{"id":15962,"date":"2010-11-08T17:05:38","date_gmt":"2010-11-08T15:05:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=15962"},"modified":"2010-11-08T17:05:38","modified_gmt":"2010-11-08T15:05:38","slug":"mina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/11\/08\/mina\/","title":{"rendered":"Min\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"post15962-8a9feb2rpqys0i7yad0uj2pnq\"><a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/wiki\/File:Tattoo_withchild.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-15976\" src=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/files\/2010\/11\/tatuoitu-voimamies-ja-poika.jpg\" alt=\"Tatuoitu voimamies ja poika pullistavat hauiksia\" width=\"300\" height=\"212\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/files\/2010\/11\/tatuoitu-voimamies-ja-poika.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/files\/2010\/11\/tatuoitu-voimamies-ja-poika-150x106.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\"><\/a> T\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n tein psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgil\u00adle sel\u00adkoa min\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00adsi\u00adtyk\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni ja koh\u00adta\u00adlon\u00adky\u00adsy\u00admyk\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4. Hah\u00admot\u00adte\u00adle\u00adma\u00adni kuva muo\u00addos\u00adtui suun\u00adnil\u00adleen t\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adsek\u00adsi.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/11\/08\/mina\/#post15962-8a9feb2rpqys0i7yad0uj2pnq\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post15962-2a4bpy83d4jdw6oy016f2f5dn\">On \u201cmin\u00e4\u201d, joka on irral\u00adlaan kai\u00adkes\u00adta mit\u00e4 minul\u00adle tapah\u00adtuu. \u201cMin\u00e4\u201d ei my\u00f6s\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ole yksi\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n roo\u00adleis\u00adta, joi\u00adta het\u00adkel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti otan ylle\u00adni toi\u00admies\u00adsa\u00adni k\u00e4y\u00adt\u00e4n\u00adn\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4. T\u00e4m\u00e4 irrallis-\u201cmin\u00e4\u201d, johon iden\u00adti\u00adfioi\u00addun sel\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti vah\u00advim\u00admin ja siis my\u00f6s vah\u00advem\u00admin kuin mihin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n het\u00adkel\u00adli\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4 aktii\u00advi\u00adsis\u00adta roo\u00adleis\u00adta\u00adni, kokee maa\u00adil\u00adman ker\u00adta\u00adkaik\u00adki\u00adsen tur\u00adha\u00adna, meka\u00adnis\u00adti\u00adse\u00adna j\u00e4r\u00adjes\u00adtel\u00adm\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 johon \u201ckukaan\u201d (eli yksi\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n irrallis-\u201cmin\u00e4n\u201d kal\u00adtai\u00adnen olen\u00adto) ei pys\u00adty vai\u00adkut\u00adta\u00admaan, vaan jos\u00adsa kaik\u00adki tapah\u00adtuu v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adj\u00e4\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adti niin kuin kel\u00adlo\u00adko\u00adneis\u00adtos\u00adsa. Irrallis-\u201cmin\u00e4\u201d ei siis koe saa\u00advan\u00adsa aikaan mit\u00e4\u00e4n, mit\u00e4 het\u00adkel\u00adli\u00adset aktii\u00advi\u00adset roo\u00adli\u00admi\u00adn\u00e4t teke\u00adv\u00e4t, sil\u00adl\u00e4 kaik\u00adki sel\u00adlai\u00adnen tapah\u00adtuu ainoas\u00adtaan gee\u00adnien ja oppi\u00admis\u00adker\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4n yhteis\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtuk\u00adses\u00adta, niin kuin liik\u00adku\u00advat <a title=\"Wikipedia: Biljardi\" href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/fi\/wiki\/Biljardi\">bil\u00adjar\u00addi\u00adpal\u00adlot<\/a> t\u00f6r\u00adm\u00e4\u00adtes\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n pane\u00advat toi\u00adsia bil\u00adjar\u00addi\u00adpal\u00adlo\u00adja liik\u00adku\u00admaan.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/11\/08\/mina\/#post15962-2a4bpy83d4jdw6oy016f2f5dn\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post15962-2wdjddhqacpttk7d51937gfrr\">Impo\u00adtens\u00adsis\u00adtaan huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta \u201cmin\u00e4\u201d kyke\u00adnee tun\u00adte\u00admaan syyl\u00adli\u00adsyy\u00adden kal\u00adtai\u00adsia tun\u00adtei\u00adta, jot\u00adka ovat loo\u00adgi\u00adses\u00adti ris\u00adti\u00adrii\u00addas\u00adsa sen kans\u00adsa, ettei \u201cmin\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4\u201d ole mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adsuuk\u00adsia vai\u00adkut\u00adtaa tapah\u00adtu\u00admien kul\u00adkuun. Lis\u00e4k\u00adsi \u201cmin\u00e4\u201d ei halua  pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n vai\u00adkut\u00adtaa tapah\u00adtu\u00admien kul\u00adkuun, vaan se halu\u00adaa teh\u00add\u00e4 sen <em>ainut\u00adlaa\u00adtui\u00adsel\u00adla<\/em> taval\u00adla. Se halu\u00adaa toi\u00adsin sanoen ilmais\u00adta yksi\u00adl\u00f6l\u00adli\u00adsyyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n maa\u00adil\u00admas\u00adsa, jos\u00adsa sil\u00adl\u00e4 ei ole kei\u00adno\u00adja ilmais\u00adta itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n, ja jos\u00adsa kaik\u00adki ole\u00admas\u00adsa ole\u00advat\u00adkin ilmai\u00adsun muo\u00addot ovat vain enti\u00adsen tois\u00adtoa eli ep\u00e4\u00adai\u00adnut\u00adker\u00adtai\u00adsia. Sik\u00adsi ole\u00admas\u00adsao\u00adlon koke\u00admi\u00adnen on  yht\u00e4 kuin masen\u00adnus.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/11\/08\/mina\/#post15962-2wdjddhqacpttk7d51937gfrr\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post15962-69t38yrti27hf55k8xykgwoby\">\u201cMin\u00e4\u00e4\u201d ei aina ole ollut ole\u00admas\u00adsa. Olen omak\u00adsu\u00adnut sen tie\u00adtys\u00ads\u00e4 vai\u00adhees\u00adsa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adni, ja luul\u00adlak\u00adse\u00adni t\u00e4m\u00e4 vai\u00adhe tuli suh\u00adteel\u00adli\u00adsen my\u00f6\u00adh\u00e4\u00e4n. Olen p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adtel\u00adlyt, ett\u00e4 esi\u00admer\u00adkik\u00adsi monil\u00adla kou\u00adlu\u00adto\u00adve\u00adreil\u00adla\u00adni on ollut jotain omaa \u201cminua\u00adni\u201d vas\u00adtaa\u00advaa jo ala-asteel\u00adla. P\u00e4\u00e4t\u00adte\u00adly on help\u00adpoa, jos tie\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 <a title=\"Wikipedia: Zen\" href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/fi\/wiki\/Zen\">mil\u00adlais\u00adta \u201cmin\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4n\u201d el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4 on<\/a>: kui\u00adlu sen ja ilmei\u00adses\u00adti ylei\u00adses\u00adti nor\u00admaa\u00adli\u00adna pide\u00adtyn \u201cmin\u00e4l\u00adli\u00adsen\u201d el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n v\u00e4lil\u00adl\u00e4 on val\u00adta\u00adva ja se n\u00e4kyy my\u00f6s ulos\u00adp\u00e4in.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/11\/08\/mina\/#post15962-69t38yrti27hf55k8xykgwoby\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post15962-ii9ujy8tdme29jxj6yi9ci55b\">Juu\u00adri huo\u00adli omas\u00adta poik\u00adkea\u00advuu\u00addes\u00adta\u00adni sai minut omak\u00adsu\u00admaan \u201cmin\u00e4n\u201d. Itse asias\u00adsa aiko\u00admuk\u00adse\u00adna\u00adni oli vain kokeil\u00adla sit\u00e4 (kyl\u00adl\u00e4, tein sen juu\u00adri n\u00e4in tie\u00adtoi\u00adses\u00adti), mut\u00adten en\u00e4\u00e4 kyke\u00adne\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n palaa\u00admaan \u201cmin\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00admyy\u00adteen\u201d. \u201cMin\u00e4n\u201d muka\u00adnaan tuo\u00adman pers\u00adpek\u00adtii\u00advin takia se oli\u00adsi tahal\u00adlis\u00adta sil\u00admien sul\u00adke\u00admis\u00adta, mik\u00e4 on minus\u00adta eet\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrin.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/11\/08\/mina\/#post15962-ii9ujy8tdme29jxj6yi9ci55b\">#<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n tein psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgille sel\u00adkoa min\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00adsi\u00adtyk\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4ni ja koh\u00adta\u00adlon\u00adky\u00adsy\u00admyk\u00adsist\u00e4. Hah\u00admot\u00adte\u00adle\u00admani kuva muo\u00addos\u00adtui suun\u00adnil\u00adleen t\u00e4llaiseksi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[1986],"class_list":["post-15962","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-psykologia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15962","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15962"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15962\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15985,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15962\/revisions\/15985"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15962"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15962"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15962"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}