{"id":16582,"date":"2011-01-02T11:08:26","date_gmt":"2011-01-02T09:08:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=16582"},"modified":"2011-01-02T11:08:26","modified_gmt":"2011-01-02T09:08:26","slug":"lapsi-valineena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2011\/01\/02\/lapsi-valineena\/","title":{"rendered":"Lapsi v\u00e4lineen\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Avain<\/a> Var\u00adhais\u00adta lap\u00adsuut\u00adta\u00adni s\u00e4vyt\u00adti t\u00e4m\u00e4 koke\u00admus: is\u00e4 juo, min\u00adk\u00e4 j\u00e4l\u00adkeen \u00e4iti ja is\u00e4 rii\u00adte\u00adle\u00adv\u00e4t, ja min\u00e4 itken kos\u00adka \u00e4iti\u00adkin itkee. Pie\u00adnel\u00adle lap\u00adsel\u00adle mah\u00addot\u00adto\u00admin\u00adta oli kui\u00adten\u00adkin sen sulat\u00adta\u00admi\u00adnen, ett\u00e4 is\u00e4n ilkey\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4 huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta\u00adkin \u00e4iti halusi olla is\u00e4n kans\u00adsa. Lap\u00adsen n\u00e4k\u00f6\u00adkul\u00admas\u00adta\u00adni \u00e4iti siis valit\u00adsi is\u00e4n t\u00e4m\u00e4n viois\u00adta huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta\u00adkin eik\u00e4 minua. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Niin\u00adp\u00e4 tyy\u00addyin toi\u00adsek\u00adsi\u00adpar\u00adhaa\u00adseen eli v\u00e4li\u00adneen roo\u00adliin: yri\u00adtin pit\u00e4\u00e4 sopua yll\u00e4, sii\u00adn\u00e4 ep\u00e4\u00adon\u00adnis\u00adtut\u00adtua\u00adni palaut\u00adtaa sovun, ja vie\u00adl\u00e4 sii\u00adn\u00e4\u00adkin ep\u00e4\u00adon\u00adnis\u00adtut\u00adtua\u00adni loh\u00addut\u00adtaa \u00e4iti\u00e4.  #<\/a><\/p>\n

Tuo valin\u00adta oli kai\u00adke\u00adti var\u00adhai\u00adsuu\u00adten\u00adsa takia var\u00adsin perin\u00adpoh\u00adjai\u00adnen, ja selit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 sen, mik\u00adsen vie\u00adl\u00e4 nuo\u00adrel\u00adla aikui\u00adsi\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n tun\u00adte\u00adnut mit\u00e4\u00e4n muu\u00adta tapaa \u201crakas\u00adtaa\u201d kuin sen, ett\u00e4 pyrin otta\u00admaan sil\u00adloi\u00adsen kump\u00adpa\u00adni\u00adni pahan olon pois. Lis\u00e4k\u00adsi se selit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 sen, mik\u00adsi sit\u00adten, kun ep\u00e4\u00adon\u00adnis\u00adtuin t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 hank\u00adkees\u00adsa\u00adni, j\u00e4in ker\u00adta kaik\u00adki\u00adaan tyh\u00adj\u00e4n p\u00e4\u00e4l\u00adle: ihmi\u00adsar\u00advoa minul\u00adla ei kos\u00adkaan ollut ollut\u00adkaan, ja nyt minul\u00adta oli riis\u00adtet\u00adty my\u00f6s v\u00e4li\u00adnear\u00advo\u00adni, johon t\u00e4h\u00e4n saak\u00adka olin saat\u00adta\u00adnut tur\u00advau\u00adtua. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Koti\u00admai\u00adsia popu\u00adlaa\u00adrip\u00adsy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adge\u00adja j\u00e4l\u00adji\u00adtel\u00adl\u00e4k\u00adse\u00adni voi\u00adsin kiteyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 jon\u00adkin isku\u00adlauseen\u00adomai\u00adsen yleis\u00adp\u00e4\u00adte\u00advyy\u00adden. Kut\u00adsu\u00adtaan\u00adpa sit\u00e4 vaik\u00adka v\u00e4li\u00adne\u00adlap\u00adsen mur\u00adhe\u00adn\u00e4y\u00adtel\u00adm\u00e4k\u00adsi<\/em>. V\u00e4li\u00adne\u00adlap\u00adsi on lap\u00adsi, jon\u00adka toi\u00adveil\u00adle ja tar\u00adpeil\u00adle ei lap\u00adsuu\u00adde\u00adnym\u00adp\u00e4\u00adris\u00adt\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4 ole tilaa, ja joka sen sijaan kehit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 ole\u00admas\u00adsao\u00adlol\u00adleen oikeu\u00adtuk\u00adsen van\u00adhem\u00adpien\u00adsa tai mui\u00adden ihmis\u00adten tar\u00adpeis\u00adta ja toi\u00adveis\u00adta. V\u00e4li\u00adne\u00adlap\u00adsi voi jopa alkaa uskoa, ett\u00e4 h\u00e4net on nime\u00adno\u00admaan luo\u00adtu t\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 toi\u00adsil\u00adle kuu\u00adlu\u00advia toi\u00advei\u00adta ja tar\u00adpei\u00adta. #<\/a><\/p>\n

V\u00e4li\u00adne\u00adlap\u00adsen tra\u00adge\u00addia voi sovel\u00adtua alko\u00adho\u00adlion\u00adgel\u00admai\u00adsen per\u00adheen lap\u00adsen lis\u00e4k\u00adsi yht\u00e4 hyvin vaik\u00adka\u00adpa sek\u00adsu\u00adaa\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti hyv\u00e4k\u00adsi\u00adk\u00e4y\u00adtet\u00adtyyn, pahoin\u00adpi\u00addel\u00adtyyn tai avio\u00adero\u00adlap\u00adseen. Hyv\u00e4k\u00adsi\u00adk\u00e4y\u00adtet\u00adty lap\u00adsi voi kokea ole\u00advan\u00adsa oikeu\u00adtet\u00adtu ole\u00admas\u00adsao\u00adloon\u00adsa ainoas\u00adtaan toi\u00adsen fyy\u00adsi\u00adsen tar\u00adpeen tyy\u00addyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adsen v\u00e4li\u00adnee\u00adn\u00e4, pahoin\u00adpi\u00addel\u00adty taas ainoas\u00adtaan toi\u00adsen vihan kaa\u00adtoas\u00adtia\u00adna. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Mur\u00adhe\u00adn\u00e4y\u00adtel\u00adm\u00e4 syn\u00adtyy, kun t\u00e4m\u00e4 lap\u00adsuu\u00adde\u00adnym\u00adp\u00e4\u00adris\u00adt\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4 toi\u00admi\u00adnut v\u00e4lt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n sopeu\u00adtu\u00adma ei v\u00e4li\u00adne\u00adlap\u00adsen kas\u00advet\u00adtua v\u00e4li\u00adne\u00adai\u00adkui\u00adsek\u00adsi en\u00e4\u00e4 toi\u00admi\u00adkaan, tai alkaa toi\u00admi\u00admi\u00adses\u00adtaan huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta k\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adty\u00e4 kan\u00adta\u00adjan\u00adsa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4 rajoit\u00adta\u00advak\u00adsi taa\u00adkak\u00adsi. \u00c4\u00e4ri\u00adta\u00adpauk\u00adses\u00adsa, kuten omas\u00adsa\u00adni, se voi t\u00f6r\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00e4 sei\u00adn\u00e4\u00e4n ja hajo\u00adta ker\u00adta kaik\u00adki\u00adaan omaan mah\u00addot\u00adto\u00admuu\u00adteen\u00adsa. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

V\u00e4li\u00adne\u00adlap\u00adsi on lap\u00adsi, jon\u00adka toi\u00adveil\u00adle ja tar\u00adpeil\u00adle ei lap\u00adsuu\u00adde\u00adnym\u00adp\u00e4\u00adris\u00adt\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4 ole tilaa, ja joka sen sijaan kehit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 ole\u00admas\u00adsao\u00adlol\u00adleen oikeu\u00adtuk\u00adsen van\u00adhem\u00adpien\u00adsa tai mui\u00adden ihmis\u00adten tar\u00adpeis\u00adta ja toiveista.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[104,1304,1986],"class_list":["post-16582","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-aikuinen","tag-lapsi","tag-psykologia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16582","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16582"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16582\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16594,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16582\/revisions\/16594"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16582"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16582"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16582"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}