{"id":1697,"date":"2005-11-18T20:07:55","date_gmt":"2005-11-18T18:07:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=1697"},"modified":"2010-10-11T19:48:18","modified_gmt":"2010-10-11T16:48:18","slug":"ilman-miesta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2005\/11\/18\/ilman-miesta\/","title":{"rendered":"Ilman miest\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"

Minus\u00adta maa\u00adil\u00admas\u00adsa on sem\u00admoi\u00adnen inhot\u00adta\u00adva ep\u00e4\u00adsuh\u00adta. Se on se, ettei\u00adv\u00e4t nai\u00adset oikeas\u00adti tar\u00advit\u00adse mie\u00adhi\u00e4<\/a>. Minus\u00adta on aina tun\u00adtu\u00adnut sil\u00adt\u00e4, ja tuos\u00adsa N\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4n tyt\u00f6n jutus\u00adsa se vain ik\u00e4\u00e4n kuin sai ensim\u00adm\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 ker\u00adtaa sanal\u00adli\u00adsen ilmai\u00adsun jon\u00adkun nai\u00adsen toi\u00admes\u00adta ilman mit\u00e4\u00e4n kat\u00adke\u00adraa tai vihais\u00adta tun\u00adnet\u00adta, jol\u00adlais\u00adten val\u00adlas\u00adsa sel\u00adlais\u00adta nyt tie\u00adtys\u00adti kyl\u00adl\u00e4 on aina tasai\u00adsin v\u00e4lia\u00adjoin kuul\u00adlut huu\u00addel\u00adta\u00advan tai n\u00e4h\u00adnyt kir\u00adjoi\u00adte\u00adtun. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Ep\u00e4\u00adsuh\u00adtai\u00adsek\u00adsi tilan\u00adteen tekee se, ett\u00e4 minus\u00adta kui\u00adten\u00adkin mie\u00adhet ilmi\u00adsel\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti tar\u00advi\u00advat nai\u00adsia. Eiv\u00e4t aivan kaik\u00adki, mut\u00adta minus\u00adta kui\u00adten\u00adkin sel\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti useam\u00admat mie\u00adhet tar\u00advit\u00adse\u00advat nai\u00adsia kuin nai\u00adset mie\u00adhi\u00e4. Monet minun mie\u00adles\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni mies\u00adt\u00e4 tar\u00advit\u00adse\u00admat\u00adto\u00admat nai\u00adset eiv\u00e4t kui\u00adten\u00adkaan jos\u00adtain syys\u00adt\u00e4 ole ilman mies\u00adt\u00e4, vaan monet niis\u00adt\u00e4\u00adkin nai\u00adsis\u00adta, jot\u00adka ovat mie\u00adhen kans\u00adsa, ovat sit\u00e4 ik\u00e4\u00e4n kuin jon\u00adkin\u00adlai\u00adsen tavan vuok\u00adsi. Siis v\u00e4h\u00e4n samal\u00adla lail\u00adla kuin suo\u00adma\u00adlai\u00adset kuu\u00adlu\u00advat kirk\u00adkoon: eiv\u00e4t sii\u00adt\u00e4 monet\u00adkaan oikeas\u00adti saa irti mit\u00e4\u00e4n, p\u00e4in vas\u00adtoin, mak\u00adsa\u00advat vain tur\u00adhas\u00adta, mut\u00adta ei nyt vaan kui\u00adten\u00adkaan raas\u00adki\u00adta ero\u00adta\u00adkaan sii\u00adt\u00e4, kun kaik\u00adki muut\u00adkin sii\u00adhen kuu\u00adlu\u00advat. Ja kun omat van\u00adhem\u00admat\u00adkin kuu\u00adlui\u00advat. Ja iso\u00advan\u00adhem\u00admat. Ja isoi\u00adso\u00advan\u00adhem\u00admat. Ja isoi\u00adsoi\u00adso\u2026 #<\/a><\/p>\n

Suo\u00admes\u00adsa ei kui\u00adten\u00adkaan onnek\u00adsi ole minus\u00adta ihan sel\u00adlais\u00adta nais\u00adten \u201cpak\u00adko saa\u00adda mies\u201d -kult\u00adtuu\u00adria, jol\u00adlai\u00adsen puo\u00adles\u00adta var\u00adsin\u00adkin ame\u00adrik\u00adka\u00adlai\u00adset niin sano\u00adtut romant\u00adti\u00adset kome\u00addiat ja tie\u00adtys\u00adti my\u00f6s Kink\u00adkue\u00adl\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n tapai\u00adset okset\u00adta\u00advat sar\u00adjat todis\u00adte\u00adle\u00advat. Teki\u00adsi mie\u00adle\u00adni sanoa, ett\u00e4 se on ame\u00adrik\u00adka\u00adlais\u00adta kult\u00adtuu\u00adria, mut\u00adten kui\u00adten\u00adkaan sii\u00adt\u00e4 puo\u00adles\u00adta sik\u00e4\u00adl\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 kult\u00adtuu\u00adria tie\u00add\u00e4 muu\u00adta kuin tuon, mit\u00e4 nuo fik\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adset kuvauk\u00adset anta\u00advat ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, ja sii\u00adt\u00e4 tus\u00adkin kan\u00adnat\u00adtaa vet\u00e4\u00e4 min\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adlai\u00adsia vaka\u00advia joh\u00adto\u00adp\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsi\u00e4. Mut\u00adta itse asias\u00adsa niis\u00ads\u00e4\u00adkin tari\u00adnois\u00adsa min\u00e4 olen n\u00e4ke\u00advi\u00adn\u00e4\u00adni vain nai\u00adsia, jot\u00adka ovat mie\u00adhen\u00adtar\u00adpees\u00adsaan niin ep\u00e4\u00adtoi\u00advoi\u00adsia juu\u00adri sik\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 se mie\u00adhen\u00adtar\u00adve tosia\u00adsias\u00adsa onkin t\u00e4y\u00adsin kei\u00adno\u00adte\u00adkoi\u00adnen ilmi\u00f6, jon\u00adkin\u00adlai\u00adnen kult\u00adtuu\u00adril\u00adli\u00adnen ehdol\u00adlis\u00adtu\u00adma. Sen takia ne nai\u00adset eiv\u00e4t kos\u00adkaan voi l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 etsi\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n\u00ads\u00e4; eiv\u00e4t sik\u00adsi, ett\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6 se hei\u00add\u00e4n vas\u00adta\u00adkap\u00adpa\u00adleen\u00adsa pii\u00adloi\u00adli\u00adsi jos\u00adsain tai sit\u00e4 ei ker\u00adta kaik\u00adki\u00adaan oli\u00adsi ole\u00admas\u00adsa\u00adkaan, vaan sik\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 he etsi\u00adv\u00e4t avain\u00adta, vaik\u00adka heil\u00adl\u00e4 itsel\u00adl\u00e4\u00e4n ei oli\u00adsi ensim\u00adm\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n luk\u00adkoa. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Min\u00adk\u00e4\u00adh\u00e4n\u00adlai\u00adseen tilan\u00adtee\u00adseen joh\u00adtai\u00adsi se, ett\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4 yht\u00e4k\u00adki\u00e4 val\u00adke\u00adni\u00adsi kai\u00adkil\u00adle nai\u00adsil\u00adle? Siis jos el\u00e4i\u00adsim\u00adme rin\u00adnak\u00adkais\u00adto\u00addel\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa, jos\u00adsa oli\u00adsi mah\u00addol\u00adlis\u00adta se, ett\u00e4 loput\u00adkin suo\u00adma\u00adlai\u00adset nimi\u00adkris\u00adti\u00adtyt yht\u00e4k\u00adki\u00e4 k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adsi\u00adv\u00e4t evan\u00adke\u00adlis-lute\u00adri\u00adlai\u00adsen kir\u00adkon tur\u00adhuu\u00adden, ja j\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adsi\u00adv\u00e4t sen, jol\u00adloin my\u00f6s kaik\u00adki maa\u00adil\u00adman nai\u00adset yht\u00e4k\u00adki\u00e4 k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adsi\u00adv\u00e4t, ettei\u00adv\u00e4t tosia\u00adsias\u00adsa tar\u00advit\u00adse mie\u00adhi\u00e4? #<\/a><\/p>\n

Puhun t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 ehk\u00e4 h\u00e4m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n ep\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsin k\u00e4sit\u00adtein, kun puhun tar\u00advit\u00adse\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta. En tar\u00adkoi\u00adta sek\u00adsi\u00e4, eri\u00adlai\u00adsia mies\u00adten ja nais\u00adten t\u00f6i\u00adt\u00e4 tai niin p\u00e4in pois, vaan jotain syvem\u00adp\u00e4\u00e4. Jotain sel\u00adlais\u00adta, mit\u00e4 ilman aina\u00adkaan min\u00e4 en kyke\u00adne kuvit\u00adte\u00adle\u00admaan itse\u00e4\u00adni el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n lop\u00adpue\u00adl\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adni. Tai aina\u00adkaan en kyke\u00adne kuvit\u00adte\u00adle\u00admaan el\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adni sit\u00e4 onnel\u00adli\u00adse\u00adna, koko\u00adnai\u00adse\u00adna<\/em>. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Kos\u00adka jos\u00adtain syys\u00adt\u00e4 aina, kun mis\u00ads\u00e4 tahan\u00adsa p\u00e4in net\u00adti\u00e4 suku\u00adpuo\u00adlen ja suku\u00adpuol\u00adten v\u00e4li\u00adset erot nos\u00adtaa koros\u00adte\u00adtus\u00adti esil\u00adle, tun\u00adnu\u00adtaan taker\u00adtu\u00advan sii\u00adhen, ett\u00e4 \u201cno en min\u00e4 aina\u00adkaan, vaik\u00adka olen suku\u00adpuol\u00adta X\u201d niin, ett\u00e4 n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 suku\u00adpuo\u00adli\u00adasioi\u00adta vaki\u00adtui\u00adses\u00adti k\u00e4sit\u00adte\u00adle\u00adv\u00e4t tahot<\/a> ovat jo ryh\u00adty\u00adneet varus\u00adta\u00admaan jut\u00adtun\u00adsa varoi\u00adtuk\u00adsel\u00adla sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 suku\u00adpuo\u00adles\u00adta puhut\u00adtaes\u00adsa ei tar\u00adkoi\u00adte\u00adta kir\u00adjai\u00admel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti joka ikis\u00adt\u00e4 kysei\u00adsen suku\u00adpuo\u00adlen edus\u00adta\u00adjaa, tun\u00adsin min\u00e4\u00adkin tar\u00advet\u00adta teh\u00add\u00e4 t\u00e4t\u00e4 kir\u00adjoit\u00adtaes\u00adsa\u00adni niin, jot\u00adtei sii\u00adhen tar\u00adtut\u00adtai\u00adsi. Mut\u00adta enp\u00e4s tee. Sii\u00adn\u00e4\u00adh\u00e4n tart\u00adtu\u00adkaa, hah! #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026hah! \u2026ah! \u2026h!\u201d, vas\u00adta\u00adsi Blo\u00adgos\u00adla\u00advian per\u00adjan\u00adtai-illan tyh\u00adjyy\u00adden kai\u00adku. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Minus\u00adta maa\u00adil\u00admas\u00adsa on sem\u00admoi\u00adnen inhot\u00adta\u00adva ep\u00e4\u00adsuh\u00adta. Se on se, ettei\u00adv\u00e4t nai\u00adset oikeas\u00adti tar\u00advit\u00adse mie\u00adhi\u00e4. Minus\u00adta on aina tun\u00adtu\u00adnut sil\u00adt\u00e4, ja tuos\u00adsa N\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4n tyt\u00f6n jutus\u00adsa se vain ik\u00e4\u00e4n kuin sai ensim\u00adm\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 ker\u00adtaa sanal\u00adli\u00adsen ilmai\u00adsun jon\u00adkun nai\u00adsen toi\u00admes\u00adta ilman mit\u00e4\u00e4n kat\u00adke\u00adraa tai vihais\u00adta tun\u00adnet\u00adta, jol\u00adlais\u00adten val\u00adlas\u00adsa sel\u00adlais\u00adta nyt tie\u00adtys\u00adti kyl\u00adl\u00e4 on aina tasai\u00adsin v\u00e4lia\u00adjoin kuul\u00adlut huu\u00addel\u00adta\u00advan tai [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1697"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1697\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15508,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1697\/revisions\/15508"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}