{"id":24558,"date":"2011-11-17T14:19:19","date_gmt":"2011-11-17T12:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=24558"},"modified":"2011-11-17T14:19:19","modified_gmt":"2011-11-17T12:19:19","slug":"lapsi-ja-aikuinen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2011\/11\/17\/lapsi-ja-aikuinen\/","title":{"rendered":"Lapsi ja aikuinen"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alus\u00adsa on \u201clap\u00adsi\u201d. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Valkoinen #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cLap\u00adsi\u201d kes\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 vas\u00adtoin\u00adk\u00e4y\u00admi\u00adsi\u00e4, eri\u00adtyi\u00adses\u00adti pet\u00adty\u00admyk\u00adsi\u00e4 huo\u00adnos\u00adti, joten ajan my\u00f6\u00adt\u00e4 psyy\u00adke kehit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 \u201clap\u00adsen\u201d ymp\u00e4\u00adril\u00adle suo\u00adjak\u00adsi \u201caikui\u00adsen\u201d. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Valkoinen #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cAikui\u00adnen\u201d suo\u00adje\u00adlee psyy\u00adket\u00adt\u00e4 pet\u00adty\u00admyk\u00adsil\u00adt\u00e4 eri kei\u00adnoil\u00adla, jois\u00adta yksi on \u201clap\u00adsen\u201d kiel\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adnen: \u201caikui\u00adnen\u201d est\u00e4\u00e4 \u201clas\u00adta\u201d toteut\u00adta\u00admas\u00adta itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n, el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 \u201clap\u00adsen\u201d halua\u00admal\u00adla taval\u00adla. Suo\u00adje\u00adlu\u00adme\u00adka\u00adnis\u00admi perus\u00adtu\u00adnee useim\u00admi\u00adten ajal\u00adli\u00adseen vaih\u00adto\u00adkaup\u00adpaan: \u201caikui\u00adnen\u201d lupaa \u201clap\u00adsel\u00adle\u201d, ett\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4n alis\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta kiel\u00adtoon t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 tilan\u00adtees\u00adsa seu\u00adraa sal\u00adlit\u00adtua itsen toteut\u00adta\u00admis\u00adta jos\u00adsain my\u00f6\u00adhem\u00adm\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 tilan\u00adtees\u00adsa. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Harmaa #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cAikui\u00adsen\u201d kehit\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen voi h\u00e4i\u00adriin\u00adty\u00e4 eri tavoin. \u201cAikui\u00adnen\u201d voi esi\u00admer\u00adkik\u00adsi j\u00e4\u00e4\u00add\u00e4 kei\u00adnoil\u00adtaan vail\u00adli\u00adnai\u00adsek\u00adsi, jol\u00adloin my\u00f6s sen mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00addet suo\u00adjel\u00adla \u201clas\u00adta\u201d pet\u00adty\u00admyk\u00adsil\u00adt\u00e4 ovat vaja\u00advai\u00adset. \u201cLap\u00adsi\u201d toteut\u00adtaa itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n enem\u00adm\u00e4n kuin pet\u00adty\u00admyk\u00adsien v\u00e4lt\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adsen kan\u00adnal\u00adta oli\u00adsi paras\u00adta, k\u00e4y\u00adt\u00f6s saat\u00adtaa ulko\u00adpuo\u00adli\u00adses\u00adta vai\u00adkut\u00adtaa impul\u00adsii\u00advi\u00adsel\u00adta. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Valkoinen #<\/a><\/p>\n

Toi\u00adsaal\u00adta \u201caikui\u00adnen\u201d voi yli\u00adke\u00adhit\u00adty\u00e4. N\u00e4in voi tapah\u00adtua sil\u00adloin, kun psyy\u00adke jou\u00adtuu olo\u00adsuh\u00adtei\u00adden takia kehit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n \u201caikui\u00adsen\u201d \u201clap\u00adsen\u201d suo\u00adjak\u00adsi lii\u00adan var\u00adhain, ja se sy\u00f6 tilaa vie\u00adl\u00e4 kehit\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4 \u201clap\u00adsel\u00adta\u201d. #<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Pieni #<\/a><\/p>\n

Yli\u00adke\u00adhit\u00adty\u00adneen \u201caikui\u00adsen\u201d psy\u00adko\u00adpa\u00adto\u00adlo\u00adgia on eri\u00adtyi\u00adsen mie\u00adlen\u00adkiin\u00adtoi\u00adnen ja sil\u00adti suh\u00adteel\u00adli\u00adsen hei\u00adkos\u00adti tun\u00adnet\u00adtu. J\u00e4l\u00adkim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adnen saat\u00adtaa joh\u00adtua sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 pato\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adsi\u00adna\u00adkin n\u00e4m\u00e4 ihmi\u00adset pysy\u00adv\u00e4t toi\u00admin\u00adta\u00adky\u00adkyi\u00adsi\u00adn\u00e4, ja toi\u00admin\u00adta\u00adky\u00adkyn\u00ads\u00e4 mene\u00adtet\u00adty\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n he muut\u00adtu\u00advat pikem\u00admin\u00adkin pas\u00adsii\u00advi\u00adsik\u00adsi acting outin<\/em><\/a> sijaan. Pato\u00adlo\u00adgias\u00adsaan\u00adkin he ovat j\u00e4r\u00adjes\u00adtel\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adli\u00adsi\u00e4 ja saat\u00adta\u00advat alis\u00adtaa my\u00f6s per\u00adheen\u00ads\u00e4, ty\u00f6\u00adpaik\u00adkan\u00adsa, tai tut\u00adta\u00adva\u00adpii\u00adrin\u00ads\u00e4 sil\u00adle sen sijaan, ett\u00e4 ajau\u00adtui\u00adsi\u00advat poik\u00adkea\u00advuu\u00adten\u00adsa takia ymp\u00e4\u00adris\u00adt\u00f6n\u00ads\u00e4 kans\u00adsa suo\u00adraan vai\u00adkeuk\u00adsiin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Yli\u00adke\u00adhit\u00adty\u00adneen \u201caikui\u00adsen\u201d ongel\u00admak\u00adsi saat\u00adtaa muo\u00addos\u00adtua ali\u00adke\u00adhit\u00adty\u00adneek\u00adsi j\u00e4\u00e4\u00adnyt \u201clap\u00adsi\u201d. Kun \u201clap\u00adsi\u201d ava\u00adtaan ajal\u00adli\u00adsel\u00adle kuvaa\u00adjal\u00adle, sil\u00adl\u00e4 on oma kehi\u00adtys\u00adkaa\u00adren\u00adsa. Mik\u00e4\u00adli lii\u00adan var\u00adhain muo\u00addos\u00adtu\u00adnut \u201caikui\u00adnen\u201d kes\u00adkeyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4n kehi\u00adtyk\u00adsen kulun ennen kuin se on saa\u00advut\u00adta\u00adnut luon\u00adnol\u00adli\u00adsen lop\u00adpun\u00adsa, \u201clap\u00adsi\u201d j\u00e4\u00e4 tyy\u00addyt\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n tilaan. Psyy\u00adkel\u00adt\u00e4 puut\u00adtuu koke\u00admus \u201clap\u00adsen\u201d kei\u00adno\u00adjen riit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00admyy\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4, eik\u00e4 \u201clap\u00adsi\u201d alis\u00adtu \u201caikui\u00adsen\u201d kiel\u00adtoi\u00adhin uskos\u00adta pysy\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4n omaan par\u00adhaa\u00adseen\u00adsa, vaan olo\u00adsuh\u00adtei\u00adden pakos\u00adta. \u201cLap\u00adsi\u201d tur\u00advau\u00adtuu \u201caikui\u00adseen\u201d j\u00e4\u00e4\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n odot\u00adta\u00admaan parem\u00adpia aiko\u00adja, toi\u00advee\u00adnaan p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 j\u00e4l\u00adleen toteut\u00adta\u00admaan itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n, kul\u00adke\u00admaan kes\u00adkey\u00adty\u00adneen kehi\u00adtyk\u00adsen\u00ads\u00e4 lop\u00adpuun. T\u00e4m\u00e4 pyr\u00adki\u00admys saat\u00adtaa ilme\u00adt\u00e4 acting outi\u00adna<\/em>. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Yli\u00adke\u00adhit\u00adty\u00adnyt \u201caikui\u00adnen\u00adkin\u201d yleen\u00ads\u00e4 sal\u00adlii \u201clap\u00adsen\u201d toteut\u00adtaa jos\u00adsain m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrin itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n. Tuon m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4n pie\u00adnuus hei\u00adjas\u00adte\u00adlee kui\u00adten\u00adkin \u201caikui\u00adsen\u201d ja \u201clap\u00adsen\u201d pai\u00adnoar\u00advo\u00adjen ep\u00e4\u00adsuh\u00adtaa vii\u00admei\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4 kuvas\u00adsa. Pahim\u00admil\u00adlaan psyy\u00adke voi olla niin \u201caikui\u00adsek\u00adsi\u201d luk\u00adkiu\u00adtu\u00adnut, ettei en\u00e4\u00e4 omin kei\u00adnoin kyke\u00adne p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n \u201clas\u00adta\u201d irral\u00adleen, vaan tar\u00advit\u00adsee sii\u00adhen esi\u00admer\u00adkik\u00adsi p\u00e4ih\u00adtei\u00adt\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cLap\u00adsi\u201d kes\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 vas\u00adtoin\u00adk\u00e4y\u00admi\u00adsi\u00e4, eri\u00adtyi\u00adsesti pet\u00adty\u00admyk\u00adsi\u00e4 huo\u00adnosti, joten ajan my\u00f6\u00adt\u00e4 psyy\u00adke kehit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 \u201clap\u00adsen\u201d ymp\u00e4\u00adrille suo\u00adjaksi \u201caikui\u00adsen\u201d. T\u00e4m\u00e4 kehi\u00adtys voi h\u00e4i\u00adriin\u00adty\u00e4 eri tavoin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[104,1304,1986],"class_list":["post-24558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-aikuinen","tag-lapsi","tag-psykologia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24558","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24558"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24558\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24582,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24558\/revisions\/24582"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24558"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24558"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24558"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}