{"id":2162,"date":"2006-04-27T13:05:43","date_gmt":"2006-04-27T10:05:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=2162"},"modified":"2006-04-27T13:05:43","modified_gmt":"2006-04-27T10:05:43","slug":"paa-auki","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00e4\u00e4n aukomisesta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"post2162-i7r5hdl4n3ugbuudrqpfyg2t9\">Haas\u00adtat\u00adte\u00adlin <a href=\"http:\/\/paaauki.blogspot.com\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/files\/2006\/04\/paa-auki-transp.png\" alt width=\"113\" height=\"94\" class=\"alignright\"><\/a> eilen \u00e4iti\u00e4 tuos\u00adta <a href=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=2160\">T\u0161er\u00adno\u00adbyl<\/a>-aihees\u00adta. Sii\u00adn\u00e4 yhtey\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4 \u00e4iti ker\u00adtoi, ett\u00e4 olim\u00adme Jan\u00adnen kans\u00adsa pie\u00adni\u00adn\u00e4 mel\u00adko han\u00adka\u00adlia jutu\u00adtet\u00adta\u00advia. Kuu\u00adlem\u00adma her\u00admos\u00adtut\u00adtiin heti jos huo\u00admat\u00adtiin, ett\u00e4 jotain yri\u00adte\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n sel\u00advit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-i7r5hdl4n3ugbuudrqpfyg2t9\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post2162-cgad38qghmjmy87qyjb1daq2y\">Muis\u00adtan sen tun\u00adteen hyvin sel\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti. Se oli tosi inhot\u00adta\u00advaa. Niin kuin p\u00e4\u00e4n sis\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 ole\u00adviin her\u00admoi\u00adhin oltai\u00adsiin tar\u00adtut\u00adtu ja nii\u00adt\u00e4 oltai\u00adsiin ravis\u00adtel\u00adtu ja k\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adnel\u00adty ja ton\u00adgit\u00adtu pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n huvin vuok\u00adsi.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-cgad38qghmjmy87qyjb1daq2y\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post2162-bx9jr8fg7ruo1t1h9mod9h2ma\">Eik\u00e4 se joh\u00adtu\u00adnut kyse\u00adly\u00adta\u00advas\u00adta siten, ett\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6 se oli\u00adsi ollut joten\u00adkin r\u00f6yh\u00adke\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4, t\u00f6y\u00adke\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4 tai muu\u00adtoin ep\u00e4\u00adhuo\u00admaa\u00advais\u00adta, vaan pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n sii\u00adt\u00e4 itse tapah\u00adtu\u00admas\u00adta. En oikein tar\u00adkal\u00adleen osaa selit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 t\u00e4t\u00e4, mut\u00adta luu\u00adlen, ett\u00e4 sii\u00adn\u00e4 on aina\u00adkin omal\u00adta osal\u00adta\u00adni ollut kyse sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 olen teh\u00adnyt kaik\u00adke\u00adni pit\u00e4\u00e4k\u00adse\u00adni tun\u00adteet sis\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4\u00adni ja sala\u00adtak\u00adse\u00adni sen, mil\u00adt\u00e4 minus\u00adta oikeas\u00adti tun\u00adtuu, ja sit\u00adten sel\u00adlai\u00adnen kyse\u00adly on hy\u00f6\u00adk\u00e4n\u00adnyt suo\u00adraan nii\u00adden tun\u00adtei\u00adden kimp\u00adpuun. Se tun\u00adtui \u00e4\u00e4ret\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4n vas\u00adten\u00admie\u00adli\u00adsel\u00adt\u00e4, kivu\u00adli\u00adaal\u00adta ja v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4, kos\u00adka sen teki\u00adj\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 oli oma \u00e4iti.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-bx9jr8fg7ruo1t1h9mod9h2ma\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post2162-ionw8nshic5g7x2huf0yepk8w\">Kaik\u00adkein pahin\u00adta oli, jos \u00e4iti kysyi \u201cpetyit\u00adk\u00f6 sin\u00e4 nyt pahas\u00adti?\u201d Sii\u00adn\u00e4 vai\u00adhees\u00adsa minul\u00adla p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adsi aina itku. Tot\u00adta hel\u00adve\u00adtis\u00ads\u00e4 olin pet\u00adty\u00adnyt aina niis\u00ads\u00e4 tilan\u00adteis\u00adsa, mut\u00adta oli\u00adpa itse pet\u00adty\u00admys kuin\u00adka paha tahan\u00adsa, sii\u00adhen n\u00e4h\u00adden oli aina yli\u00advoi\u00admai\u00adsen muser\u00adta\u00advaa taju\u00adta, ett\u00e4 olin kai\u00adken hui\u00adpuk\u00adsi sur\u00adkeas\u00adti ep\u00e4\u00adon\u00adnis\u00adtu\u00adnut yri\u00adtyk\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni pit\u00e4\u00e4 se pet\u00adty\u00admyk\u00adse\u00adni salas\u00adsa.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-ionw8nshic5g7x2huf0yepk8w\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post2162-n8kget5ircx3k81xcmgxj9bvt\">Muis\u00adtan sen\u00adkin, kuin\u00adka hel\u00adpot\u00adtu\u00adnut olin, kun \u00e4iti sit\u00adten lopul\u00adta lak\u00adka\u00adsi kyse\u00adle\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4. H\u00e4n itse arve\u00adli eilen, ett\u00e4 oli\u00adsi ehk\u00e4 pit\u00e4\u00adnyt jat\u00adkaa sii\u00adt\u00e4\u00adkin huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta, miten sii\u00adhen rea\u00adgoi\u00adtiin, ja pakot\u00adtaa mei\u00add\u00e4t puhu\u00admaan, jos vaik\u00adka siten oltai\u00adsiin opit\u00adtu k\u00e4sit\u00adte\u00adle\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n nega\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adsia tun\u00adtei\u00adta nii\u00adden patoa\u00admi\u00adsen sijas\u00adta. Min\u00e4 olen sit\u00e4 miel\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 sii\u00adt\u00e4 oli\u00adsi seu\u00adran\u00adnut vain tosi paha kat\u00adke\u00adruus. Minus\u00adta ket\u00e4\u00e4n ei saa pakot\u00adtaa ker\u00adto\u00admaan mit\u00e4\u00e4n sil\u00adl\u00e4 taval\u00adla, lap\u00adsia kaik\u00adkein v\u00e4hi\u00adten.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-n8kget5ircx3k81xcmgxj9bvt\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post2162-8nsq1udnstdnr9lewhbm98312\">Eri asia oli\u00adsi sit\u00adten ollut se, ett\u00e4 sii\u00adhen tun\u00adtei\u00adden patoa\u00admi\u00adsen ja salai\u00adlun syi\u00adhin oli\u00adsi pereh\u00addyt\u00adty asian\u00adtun\u00adte\u00advas\u00adti. Mut\u00adta sen asian\u00adtun\u00adti\u00adjuu\u00adden oli\u00adsi nykyi\u00adsen psy\u00adko\u00adpa\u00adto\u00adlo\u00adgia\u00adni tun\u00adtien luul\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti t\u00e4y\u00adty\u00adnyt olla ammat\u00adti\u00admais\u00adta ja niin pien\u00adten las\u00adten k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adnen psy\u00adkiat\u00adril\u00adla oli\u00adsi sii\u00adhen aikaan niil\u00adl\u00e4 peril\u00adl\u00e4 kai\u00adke\u00adti ollut poik\u00adkea\u00advaa, kum\u00admal\u00adlis\u00adta ja h\u00e4pe\u00e4l\u00adlis\u00adt\u00e4. Puhu\u00admat\u00adta\u00adkaan sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 kun\u00adnol\u00adli\u00adsen las\u00adtenp\u00adsy\u00adkiat\u00adrian asian\u00adtun\u00adti\u00adjan l\u00f6y\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen edes useam\u00adman sadan kilo\u00admet\u00adrin s\u00e4teel\u00adl\u00e4 etsien oli\u00adsi var\u00admas\u00adti ollut ongel\u00admal\u00adlis\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-8nsq1udnstdnr9lewhbm98312\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post2162-pg2rl3mq7up20ojhox1kkjpob\">Edel\u00adleen eri asia oli\u00adsi my\u00f6s\u00adkin ollut se, ett\u00e4 oli\u00adsi\u00adko nii\u00adhin syi\u00adhin kyet\u00adty puut\u00adtu\u00admaan vaik\u00adka ne oli\u00adsi l\u00f6y\u00addet\u00adty\u00adkin, jos ne syyt\u00adkin oli\u00adsi\u00advat l\u00f6y\u00adty\u00adneet saman per\u00adheen sis\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4, kuten on taval\u00adlis\u00adta. Sii\u00adhen tun\u00adtei\u00adden patoa\u00admi\u00adseen minul\u00adla on var\u00admas\u00adti ollut is\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 pait\u00adsi \u00e4\u00e4rim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adsen t\u00e4y\u00addel\u00adli\u00adnen esi\u00admerk\u00adki, my\u00f6s kou\u00adlut\u00adta\u00adja. <a href=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2005\/01\/27\/lapset-eivat-ymmarra-sarkasmia-eivatka-ironiaa-sarkasmi-ja-ironia-vahingoittavat-lapsen-itsetuntoa\/\">Iro\u00adnian ja sar\u00adkas\u00admin vahin\u00adgol\u00adli\u00adsuus<\/a> pie\u00adniin lap\u00adsiin sovel\u00adlet\u00adtu\u00adna ei ole sel\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4 monil\u00adle ihmi\u00adsil\u00adle vie\u00adl\u00e4 nykyi\u00adsin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n, eik\u00e4 se sit\u00e4 kos\u00adkaan ollut is\u00e4l\u00adle\u00adni.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-pg2rl3mq7up20ojhox1kkjpob\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post2162-c24prw0sdojdpijnjpd46fww\">Tus\u00adkin\u00adpa se oli\u00adsi ollut sit\u00e4 edes itsel\u00adle\u00adni sen koh\u00adteek\u00adsi jou\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta\u00adni huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta, jos oli\u00adsin ruven\u00adnut <a href=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/sukututkimus\/mattilat\/#M19580619\">is\u00e4k\u00adsi yht\u00e4 nuo\u00adrel\u00adla i\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4<\/a>.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-c24prw0sdojdpijnjpd46fww\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post2162-2vqqo3dt3c2kaheb9ukev6tv\">[muok\u00adkauk\u00adset]<br>\n[muokkaus][klo]14:15[\/klo] Muu\u00adtin otsi\u00adkon (\u201cP\u00e4\u00e4 auki\u201d \u2192 \u201cP\u00e4\u00e4n aukomisesta\u201d).[\/muokkaus]<br>\n[\/muokkaukset]&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2006\/04\/27\/paa-auki\/#post2162-2vqqo3dt3c2kaheb9ukev6tv\">#<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tun\u00adtei\u00adden patoa\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta pie\u00adnel\u00adl\u00e4 i\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 ja nii\u00adhin v\u00e4ki\u00adsin kajoamisesta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2162","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2162","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2162"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2162\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2162"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2162"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2162"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}