoeh\u00addot ovat n\u00e4m\u00e4, koko kilt\u00adteyt\u00adt\u00e4 koros\u00adta\u00adva kas\u00adva\u00adtus\u00adkult\u00adtuu\u00adrin kan\u00adnat\u00adta\u00advuus aset\u00adtuu kysee\u00adna\u00adlai\u00adsek\u00adsi: lap\u00adsen vaih\u00adtoeh\u00addot\u00adhan ovat t\u00e4l\u00adl\u00f6in jou\u00adtua h\u00e4m\u00admen\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n kas\u00adva\u00adtuk\u00adsen takia pysy\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti vail\u00adle koke\u00admus\u00adta kilt\u00adtey\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4 (eli hyvyy\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4) tai sit\u00adten kehit\u00adty\u00e4 l\u00e4h\u00adt\u00f6\u00adkoh\u00adta\u00adna\u00adni olleek\u00adsi lii\u00adan kil\u00adtik\u00adsi ihmi\u00adsek\u00adsi. Onko aika heit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 koko kilt\u00adtey\u00adsa\u00adjat\u00adte\u00adlu romu\u00adkop\u00adpaan, vai onko ole\u00admas\u00adsa kol\u00admas\u00adkin vaih\u00adtoeh\u00adto? #<\/a><\/p>\n

Sel\u00adlai\u00adnen voi olla ole\u00admas\u00adsa. Minun on vai\u00adkea kuva\u00adta sit\u00e4, kos\u00adka olen itse aivan ilmi\u00adsel\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti juu\u00adri t\u00e4t\u00e4 lii\u00adan kilt\u00adti\u00e4 lajia ja siten en ole kos\u00adkaan saa\u00adnut sii\u00adt\u00e4 oma\u00adkoh\u00adtais\u00adta koke\u00admus\u00adta, mut\u00adta pys\u00adtyn kui\u00adten\u00adkin ik\u00e4\u00e4n kuin n\u00e4ke\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n utui\u00adsen hah\u00admon sii\u00adt\u00e4 k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n mie\u00adli\u00adku\u00advi\u00adtus\u00adta\u00adni. #<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00e4m\u00e4 kol\u00admas vaih\u00adtoeh\u00adto syn\u00adtyy sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 van\u00adhem\u00admil\u00adla on tar\u00adjo\u00adta lap\u00adsel\u00adle ty\u00f6\u00adka\u00adlut t\u00e4m\u00e4n yksioi\u00adkoi\u00adsen kilt\u00adti = tah\u00addo\u00adton = hyv\u00e4 -ket\u00adjun kat\u00adkai\u00adse\u00admi\u00adsek\u00adsi. Sii\u00adhen kye\u00adt\u00e4k\u00adseen van\u00adhem\u00adpien on luul\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti itsen\u00ads\u00e4 t\u00e4y\u00adty\u00adnyt kye\u00adt\u00e4 kat\u00adkai\u00adse\u00admaan se aikoi\u00adnaan omal\u00adla koh\u00addal\u00adlaan. T\u00e4m\u00e4n mer\u00adki\u00adtys on sel\u00advem\u00adpi k\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adt\u00e4en sanot\u00adtu\u00adna: van\u00adhem\u00adpi, joka on itse\u00adkin lii\u00adan kilt\u00adti, ei luul\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti kyke\u00adne lap\u00adsel\u00adleen n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 ty\u00f6\u00adka\u00adlu\u00adja anta\u00admaan. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Sen koh\u00addal\u00adla, mit\u00e4 ne ty\u00f6\u00adka\u00adlut ovat, minun utui\u00adnen hah\u00admo\u00adni on lii\u00adan utui\u00adnen. Minul\u00adta kun ne ty\u00f6\u00adka\u00adlut puut\u00adtu\u00advat. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n tyt\u00adt\u00f6 sitee\u00adra\u00adsi juu\u00adri See\u00adla Sel\u00adlaa aiem\u00adman, kilt\u00adteyt\u00adt\u00e4 k\u00e4si\u00adtel\u00adleen jut\u00adtun\u00adsa jat\u00adkok\u00adsi. # \u201cKilt\u00adteys ja hyvyys sekoi\u00adte\u00adtaan usein kes\u00adke\u00adn\u00e4\u00e4n, vaik\u00adka ne eiv\u00e4t ole sama asia, See\u00adla poh\u00adtii. H\u00e4n haluai\u00adsi olla hyv\u00e4 mut\u00adta ei kilt\u00adti. Kilt\u00adteys saa h\u00e4net jopa rai\u00advos\u00adtu\u00admaan. \u2013En haluai\u00adsi aina olla se joka ottaa muut huo\u00admioon. Haluai\u00adsin, ett\u00e4 muut ottai\u00adsi\u00advat minut huo\u00admioon. Mut\u00adta ei se [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1465"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}