{"id":224,"date":"2004-07-22T11:10:43","date_gmt":"2004-07-22T09:10:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/skm\/?p=224"},"modified":"2011-10-07T19:31:49","modified_gmt":"2011-10-07T16:31:49","slug":"lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/22\/lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin\/","title":{"rendered":"Lapsuus loppuu liian aikaisin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"post224-6mhvclcr44q8c94yc4nqxyyio\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.kaleva.fi\/cf\/osasto.cfm?depa=148\"><em>Kale\u00adva<\/em><\/a>&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/22\/lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin\/#post224-6mhvclcr44q8c94yc4nqxyyio\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post224-tt9wclwm27nsjd79j3l6eu13\">Olen luke\u00adnut <a href=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/20\/kuvia-kirjoja-kuvakirjoja\/#dr2001\"><em>Sat\u00adtu\u00admaa ja kaa\u00ados\u00adta<\/em><\/a> vas\u00adta kuusi sivua, mut\u00adta jo t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 tulee ensim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adnen lai\u00adnat\u00adta\u00adva koh\u00adta vas\u00adtaan.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/22\/lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin\/#post224-tt9wclwm27nsjd79j3l6eu13\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p id=\"post224-qdah95dhnb2rl6lk4kjmj4ntg\">Usein mate\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adnen lah\u00adjak\u00adkuus kehit\u00adtyy var\u00adhai\u00adses\u00adsa i\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4. Kuu\u00adlu ven\u00e4\u00adl\u00e4i\u00adnen mate\u00admaa\u00adtik\u00adko Andrei N. Kol\u00admo\u00adgo\u00adrov lis\u00e4\u00adsi t\u00e4h\u00e4n ylei\u00adseen havain\u00adtoon eri\u00adkoi\u00adsen ehdo\u00adtuk\u00adsen. H\u00e4n v\u00e4it\u00adti, ett\u00e4 ihmi\u00adsen nor\u00admaa\u00adli psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adnen kehi\u00adtys pys\u00e4h\u00adtyy sil\u00adloin, kun mate\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adnen lah\u00adjak\u00adkuus ilmaan\u00adtuu. Niin\u00adp\u00e4 Kol\u00admo\u00adgo\u00adrov ker\u00adtoi hen\u00adki\u00adsek\u00adsi i\u00e4k\u00adseen kak\u00adsi\u00adtois\u00adta. Maan\u00admie\u00adhen\u00ads\u00e4 Ivan M. Vino\u00adgra\u00addo\u00advin, joka oli pit\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n Neu\u00advos\u00adto\u00adlii\u00adton tie\u00addea\u00adka\u00adte\u00admian vah\u00adva ja pel\u00e4t\u00adty j\u00e4sen, i\u00e4k\u00adsi h\u00e4n ilmoit\u00adti kah\u00addek\u00adsan. Se vas\u00adta\u00adsi Kol\u00admo\u00adgo\u00adro\u00advin mukaan ik\u00e4\u00e4, jol\u00adloin pik\u00adku\u00adpo\u00adjat repi\u00adv\u00e4t per\u00adho\u00adsil\u00adta sii\u00adpi\u00e4 ja k\u00f6yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t kis\u00adso\u00adjen h\u00e4n\u00adtiin van\u00adho\u00adja pel\u00adti\u00adpurk\u00adke\u00adja.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/22\/lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin\/#post224-qdah95dhnb2rl6lk4kjmj4ntg\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post224-gu5chxbnupg6hc2wi4l4laxhx\">Vas\u00adtae\u00adsi\u00admerk\u00adkien l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adnen Kol\u00admo\u00adgo\u00adro\u00advin teo\u00adrial\u00adle ei luul\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti ole vai\u00adke\u00adaa, vaik\u00adka se n\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4\u00adkin usein ole\u00advan h\u00e4m\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adtyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n oikeas\u00adsa. \u00c4\u00e4rim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adnen tapaus tulee mie\u00adleen: kol\u00adle\u00adgan ik\u00e4 on noin kuusi ja sii\u00adt\u00e4 syn\u00adtyy k\u00e4y\u00adt\u00e4n\u00adn\u00f6l\u00adli\u00adsi\u00e4 ongel\u00admia, kun h\u00e4nen on esi\u00admer\u00adkik\u00adsi mat\u00adkus\u00adtet\u00adta\u00adva yksin. Kol\u00adle\u00adga menes\u00adtyy mate\u00admaa\u00adtik\u00adko\u00adna suh\u00adteel\u00adli\u00adsen hyvin, mut\u00adten usko, ett\u00e4 h\u00e4n sel\u00adviy\u00adtyi\u00adsi fyy\u00adsi\u00adkoi\u00adden aggres\u00adsii\u00advi\u00adsem\u00admas\u00adsa yhtei\u00ads\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/22\/lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin\/#post224-gu5chxbnupg6hc2wi4l4laxhx\">#<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p id=\"post224-hsga4k695v2snn80mq464hvbo\">Hel\u00adlyyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n yksin\u00adker\u00adtai\u00adnen teo\u00adria, jos\u00adkin tus\u00adkin t\u00e4y\u00adsin vail\u00adla perus\u00adtei\u00adta havain\u00adnois\u00adsa todel\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adta. V\u00e4it\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adsin jopa, ett\u00e4 n\u00e4in yksin\u00adker\u00adtai\u00adsel\u00adla tasol\u00adla sama nyrk\u00adki\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adt\u00f6 p\u00e4tee min\u00adk\u00e4 tahan\u00adsa v\u00e4ke\u00adv\u00e4n lah\u00adjak\u00adkuu\u00adden ja hen\u00adki\u00adsen kas\u00advun suh\u00adtee\u00adseen, ei pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n mate\u00admaa\u00adti\u00adkoi\u00adhin. Veik\u00adkaan, ett\u00e4 mik\u00e4\u00adli asi\u00adaa tut\u00adkit\u00adtai\u00adsiin, ettei tar\u00advit\u00adsi\u00adsi noja\u00adta pelk\u00adkiin mutu-spe\u00adku\u00adlaa\u00adtioi\u00adhin, jon\u00adkin\u00adlais\u00adta kor\u00adre\u00adlaa\u00adtio\u00adta asioi\u00adden v\u00e4lil\u00adle l\u00f6ytyisi.Rohkenen v\u00e4it\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, ett\u00e4 aina\u00adkin, mik\u00e4\u00adli t\u00e4t\u00e4 asi\u00adaa oli\u00adsi tut\u00adkit\u00adtu Neu\u00advos\u00adto\u00adlii\u00adtos\u00adsa, kor\u00adre\u00adlaa\u00adtio\u00adta n\u00e4i\u00adden asioi\u00adden v\u00e4lil\u00adle oli\u00adsi l\u00f6y\u00adty\u00adnyt joh\u00adtuen sii\u00adt\u00e4 surul\u00adli\u00adses\u00adta tavas\u00adta jol\u00adla NL:ssa lap\u00adsi\u00adne\u00adro\u00adja hy\u00f6\u00addyn\u00adnet\u00adtiin hei\u00add\u00e4n pro\u00adpa\u00adgan\u00adda-arvon\u00adsa takia. Sii\u00adt\u00e4 ei kui\u00adten\u00adkaan voi vet\u00e4\u00e4 auto\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti tuo\u00adta Kol\u00admo\u00adgo\u00adro\u00advin joh\u00adto\u00adp\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6s\u00adt\u00e4\u00adN\u00e4in siis sii\u00adn\u00e4 tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa, ett\u00e4 Ruel\u00adlen sitee\u00adraus ei v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adris\u00adte\u00adle h\u00e4nen tar\u00adkoi\u00adtus\u00adtaan tahal\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti tai tahat\u00adto\u00admas\u00adti, enk\u00e4 itse lue sit\u00e4 omiin tar\u00adkoi\u00adtus\u00adpe\u00adrii\u00adni sopi\u00advas\u00adti v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrin., ett\u00e4 mate\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adnen lah\u00adjak\u00adkuus ilmes\u00adtyes\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n kat\u00adkai\u00adsee hen\u00adki\u00adsen kehi\u00adtyk\u00adsen. Onhan t\u00e4y\u00adsin mah\u00addol\u00adlis\u00adta, ett\u00e4 hen\u00adki\u00adnen kas\u00advu n\u00e4i\u00adden ihmis\u00adten koh\u00addal\u00adla p\u00e4\u00e4t\u00adtyy samoi\u00adhin aikoi\u00adhin, kun mate\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adnen lah\u00adjak\u00adkuus ilmaan\u00adtuu, <em>ilman,<\/em> ett\u00e4 nii\u00adden v\u00e4lil\u00adl\u00e4 on mit\u00e4\u00e4n sen kum\u00admem\u00adpaa kes\u00adki\u00adn\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 yhteyt\u00adt\u00e4 kuin t\u00e4m\u00e4 yhden\u00adai\u00adkai\u00adsuus.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/22\/lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin\/#post224-hsga4k695v2snn80mq464hvbo\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post224-lophrmf3j2pov0uwqmsvyi5be\">Eli t\u00e4m\u00e4n mai\u00adni\u00adtun tapauk\u00adsen, jos\u00adsa hen\u00adki\u00adnen kas\u00advu tait\u00adtuu kun mate\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adnen lah\u00adjak\u00adkuus ilmes\u00adtyy, ohel\u00adla on hel\u00adpos\u00adti (kuten Ruel\u00adle\u00adkin edel\u00adl\u00e4 tote\u00adaa) kuvi\u00adtel\u00adta\u00advis\u00adsa aina\u00adkin seu\u00adraa\u00advat rin\u00adnak\u00adkais\u00adta\u00adpauk\u00adset:&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/22\/lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin\/#post224-lophrmf3j2pov0uwqmsvyi5be\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Lah\u00adjak\u00adkuu\u00adden ilmes\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen ei tapah\u00addu samaan aikaan kuin hen\u00adki\u00adsen kas\u00advun kat\u00adkea\u00admi\u00adnen; hen\u00adki\u00adnen kas\u00advu on joko kat\u00adken\u00adnut jo aikai\u00adsem\u00admin, tai sit\u00adten se jat\u00adkuu vie\u00adl\u00e4 lah\u00adjak\u00adkuu\u00adden ilmaan\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adsen j\u00e4lkeenkin.<\/li>\n<li>Hen\u00adki\u00adsen kas\u00advun kat\u00adkea\u00admi\u00adseen ei lii\u00adty min\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adlais\u00adta lah\u00adjak\u00adkuu\u00adden ilmaan\u00adtu\u00admis\u00adta, jol\u00adloin hen\u00adki\u00adl\u00f6 j\u00e4\u00e4 edel\u00adl\u00e4 kuva\u00adtun kal\u00adtais\u00adten spe\u00adku\u00adlaa\u00adtioi\u00adden ulko\u00adpuo\u00adlel\u00adle (kos\u00adka ne k\u00e4sit\u00adte\u00adli\u00adv\u00e4t nime\u00adno\u00admaan lah\u00adjak\u00adkai\u00adta); hen\u00adki\u00adl\u00f6l\u00adl\u00e4 on kui\u00adten\u00adkin poten\u00adti\u00adaa\u00adli lah\u00adjak\u00adkuu\u00adteen peri\u00adm\u00e4n\u00ads\u00e4 kaut\u00adta, mut\u00adta poten\u00adti\u00adaa\u00adli ei vain syys\u00adt\u00e4 tai toi\u00adses\u00adta aktua\u00adli\u00adsoi\u00addu kriit\u00adti\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4 i\u00e4ss\u00e4.Kriittisell\u00e4 i\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 tar\u00adkoi\u00adtan t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 ik\u00e4\u00e4, jos\u00adsa tuo lah\u00adjak\u00adkuus ilme\u00adni\u00adsi jos oli\u00adsi ilme\u00adt\u00e4k\u00adseen. Kuten itse poten\u00adti\u00adaa\u00adli, se on siis hen\u00adki\u00adl\u00f6n peri\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n sidot\u00adtu, eik\u00e4 abso\u00adluut\u00adti, toi\u00adsin kuin hie\u00adman huo\u00adnos\u00adti valit\u00adse\u00adma\u00adni att\u00adri\u00adbuut\u00adti <em>kriit\u00adti\u00adnen<\/em> ehk\u00e4 antai\u00adsi ymm\u00e4rt\u00e4\u00e4.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p id=\"post224-hxv8ccx4kaugewgrdb3nsv6ox\">Ilman var\u00adsi\u00adnai\u00adsia tut\u00adki\u00admuk\u00adsia aiheesta[alaviite]Onko sel\u00adlai\u00adsia tut\u00adki\u00admuk\u00adsia? En tie\u00add\u00e4. Peri\u00adaat\u00adtees\u00adsa se on t\u00e4y\u00adsin mahdollista.[\/alaviite] t\u00e4m\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ei kui\u00adten\u00adkaan ole pelk\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4 spe\u00adku\u00adloin\u00adtia kum\u00admem\u00adpaa, tai sen arvok\u00adkaam\u00adpaa tie\u00adtoa kuin Kol\u00admo\u00adgo\u00adro\u00advin n\u00e4ke\u00admys asias\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/22\/lapsuus-loppuu-liian-aikaisin\/#post224-hxv8ccx4kaugewgrdb3nsv6ox\">#<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kale\u00adva&nbsp;# Olen luke\u00adnut Sat\u00adtu\u00admaa ja kaa\u00ados\u00adta vas\u00adta kuusi sivua, mut\u00adta jo t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 tulee ensim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adnen lai\u00adnat\u00adta\u00adva koh\u00adta vas\u00adtaan.&nbsp;# Usein mate\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adnen lah\u00adjak\u00adkuus kehit\u00adtyy var\u00adhai\u00adses\u00adsa i\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4. Kuu\u00adlu ven\u00e4\u00adl\u00e4i\u00adnen mate\u00admaa\u00adtik\u00adko Andrei N. Kol\u00admo\u00adgo\u00adrov lis\u00e4\u00adsi t\u00e4h\u00e4n ylei\u00adseen havain\u00adtoon eri\u00adkoi\u00adsen ehdo\u00adtuk\u00adsen. H\u00e4n v\u00e4it\u00adti, ett\u00e4 ihmi\u00adsen nor\u00admaa\u00adli psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adnen kehi\u00adtys pys\u00e4h\u00adtyy sil\u00adloin, kun mate\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adnen lah\u00adjak\u00adkuus ilmaan\u00adtuu. Niin\u00adp\u00e4 Kol\u00admo\u00adgo\u00adrov ker\u00adtoi hen\u00adki\u00adsek\u00adsi i\u00e4k\u00adseen kak\u00adsi\u00adtois\u00adta. Maanmiehens\u00e4&nbsp;[\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=224"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24075,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224\/revisions\/24075"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}