{"id":16904,"date":"2011-01-26T16:45:42","date_gmt":"2011-01-26T14:45:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=16904"},"modified":"2011-01-26T16:46:29","modified_gmt":"2011-01-26T14:46:29","slug":"ratkaisu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2011\/01\/26\/ratkaisu\/","title":{"rendered":"Ratkaisu"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Hintalappu:<\/a> Seli\u00adtin psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgil\u00adle t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 vii\u00adme p\u00e4i\u00advi\u00adn\u00e4 hah\u00admot\u00adte\u00adle\u00admaa\u00adni aja\u00adtus\u00adta, ett\u00e4 minul\u00adla on ilmei\u00adses\u00adti sis\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adra\u00adken\u00adnet\u00adtu\u00adna omi\u00adnai\u00adsuu\u00adte\u00adna t\u00e4m\u00e4, ett\u00e4 olen etu\u00adk\u00e4\u00adteen huo\u00adlis\u00adsa\u00adni asiois\u00adta, vaik\u00adka sit\u00adten j\u00e4l\u00adki\u00adk\u00e4\u00adteen voin\u00adkin tode\u00adta, ettei huo\u00adleen oli\u00adsi ollut mit\u00e4\u00e4n aihet\u00adta. Sit\u00e4 selit\u00adt\u00e4es\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni juo\u00adlah\u00adti mie\u00adleen, ett\u00e4 jos ker\u00adta uskon sen ole\u00advan t\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adnen v\u00e4h\u00e4n niin kuin vais\u00adton\u00adva\u00adrai\u00adnen jut\u00adtu vain, voi\u00adsin ehk\u00e4 kye\u00adt\u00e4 ole\u00admaan piit\u00adtaa\u00admat\u00adta sii\u00adt\u00e4 jos niin haluan. Eli ett\u00e4 jos se etu\u00adk\u00e4\u00adteis\u00adpel\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4\u00admi\u00adnen ei ker\u00adta hei\u00adjas\u00adte\u00adle niin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n asioi\u00adden todel\u00adlis\u00adta lai\u00adtaa kuin vain jotain sel\u00adk\u00e4\u00adran\u00adkaa\u00adni ohjel\u00admoi\u00adtua mal\u00adlia, voi\u00adsin ehk\u00e4 men\u00adn\u00e4 ja teh\u00add\u00e4 [jotain] sii\u00adt\u00e4 huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta\u00adkin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Jos pel\u00adkoon\u00adsa ei voi luot\u00adtaa enna\u00adkoin\u00adnin v\u00e4li\u00adnee\u00adn\u00e4, niin mihin sit\u00adten? Kun en aina\u00adkaan \u00e4kki\u00adsel\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n kek\u00adsi tuo\u00adhon mit\u00e4\u00e4n vas\u00adtaus\u00adta, minut val\u00adtaa vapau\u00adden tun\u00adne: jos en ker\u00adta voi enna\u00adkoi\u00adda, en edes pel\u00adkoa\u00adni kuun\u00adnel\u00adlen, voin ihan hyvin kokeil\u00adla mit\u00e4 tahan\u00adsa. Olen t\u00e4y\u00adsin vapaa teke\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n mit\u00e4 tahan\u00adsa<\/em>. Se on aika p\u00e4ih\u00addyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4 aja\u00adtus. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Tuo ei siis tar\u00adkoi\u00adta sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 se pel\u00adko ik\u00e4\u00e4n kuin katoai\u00adsi sen my\u00f6\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00e4n vain men\u00adn\u00e4 ja teh\u00add\u00e4. Kyse on pikem\u00admin\u00adkin sen lunas\u00adta\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta, mik\u00e4 minul\u00adle joka tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa\u00adkin kuu\u00adluu. Pel\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n joka tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa asioi\u00adta etu\u00adk\u00e4\u00adteen, oli\u00adpa sii\u00adhen aihet\u00adta tai ei, joten sen pelon voi v\u00e4hen\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 yht\u00e4\u00adl\u00f6n molem\u00admil\u00adta puo\u00adlil\u00adta ilman ett\u00e4 rat\u00adkai\u00adsu sii\u00adt\u00e4 muut\u00adtuu. Rat\u00adkai\u00adsu minun t\u00e4y\u00adtyy joka tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa (pelos\u00adta riip\u00adpu\u00admat\u00adta) sel\u00advit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 erik\u00adseen, jos niin haluan. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Minul\u00adla on ilmei\u00adsesti sis\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adra\u00adken\u00adnet\u00adtuna t\u00e4m\u00e4, ett\u00e4 olen etu\u00adk\u00e4\u00adteen huo\u00adlis\u00adsani asiois\u00adta. Juo\u00adlahti mie\u00adleen, ett\u00e4 voi\u00adsin ehk\u00e4 kye\u00adt\u00e4 ole\u00admaan piit\u00adtaa\u00admatta sii\u00adt\u00e4 jos niin haluan. V\u00e4hen\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 ik\u00e4\u00e4n kuin yht\u00e4l\u00f6st\u00e4.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[1986],"class_list":["post-16904","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-psykologia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16904","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16904"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16904\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16916,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16904\/revisions\/16916"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16904"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16904"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16904"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}