{"id":16032,"date":"2010-11-11T11:07:02","date_gmt":"2010-11-11T09:07:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=16032"},"modified":"2010-11-11T11:07:02","modified_gmt":"2010-11-11T09:07:02","slug":"vanha-vihollinen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2010\/11\/11\/vanha-vihollinen\/","title":{"rendered":"Vanha vihollinen"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Kaksi<\/a> Vai\u00adkut\u00adtaa sil\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 ali\u00adta\u00adjun\u00adta\u00adni on vakaas\u00adti p\u00e4\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00adnyt nos\u00adtaa ukin unie\u00adni kon\u00adnan\u00adroo\u00adliin. Her\u00e4\u00adsin vii\u00adme\u00adkin y\u00f6n\u00e4 taas, kun t\u00e4m\u00e4 roo\u00adli\u00adtus rupe\u00adsi niin kovas\u00adti tym\u00adpi\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, sil\u00adl\u00e4 muis\u00adti\u00adku\u00advie\u00adni oikean el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n ukki ei ole sel\u00adlai\u00adnen j\u00e4yk\u00adkis kuin n\u00e4is\u00ads\u00e4 unis\u00adsa. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Vie\u00adtin sit\u00adten kot\u00adva\u00adsen vuo\u00adteel\u00adla\u00adni pime\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 huo\u00adnees\u00adsa maa\u00adten ja poh\u00adtien t\u00e4t\u00e4 asi\u00adaa. Jos\u00adkus j\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4\u00adp\u00e4i\u00adnen vas\u00adtus\u00adta\u00adja\u00adni unis\u00adsa on is\u00e4\u00adni, jol\u00adle t\u00e4m\u00e4 roo\u00adli kyl\u00adl\u00e4 sopii, sil\u00adl\u00e4 sii\u00adt\u00e4 minul\u00adla on sel\u00adkei\u00adt\u00e4 muis\u00adti\u00adku\u00advia\u00adkin. Tuli sit\u00adten mie\u00adlee\u00adni, ett\u00e4 ehk\u00e4 juu\u00adri sii\u00adn\u00e4 pii\u00adlee\u00adkin seli\u00adtys: var\u00adsi\u00adnai\u00adses\u00adsa lap\u00adsuu\u00adden\u00adko\u00addis\u00adsa\u00adni minul\u00adla oli aina enem\u00adm\u00e4n\u00adkin pie\u00adnen aikui\u00adsen kuin lap\u00adsen roo\u00adli, enk\u00e4 oikein mis\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n vai\u00adhees\u00adsa kun\u00adnol\u00adla hyv\u00e4k\u00adsy\u00adnyt is\u00e4\u00e4\u00adni mie\u00adhen mal\u00adlik\u00adsi \u2014 siis sel\u00adlai\u00adsek\u00adsi aikui\u00adsen mal\u00adlik\u00adsi, jon\u00adka kal\u00adtai\u00adsia lap\u00adsi ymp\u00e4\u00adril\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n poi\u00admii j\u00e4l\u00adjit\u00adte\u00adlyn koh\u00adteek\u00adsi. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Sen sijaan mum\u00admi\u00adla oli minul\u00adle aina sel\u00adlai\u00adnen paik\u00adka, jos\u00adsa koin voi\u00adva\u00adni heit\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00e4 ihan t\u00e4y\u00adsil\u00adl\u00e4 hoi\u00adva\u00adtun ja hel\u00adli\u00adtyn lap\u00adsen roo\u00adliin. Niin\u00adp\u00e4 omak\u00adsuin\u00adkin mie\u00adhen mal\u00adlia ukis\u00adta luul\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti v\u00e4hin\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n yht\u00e4 pal\u00adjon kuin kotoa is\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni. Ja sii\u00adn\u00e4 vai\u00adhees\u00adsa muis\u00adtin, ett\u00e4 kyl\u00adl\u00e4 ukis\u00adta\u00adkin j\u00e4yk\u00adkyyt\u00adt\u00e4 l\u00f6y\u00adtyy. Sen puo\u00adlen h\u00e4nes\u00adt\u00e4 olen vain mel\u00adko t\u00e4y\u00addel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti unoh\u00adta\u00adnut, kos\u00adka se oli niin pal\u00adjon lie\u00advem\u00adp\u00e4\u00e4 kuin is\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni, etten lap\u00adse\u00adna sit\u00e4 edes kun\u00adnol\u00adla pys\u00adty\u00adnyt n\u00e4ke\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n. Itse asias\u00adsa sen mie\u00adleen palaut\u00adta\u00adneet muis\u00adti\u00adku\u00advat\u00adkin ovat tilan\u00adteis\u00adta, jot\u00adka ker\u00adtoi\u00advat t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 j\u00e4yk\u00adkyy\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4 vain toi\u00adsen k\u00e4den tie\u00adto\u00adna, \u00e4idin suul\u00adla. #<\/a><\/p>\n

N\u00e4is\u00ads\u00e4 vihu\u00adlai\u00adsuk\u00adkiu\u00adnis\u00adsa\u00adhan ei tie\u00adten\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ole kyse roo\u00adliin vale\u00adtus\u00adta ihmi\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4, vaan t\u00e4m\u00e4 hah\u00admo edus\u00adtaa omaa vaa\u00adti\u00advaa per\u00adsoo\u00adnal\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00adden puol\u00adta\u00adni. Olem\u00adme k\u00e4si\u00adtel\u00adleet sit\u00e4 run\u00adsaas\u00adti psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgin kans\u00adsa, ja on mel\u00adko var\u00admas\u00adti sen seu\u00adraus\u00adta, ett\u00e4 olen vii\u00adme kuu\u00adkausi\u00adna n\u00e4h\u00adnyt aika pal\u00adjon n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 t\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adsia unia, jois\u00adsa yri\u00adt\u00e4n haas\u00adtaa tuon vaa\u00adti\u00advan minuu\u00adte\u00adni osan. Sii\u00adn\u00e4 mis\u00ads\u00e4 lap\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa minul\u00adle roo\u00adli\u00admal\u00adli\u00adna toi\u00admi\u00adnut ukki edus\u00adtaa minul\u00adle nyt omaa (eli sis\u00e4is\u00adtet\u00adty\u00e4) vaa\u00adti\u00advuut\u00adta\u00adni, lap\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa vie\u00adras\u00adta\u00adma\u00adni is\u00e4 puo\u00adles\u00adtaan saat\u00adtai\u00adsi edus\u00adtaa nyt enim\u00adm\u00e4k\u00adseen itse\u00adni ulko\u00adpuo\u00adlel\u00adta minuun koh\u00addis\u00adtu\u00advia vaa\u00adti\u00admuk\u00adsia. #<\/a><\/p>\n

N\u00e4in poh\u00addis\u00adkel\u00adtua\u00adni p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adtin, ett\u00e4 jos vie\u00adl\u00e4 nukah\u00addet\u00adtua\u00adni n\u00e4en unia samas\u00adta aihees\u00adta, pyrin vas\u00adtus\u00adta\u00admaan vaa\u00adti\u00advaa puol\u00adta\u00adni edus\u00adta\u00advaa hah\u00admoa ihan surut\u00adta. Se ei ole ihan niin yksin\u00adker\u00adtais\u00adta kuin mil\u00adt\u00e4 kuu\u00adlos\u00adtaa; olen usein her\u00e4n\u00adnyt n\u00e4i\u00adhin uniin juu\u00adri sik\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 ase\u00adtel\u00adma tym\u00adpii minua, kos\u00adka en oikeas\u00adsa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 haluai\u00adsi vie\u00adraan\u00adnut\u00adtaa itse\u00e4\u00adni ukis\u00adta niin raa\u2019as\u00adti kuin unis\u00adsa teen. Samal\u00adla taval\u00adla tuo vaa\u00adti\u00advuu\u00adte\u00adni on minul\u00adle toi\u00adsaal\u00adta my\u00f6s l\u00e4hei\u00adnen ja t\u00e4r\u00adke\u00e4 osa itse\u00e4, sil\u00adl\u00e4 se on suo\u00adjel\u00adlut minua lap\u00adsuu\u00adden vai\u00adkeas\u00adsa ymp\u00e4\u00adris\u00adt\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4. Mut\u00adta aina\u00adkin minun pit\u00e4i\u00adsi siis pys\u00adty\u00e4 vas\u00adtus\u00adta\u00admaan sit\u00e4 tun\u00adte\u00admat\u00adta syyl\u00adli\u00adsyyt\u00adt\u00e4 sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 se ilme\u00adnee unes\u00adsa viha\u00adna ole\u00admas\u00adsa ole\u00advan ihmi\u00adsen hah\u00admoa koh\u00adtaan. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Vai\u00adkut\u00adtaa sil\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 ali\u00adta\u00adjun\u00adtani on p\u00e4\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00adnyt nos\u00adtaa ukin unie\u00adni kon\u00adnan\u00adroo\u00adliin. Her\u00e4\u00adsin vii\u00adme\u00ad y\u00f6n\u00e4 taas, kun t\u00e4m\u00e4 roo\u00adli\u00adtus rupe\u00adsi tym\u00adpi\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, sil\u00adl\u00e4 oikean el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n ukki ei ole sel\u00adlai\u00adnen j\u00e4yk\u00adkis kuin n\u00e4is\u00ads\u00e4 unissa.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[1986,2699],"class_list":["post-16032","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-psykologia","tag-uni"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16032","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16032"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16032\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16049,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16032\/revisions\/16049"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16032"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16032"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16032"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}