{"id":15046,"date":"2010-09-13T16:33:26","date_gmt":"2010-09-13T13:33:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=15046"},"modified":"2011-07-22T15:54:40","modified_gmt":"2011-07-22T12:54:40","slug":"vahvuuksiani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/09\/13\/vahvuuksiani\/","title":{"rendered":"Vahvuuksiani"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"post15046-92mskfnp2mgt2dpds6ygxmtrc\"><a title=\"Skeematerapia.fi: Testit\" href=\"http:\/\/www.skeematerapia.fi\/index_tiedostot\/Page404.htm\">Skeematerapia.fi:ss\u00e4 tes\u00adtit<\/a> on sijoi\u00adtet\u00adtu has\u00adsun\u00adni\u00admi\u00adseen tie\u00addos\u00adtoon <code>Page<a title=\"Wikipedia: HTTP 404 (englanniksi)\" href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/en\/wiki\/HTTP_404\">404<\/a>.htm<\/code>. T\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 ker\u00adtaa tein n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 koti\u00adteh\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgil\u00adle. <abbr title=\"Young Schema Questionnaire\">YSQ<\/abbr>:n mukai\u00adset <a title=\"Wikipedia: Skeema, 2 Tunnelukot\" href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/fi\/wiki\/Skeema#Tunnelukot\">tun\u00adne\u00adluk\u00adko\u00adni<\/a> ovat alla. Liha\u00advoin erit\u00adt\u00e4in vah\u00advat.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/09\/13\/vahvuuksiani\/#post15046-92mskfnp2mgt2dpds6ygxmtrc\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt><strong>Alis\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adnen: <\/strong><strong>erit\u00adt\u00e4in&nbsp;vahva<\/strong><\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Minul\u00adla on vai\u00adkeuk\u00adsia pit\u00e4\u00e4 puo\u00adle\u00adni ja sik\u00adsi minus\u00adta tun\u00adtuu usein, ett\u00e4 tois\u00adten vaa\u00adti\u00admuk\u00adset ohjaa\u00advat el\u00e4m\u00e4\u00e4ni.<\/li>\n<li> Olen kilt\u00adti ja jous\u00adta\u00adva ja v\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4n ristiriitoja.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt>Vaa\u00adti\u00advuus:&nbsp;vahva<\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Minun on hoi\u00addet\u00adta\u00adva kaik\u00adki vel\u00advol\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00adte\u00adni ennen kuin voin lev\u00e4t\u00e4.<\/li>\n<li> Minun t\u00e4y\u00adtyy teh\u00add\u00e4 par\u00adhaa\u00adni, toi\u00adsek\u00adsi paras ei kel\u00adpaa. Aina on varaa parantaa.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt>Riip\u00adpu\u00advuus: keskivahva<\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Minun on vai\u00adkea luot\u00adtaa kykyy\u00adni teh\u00add\u00e4 oikei\u00adta p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsi\u00e4 yksin\u00adker\u00adtai\u00adsis\u00adsa\u00adkin asioissa.<\/li>\n<li> V\u00e4lt\u00adte\u00adlen vas\u00adtuu\u00adta, aloit\u00adteel\u00adli\u00adsuut\u00adta ja haas\u00adteel\u00adli\u00adsia tilan\u00adtei\u00adta, kos\u00adka en luo\u00adta kykyihini.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt><strong>Ulko\u00adpuo\u00adli\u00adsuus: <\/strong><strong>erit\u00adt\u00e4in&nbsp;vahva<\/strong><\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> En oikein sovi jouk\u00adkoon vaan koen usein itse\u00adni ryh\u00adm\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 ulkopuoliseksi.<\/li>\n<li> Olen jol\u00adlain perus\u00adta\u00advaa laa\u00adtua ole\u00adval\u00adla taval\u00adla eri\u00adlai\u00adnen kuin&nbsp;muut.<\/li>\n<li> V\u00e4lt\u00adte\u00adlen sosi\u00adaa\u00adli\u00adsia tilan\u00adtei\u00adta, kos\u00adka jou\u00addun ole\u00admaan niis\u00ads\u00e4 varuillani.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt>Vaja\u00advuus: keskivahva<\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Ihmi\u00adset saa\u00advat minut toi\u00adsi\u00adnaan tun\u00adte\u00admaan itse\u00adni arvot\u00adto\u00admak\u00adsi tai h\u00e4pe\u00e4lliseksi.<\/li>\n<li> Esi\u00adt\u00e4n ihmi\u00adsil\u00adle muu\u00adta kuin olen ja pel\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n, ett\u00e4 pal\u00adjas\u00adtun ja huo\u00adnom\u00admuu\u00adte\u00adni tulee&nbsp;ilmi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt><strong>Kal\u00adtoin koh\u00adte\u00adlu: <\/strong><strong>erit\u00adt\u00e4in&nbsp;vahva<\/strong><\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> En luo\u00adta toi\u00adsiin ihmi\u00adsiin kovin hel\u00adpos\u00adti vaan uskon, ett\u00e4 minut ennen pit\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4 pete\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n tai minua loukataan.<\/li>\n<li> L\u00e4hei\u00adset ovat k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adneet minua hyv\u00e4k\u00adseen tai koh\u00addel\u00adleet minua kaltoin.<\/li>\n<li> Suo\u00adje\u00adlen itse\u00e4\u00adni ja pid\u00e4n ihmi\u00adset et\u00e4\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 ettei\u00adv\u00e4t he voi lou\u00adka\u00adta&nbsp;minua.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt><strong>Oikeu\u00adtus: <\/strong><strong>erit\u00adt\u00e4in&nbsp;vahva<\/strong><\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Minun ei tar\u00advit\u00adse toi\u00admia samo\u00adjen s\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adt\u00f6\u00adjen tai sosi\u00adaa\u00adlis\u00adten nor\u00admien mukaan kuin muiden.<\/li>\n<li> Minun tapa\u00adni teh\u00add\u00e4 asiat on oikea tapa. Suu\u00adtun tai tur\u00adhau\u00addun, jos asiat eiv\u00e4t mene mie\u00adle\u00adni mukaan.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt>Ran\u00adkai\u00adse\u00advuus:&nbsp;vahva<\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Olen anka\u00adra itsel\u00adle\u00adni jos teen vir\u00adheen tai tuna\u00adroin, ja saa\u00adtan ran\u00adgais\u00adta itse\u00e4\u00adni&nbsp;siit\u00e4.<\/li>\n<li> Olen vihai\u00adnen itsel\u00adle\u00adni kos\u00adka olen niin heik\u00adko, tun\u00adteel\u00adli\u00adnen tai tarvitseva.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt><strong>Emo\u00adtio\u00adnaa\u00adli\u00adnen esty\u00adnei\u00adsyys: <\/strong><strong>erit\u00adt\u00e4in vah\u00adva<\/strong> <\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Minun on vai\u00adkea ilmais\u00adta tun\u00adtei\u00adta\u00adni spontaanisti.<\/li>\n<li> Sis\u00e4l\u00adle\u00adni ker\u00adtyy vihaa ja mie\u00adli\u00adpa\u00adhaa, joi\u00adta en juu\u00adri\u00adkaan ilmaise.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt><strong>Pes\u00adsi\u00admis\u00admi: <\/strong><strong>erit\u00adt\u00e4in&nbsp;vahva<\/strong><\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Kiin\u00adni\u00adt\u00e4n pal\u00adjon huo\u00admio\u00adta el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n nega\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adsiin asioihin.<\/li>\n<li> Pyrin ole\u00admaan huo\u00adlel\u00adli\u00adnen etten teki\u00adsi v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adri\u00e4 asioi\u00adta, jot\u00adka voi\u00advat joh\u00adtaa katastrofiin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt><strong>Hyv\u00e4k\u00adsyn\u00adn\u00e4n haku: <\/strong><strong>erit\u00adt\u00e4in&nbsp;vahva<\/strong><\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Minul\u00adle on t\u00e4r\u00adke\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4, ett\u00e4 kaik\u00adki ihmi\u00adset pit\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t minus\u00adta, my\u00f6s sel\u00adlai\u00adset, jois\u00adta min\u00e4 en&nbsp;pid\u00e4.<\/li>\n<li> Kun teen p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsi\u00e4, jou\u00addun miet\u00adti\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n hyv\u00e4k\u00adsy\u00adv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00f6 muut valin\u00adta\u00adni ja miten he rea\u00adgoi\u00advat p\u00e4\u00e4t\u00f6ksiini.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<dl>\n<dt><strong>Uhrau\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adnen: <\/strong><strong>erit\u00adt\u00e4in&nbsp;vahva<\/strong><\/dt>\n<dd>\n<ul>\n<li> Minun on vai\u00adke\u00adaa pyy\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 mui\u00adta huo\u00adleh\u00adti\u00admaan minus\u00adta. Tois\u00adten tar\u00adpeet mene\u00adv\u00e4t vii\u00adme k\u00e4des\u00ads\u00e4 omie\u00adni edelle.<\/li>\n<li> Tun\u00adnen syyl\u00adli\u00adsyyt\u00adt\u00e4, jos en toi\u00admi tois\u00adten odo\u00adtus\u00adten mukaan.<\/li>\n<li> L\u00f6y\u00add\u00e4n aina aikaa muil\u00adle ja huo\u00adleh\u00addin l\u00e4hei\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni. Olen tot\u00adtu\u00adnut kuun\u00adte\u00adle\u00admaan tois\u00adten ongelmia.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p id=\"post15046-kfsvgj883vdpv2m9ua5yiitt3\">T\u00e4m\u00e4 poik\u00adke\u00adaa <a title=\"Janin meemit: Tunnelukkotesti\" href=\"http:\/\/uusijani.livejournal.com\/8282.html\">parin vuo\u00adden takai\u00adses\u00adta tulok\u00adses\u00adta\u00adni<\/a> jon\u00adkin ver\u00adran, mut\u00adta koko\u00adnais\u00adku\u00adva on edel\u00adleen sama vai\u00adkeas\u00adti moni\u00advam\u00admai\u00adnen.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/09\/13\/vahvuuksiani\/#post15046-kfsvgj883vdpv2m9ua5yiitt3\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post15046-410kcjjyeeyrytfgf7gvu6vcl\">Oikeu\u00adtuk\u00adsen voi nois\u00adta pudot\u00adtaa pois ohjeis\u00adtuk\u00adsen sil\u00adl\u00e4 kri\u00adtee\u00adril\u00adl\u00e4, ett\u00e4 jos \u201ckuvaus ei pid\u00e4 lain\u00adkaan paik\u00adkaan\u00adsa, sinul\u00adla ei ole kyseis\u00adt\u00e4 tun\u00adne\u00adluk\u00adkoa\u201d. Nuo tuos\u00adsa yll\u00e4 (kie\u00adlia\u00adsun osal\u00adta hie\u00adman sovel\u00adtaen) sitee\u00adraa\u00adma\u00adni p\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4t eiv\u00e4t siis ole n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 kuvauk\u00adsia vaan vas\u00adtauk\u00adsia\u00adni, jot\u00adka kyl\u00adl\u00e4 pit\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t oikeu\u00adtuk\u00adsen\u00adkin koh\u00addal\u00adla paik\u00adkan\u00adsa. Var\u00adsi\u00adnai\u00adnen kuvaus oikeu\u00adtuk\u00adses\u00adta hah\u00admot\u00adte\u00adli tois\u00adten tun\u00adteis\u00adta enim\u00adm\u00e4k\u00adseen piit\u00adtaa\u00admat\u00adto\u00adman ihmi\u00adsen, ja sen lis\u00e4k\u00adsi, etten koe itse\u00e4\u00adni sel\u00adlai\u00adsek\u00adsi, se oli\u00adsi aika r\u00e4i\u00adke\u00e4s\u00adti ris\u00adti\u00adrii\u00addas\u00adsa noi\u00adden joi\u00adden\u00adkin mui\u00adden kans\u00adsa.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/09\/13\/vahvuuksiani\/#post15046-410kcjjyeeyrytfgf7gvu6vcl\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post15046-6s8bn7e29scnry4ywxxljg1tg\">Tulok\u00adsen \u201cpes\u00adsi\u00admis\u00admi\u00adh\u00e4n\u201d on tie\u00adtys\u00adti vain rea\u00adlis\u00admia\u00adni opti\u00admis\u00adti\u00adsen tes\u00adtin\u00adte\u00adki\u00adj\u00e4n n\u00e4k\u00f6\u00adkul\u00admas\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/09\/13\/vahvuuksiani\/#post15046-6s8bn7e29scnry4ywxxljg1tg\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post15046-eqa9jdvlk4ym65g0f01o8u2ji\">T\u00e4m\u00e4n poh\u00adjal\u00adta minun pit\u00e4i\u00adsi jat\u00adkos\u00adsa sit\u00adten yrit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 tun\u00adnis\u00adtaa toi\u00admin\u00adtaa\u00adni eri tilan\u00adteis\u00adsa, eli havain\u00adnoi\u00adda sit\u00e4 miten n\u00e4m\u00e4 mal\u00adlit akti\u00advoi\u00adtu\u00advat k\u00e4y\u00adt\u00e4n\u00adn\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4 ja mit\u00e4 vai\u00adku\u00adtuk\u00adsia niil\u00adl\u00e4 on toi\u00admin\u00adtaa\u00adni. Havain\u00adnoin\u00adtiin itse\u00e4\u00adni moti\u00advoi\u00addak\u00adse\u00adni ostin oikein muis\u00adti\u00adkir\u00adja\u00adsen\u00adkin.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/09\/13\/vahvuuksiani\/#post15046-eqa9jdvlk4ym65g0f01o8u2ji\">#<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tein Skeematerapia.fi:n tes\u00adte\u00adj\u00e4 koti\u00adteh\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n\u00e4 psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgille. YSQ:n mukai\u00adset tun\u00adne\u00adluk\u00adkoni ovat alla. T\u00e4m\u00e4n poh\u00adjal\u00adta minun pit\u00e4i\u00adsi jat\u00adkos\u00adsa yrit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 tun\u00adnis\u00adtaa toi\u00admin\u00adtaa\u00adni eri tilanteissa.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[115,1986],"class_list":["post-15046","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-ajattelu","tag-psykologia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15046","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15046"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15046\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20125,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15046\/revisions\/20125"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15046"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15046"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15046"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}