{"id":1897,"date":"2006-01-26T18:28:12","date_gmt":"2006-01-26T16:28:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=1897"},"modified":"2006-01-26T18:28:12","modified_gmt":"2006-01-26T16:28:12","slug":"varitesti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/01\/26\/varitesti\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u00e4ritesti"},"content":{"rendered":"
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  1. Tila jota tavoit\u00adte\u00adlee tai tavoit\u00adtei\u00adden m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4 k\u00e4ytt\u00e4ytyminen<\/strong>
    \nV\u00e4lit\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4n levon, ren\u00adtou\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adsen, rau\u00adhan ja lem\u00adpe\u00e4n ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00admyk\u00adsen tar\u00adpees\u00adsa. Tun\u00adtee ett\u00e4 h\u00e4n\u00adt\u00e4 koh\u00addel\u00adtu ep\u00e4\u00adhuo\u00admaa\u00advai\u00adses\u00adti jon\u00adka seu\u00adrauk\u00adse\u00adna j\u00e4r\u00adkyt\u00adty\u00adnyt ja pani\u00adkoi\u00adtu\u00adnut. Kokee tilan\u00adteen sie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4k\u00adsi niin kau\u00adan kuin h\u00e4nen vaa\u00adti\u00admuk\u00adsi\u00adaan ei huomioida.<\/li>\n
  2. Tila jos\u00adsa on tai nyky\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adtee\u00adseen sopi\u00adva k\u00e4ytt\u00e4ytyminen<\/strong>
    \nPuo\u00adlus\u00adtus\u00adkan\u00adnal\u00adla. Tun\u00adtee ase\u00adman\u00adsa ole\u00advan uhat\u00adtu\u00adna tai ep\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adnen. J\u00e4r\u00adk\u00e4h\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adti tavoit\u00adte\u00adlee tavoit\u00adtei\u00adtaan huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta vas\u00adta\u00adpuo\u00adlen aihet\u00adta\u00admas\u00adta huolesta.<\/li>\n
  3. Este\u00adtyt tilat tai ep\u00e4\u00adso\u00adpi\u00adva k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen nykytilanteessa<\/strong>
    \nHalu\u00adaa laa\u00adjen\u00adtaa koke\u00admus\u00adpii\u00adri\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n ja vaa\u00adtii ett\u00e4 omat toi\u00adveet ja ideat ovat rea\u00adlis\u00adti\u00adsia. Huo\u00adles\u00adtu\u00adnut sii\u00adt\u00e4 ett\u00e4 on mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti estet\u00adty teke\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 mit\u00e4 itse halu\u00adaa. Tar\u00advit\u00adsee rau\u00adhal\u00adli\u00adset olo\u00adsuh\u00adteet palaut\u00adtaak\u00adseen itseluottamuksensa.<\/li>\n
  4. Stres\u00adsin l\u00e4hteet<\/strong>
    \nStres\u00adsi\u00e4 aiheu\u00adtuen kyvyt\u00adt\u00f6\u00admyy\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4 pit\u00e4\u00e4 ihmis\u00adsuh\u00adtei\u00adta vakaina.\n

    Halu\u00adaa kump\u00adpa\u00adnin jon\u00adka kans\u00adsa voi jakaa tyy\u00adnen ilma\u00adpii\u00adrin, mut\u00adta pakon\u00adomai\u00adnen tar\u00adve koros\u00adtaa omaa per\u00adsoo\u00adnal\u00adli\u00adsuut\u00adtaan tekee h\u00e4nes\u00adt\u00e4 kriit\u00adti\u00adsen ja vaa\u00adti\u00advan. T\u00e4m\u00e4 aiheut\u00adtaa ep\u00e4\u00adso\u00adpua ja joh\u00adtaa ajot\u00adtai\u00adseen et\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adty\u00admi\u00adseen, n\u00e4in halua\u00adman\u00adsa ihan\u00adne\u00adti\u00adla ei p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adse kehit\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n. #<\/a><\/p>\n

    Huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta halus\u00adta tyy\u00addyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 luon\u00adnol\u00adli\u00adsia tar\u00adpei\u00adta, toteut\u00adtaa huo\u00admat\u00adta\u00advaa itse\u00adhil\u00adlin\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 viet\u00adtien suh\u00adteen sii\u00adn\u00e4 uskos\u00adsa ett\u00e4 se todis\u00adtai\u00adsi h\u00e4nen ylem\u00admyyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n ja kohoai\u00adsi mui\u00adden yl\u00e4\u00adpuo\u00adlel\u00adle. Tark\u00adka\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6i\u00adnen, kriit\u00adti\u00adnen ja pik\u00adku\u00adtark\u00adka, omaa hyv\u00e4n maun ja arvos\u00adte\u00adlu\u00adky\u00advyn. #<\/a><\/p>\n

    N\u00e4m\u00e4 omi\u00adnai\u00adsuu\u00addet yhdis\u00adtet\u00adtyi\u00adn\u00e4 tai\u00adpu\u00admuk\u00adseen muo\u00addos\u00adtaa mie\u00adli\u00adpi\u00adteen\u00ads\u00e4 itse mah\u00addol\u00adlis\u00adta\u00advat omaeh\u00adtoi\u00adsen toi\u00admin\u00adnan ja kyvyn esit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 mie\u00adli\u00adpi\u00adtei\u00adt\u00e4 auk\u00adto\u00adri\u00adteet\u00adti\u00adn\u00e4. Naut\u00adtii oma\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4, kek\u00adse\u00adli\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 ja vai\u00adkeas\u00adti seli\u00adtet\u00adt\u00e4\u00advis\u00adt\u00e4 asiois\u00adta, toi\u00admii mie\u00adlel\u00adl\u00e4\u00e4n saman\u00adhen\u00adkis\u00adten ihmis\u00adten seu\u00adras\u00adsa jot\u00adka voi\u00advat edis\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 h\u00e4nen \u00e4lyl\u00adlis\u00adt\u00e4 kehi\u00adtys\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n. Halu\u00adaa ihai\u00adlua ja arvostusta.<\/p><\/li>\n

  5. Nykyi\u00adnen ongelma<\/strong>
    \nHalu\u00adaa arvos\u00adtus\u00adta ja kun\u00adnioi\u00adtus\u00adta ja etsii sit\u00e4 l\u00e4hei\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 ja rau\u00adhan\u00adomai\u00adses\u00adta, saman\u00adhen\u00adki\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 seu\u00adras\u00adta.     #<\/a>\n

    Arvos\u00adte\u00adtuk\u00adsi\u00adtu\u00adle\u00admi\u00adsen tar\u00adve ja halu tul\u00adla kuu\u00adlui\u00adsak\u00adsi on nous\u00adsut hal\u00adlit\u00adse\u00advak\u00adsi. T\u00e4m\u00e4n seu\u00adrauk\u00adse\u00adna vaa\u00adtii p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adsy\u00e4 huo\u00admion kes\u00adki\u00adpis\u00adteek\u00adsi eik\u00e4 suos\u00adtu tyy\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n per\u00adsoo\u00adnat\u00adto\u00admiin sivurooleihin.<\/p><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    (sini\u00adnen, mus\u00adta, vih\u00adre\u00e4, har\u00admaa, punai\u00adnen, kel\u00adtai\u00adnen, vio\u00adlet\u00adti, rus\u00adkea) #<\/a><\/p>\n

    Joku tyyp\u00adpi: V\u00e4ri\u00adtes\u00adti - V\u00e4rip\u00adsy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adnen per\u00adsoo\u00adnal\u00adli\u00adsuus\u00adtes\u00adti<\/a> (via Herk\u00adku<\/strong><\/a>); vii\u00admei\u00adsen koh\u00addan suo\u00admen\u00adnos oma\u00adni) #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    En ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4, mit\u00e4 var\u00adten v\u00e4rit piti vali\u00adta kah\u00adteen ker\u00adtaan. Vaik\u00adka mie\u00adli muut\u00adtuu, niin ei se nyt sen\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n tuol\u00adla lail\u00adla, kah\u00adden valin\u00adnan v\u00e4li\u00adsen sekun\u00adnin aika\u00adna ker\u00adki\u00e4 muut\u00adtua, mul\u00adla aina\u00adkaan! #<\/a><\/p>\n

    En my\u00f6s\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 noi\u00adta otsi\u00adkoi\u00adta. Ne ovat ihan hul\u00adlu\u00adja! #<\/a><\/p>\n

    Tulok\u00adses\u00adta par\u00adhai\u00adten osui\u00advat koh\u00addal\u00adleen \u201ctoteut\u00adtaa huo\u00admat\u00adta\u00advaa itse\u00adhil\u00adlin\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 viet\u00adtien suh\u00adteen\u201d ja \u201cnaut\u00adtii oma\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4, kek\u00adse\u00adli\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 ja vai\u00adkeas\u00adti seli\u00adtet\u00adt\u00e4\u00advis\u00adt\u00e4 asiois\u00adta\u201d. Kauim\u00admak\u00adsi totuu\u00addes\u00adta puo\u00adles\u00adtaan osui\u00advat \u201chalu\u00adaa laa\u00adjen\u00adtaa koke\u00admus\u00adpii\u00adri\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n\u201d ja \u201cvaa\u00adtii p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adsy\u00e4 huo\u00admion kes\u00adki\u00adpis\u00adteek\u00adsi\u201d. Kyl\u00adl\u00e4\u00adh\u00e4n jokai\u00adnen nois\u00adta jotain itsel\u00adleen l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Tila jota tavoit\u00adte\u00adlee tai tavoit\u00adtei\u00adden m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4 k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen V\u00e4lit\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4n levon, ren\u00adtou\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adsen, rau\u00adhan ja lem\u00adpe\u00e4n ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00admyk\u00adsen tar\u00adpees\u00adsa. Tun\u00adtee ett\u00e4 h\u00e4n\u00adt\u00e4 koh\u00addel\u00adtu ep\u00e4\u00adhuo\u00admaa\u00advai\u00adses\u00adti jon\u00adka seu\u00adrauk\u00adse\u00adna j\u00e4r\u00adkyt\u00adty\u00adnyt ja pani\u00adkoi\u00adtu\u00adnut. Kokee tilan\u00adteen sie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4k\u00adsi niin kau\u00adan kuin h\u00e4nen vaa\u00adti\u00admuk\u00adsi\u00adaan ei huo\u00admioi\u00adda. Tila jos\u00adsa on tai nyky\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adtee\u00adseen sopi\u00adva k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen Puo\u00adlus\u00adtus\u00adkan\u00adnal\u00adla. Tun\u00adtee ase\u00adman\u00adsa ole\u00advan uhat\u00adtu\u00adna tai ep\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adnen. J\u00e4r\u00adk\u00e4h\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adti tavoit\u00adte\u00adlee tavoit\u00adtei\u00adtaan huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta vas\u00adta\u00adpuo\u00adlen aihettamasta [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1521],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1897","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-meemit"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1897","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1897"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1897\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1897"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1897"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1897"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}