{"id":246,"date":"2004-07-13T12:33:17","date_gmt":"2004-07-13T10:33:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/skm\/?p=246"},"modified":"2011-10-07T18:48:29","modified_gmt":"2011-10-07T15:48:29","slug":"viisi-kohtaa-mustasukkaisuudesta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/07\/13\/viisi-kohtaa-mustasukkaisuudesta\/","title":{"rendered":"Viisi kohtaa mustasukkaisuudesta"},"content":{"rendered":"

No jopas on fik\u00adsu kom\u00adment\u00adti<\/a> moros\u00adkoo\u00adpis\u00adsa. En juu\u00adri\u00adkaan oli\u00adsi voi\u00adnut sanoa tuo\u00adta parem\u00admin. Tosin pai\u00adno\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adni oli\u00adsi ollut hie\u00adman toi\u00adsen\u00adlai\u00adnen. Ano\u00adnyy\u00admi (onko\u00adhan h\u00e4nel\u00adl\u00e4 blo\u00adgia?) sanoo: #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026mus\u00adta\u00adsuk\u00adkai\u00adsuu\u00adden tun\u00adnet\u00adta sin\u00e4n\u00ads\u00e4 ei voi v\u00e4lt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, joten ei sit\u00e4 kan\u00adna\u00adta h\u00e4ve\u00adt\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n.\u201d #<\/a><\/p>\n

Posi\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adnen ajat\u00adte\u00adlu\u00adta\u00adpa, mut\u00adta ent\u00e4\u00adp\u00e4 k\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adt\u00f6\u00adpuo\u00adli? Mus\u00adta\u00adsuk\u00adkai\u00adsuus on aina\u00adkin minul\u00adle yksi vai\u00adkeim\u00admis\u00adta, ellei jopa vai\u00adkein tun\u00adne\u00adti\u00adla k\u00e4si\u00adtel\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4k\u00adsi. Itse asias\u00adsa v\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4n, ett\u00e4 juu\u00adri tuos\u00adsa kom\u00admen\u00adtis\u00adsa\u00adkin mai\u00adni\u00adtus\u00adta geneet\u00adti\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 ohjel\u00admoin\u00adnis\u00adta joh\u00adtuen ei ole ole\u00admas\u00adsa\u00adkaan mit\u00e4\u00e4n kei\u00adnoa \u201ck\u00e4si\u00adtel\u00adl\u00e4\u201d sit\u00e4; mik\u00adsi ihmees\u00ads\u00e4 luon\u00adto\u00ad\u00e4i\u00adti oli\u00adsi ampu\u00adnut itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n sil\u00adl\u00e4 taval\u00adla jal\u00adkaan? T\u00e4m\u00e4 on ensim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adnen koh\u00adta.<\/strong> #<\/a><\/p>\n

Toi\u00adnen koh\u00adta<\/strong> on se, ett\u00e4 mies ja nai\u00adnen ovat kak\u00adsi eri ihmis\u00adt\u00e4, joil\u00adla molem\u00admil\u00adla on oma gee\u00adni\u00adpe\u00adri\u00adm\u00e4 ja jot\u00adka n\u00e4in ollen aja\u00advat kah\u00adta toi\u00adsis\u00adtaan poik\u00adkea\u00advaa p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4\u00e4. Hei\u00add\u00e4n yhteen\u00adliit\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4n\u00ads\u00e4 on aina gee\u00adnien kan\u00adnal\u00adta vain tila\u00adp\u00e4i\u00adnen ilmi\u00f6, jon\u00adka kes\u00adto vie\u00adl\u00e4\u00adp\u00e4 sekin poik\u00adke\u00adaa suku\u00adpuol\u00adten v\u00e4lil\u00adl\u00e4 toi\u00adsis\u00adtaan. Mie\u00adhel\u00adl\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4n saa\u00advut\u00adta\u00admi\u00adnen vie lyhyim\u00admil\u00adl\u00e4\u00e4n vain joi\u00adtain sekun\u00adte\u00adja, kun taas nai\u00adnen jou\u00adtuu uhraa\u00admaan lis\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adty\u00admi\u00adsen\u00ads\u00e4 eteen mel\u00adkein koko\u00adnai\u00adsen vuo\u00adden (yhdek\u00ads\u00e4n kuu\u00adkaut\u00adta). #<\/a><\/p>\n

Kol\u00admas koh\u00adta<\/strong> on seu\u00adraus\u00adta sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 lis\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adty\u00admi\u00adsen tulok\u00adse\u00adna syn\u00adty\u00adv\u00e4 j\u00e4l\u00adki\u00adkas\u00advu ei ole pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n toi\u00adsen van\u00adhem\u00adman peri\u00adm\u00e4n tulos, vaan kan\u00adtaa muka\u00adnaan my\u00f6s toi\u00adsen osa\u00adpuo\u00adlen gee\u00adne\u00adj\u00e4. Niin\u00adp\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6s lis\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adty\u00admis\u00adkump\u00adpa\u00adnis\u00adta ei ole gee\u00adnien kan\u00adnal\u00adta yhden\u00adte\u00adke\u00adv\u00e4. Edel\u00adlis\u00adkoh\u00addan takia t\u00e4m\u00e4 ei tuo\u00adta ongel\u00admia mie\u00adhel\u00adle, jon\u00adka uhraus rajoit\u00adtuu mai\u00adnit\u00adtui\u00adhin sekun\u00adtei\u00adhin; h\u00e4nen tar\u00advit\u00adsee vain vakuut\u00adtaa kump\u00adpa\u00adnik\u00adsi valit\u00adse\u00adman\u00adsa nai\u00adnen oman peri\u00adm\u00e4n\u00ads\u00e4 kel\u00advol\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adta. Nai\u00adsen on puo\u00adles\u00adtaan olta\u00adva pal\u00adjon huo\u00adlel\u00adli\u00adsem\u00adpi valin\u00adnas\u00adsaan, kos\u00adka sen seu\u00adrauk\u00adset m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t sen, tule\u00advat\u00adko h\u00e4nen jat\u00adkos\u00adsa mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti valin\u00adnal\u00adleen uhraa\u00adman\u00adsa yhdek\u00ads\u00e4n kuu\u00adkaut\u00adta kan\u00adnat\u00adta\u00admaan. #<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 yhtey\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4 on kui\u00adten\u00adkin syy\u00adt\u00e4 koros\u00adtaa, ett\u00e4 peri\u00adm\u00e4n kel\u00advol\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00addel\u00adla ei ole mit\u00e4\u00e4n<\/em> teke\u00admis\u00adt\u00e4 sen kans\u00adsa, mit\u00e4 ylei\u00adses\u00adti pide\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n ihmi\u00adsen kel\u00advol\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00adte\u00adna. Itse asias\u00adsa tie\u00adtoi\u00adsil\u00adla ja moraa\u00adli\u00adsil\u00adla p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsil\u00adl\u00e4 ei juu\u00adri\u00adkaan ole teke\u00admis\u00adt\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4n valin\u00adnan kans\u00adsa, vaan se teh\u00add\u00e4\u00e4n jos\u00adsain lim\u00adbi\u00adsen j\u00e4r\u00adjes\u00adtel\u00adm\u00e4n<\/a> [hus.fi] sy\u00f6\u00adve\u00adreis\u00ads\u00e4, luul\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti mel\u00adko pit\u00adk\u00e4l\u00adti haju\u00adjen ja mui\u00adden ais\u00adtien varassa.Selitykseni on kar\u00adkea yksin\u00adker\u00adtais\u00adtus. Jos halu\u00adaa hie\u00adman tar\u00adkem\u00adpaa tie\u00adtoa ilman n\u00e4in jul\u00admet\u00adtua paa\u00adtos\u00adta, kan\u00adnat\u00adtaa lukea vaik\u00adka\u00adpa \u201cAlas\u00adto\u00adman api\u00adnan myyt\u00adti\u201d<\/a> Skep\u00adsik\u00adsen sivuil\u00adta. Vas\u00adta sen j\u00e4l\u00adkeen alkaa kog\u00adni\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adnen toi\u00admin\u00adta, jol\u00adla kehi\u00adte\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n seli\u00adtyk\u00adsi\u00e4 van\u00adhem\u00admil\u00adle, suku\u00adlai\u00adsil\u00adle ja itsel\u00adle (\u201ckomea\/kaunis\u201d, \u201ciha\u00adna\u201d, \u201ckilt\u00adti\u201d, \u201cherk\u00adk\u00e4\u201d, \u201cvoi\u00adma\u00adkas\u201d jne). #<\/a><\/p>\n

Nel\u00adj\u00e4s koh\u00adta<\/strong> on isyys: mie\u00adhen ei kan\u00adna\u00adta uhra\u00adta resurs\u00adse\u00adjaan nai\u00adseen, joka ei kan\u00adna muka\u00adnaan h\u00e4nen\u00adkin gee\u00adne\u00adj\u00e4\u00e4n, mut\u00adta nii\u00adden uhraa\u00admi\u00adnen pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n yhteen nai\u00adseen on sekin tuh\u00adlaus\u00adta. Yhdek\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n kuu\u00adkau\u00adteen mah\u00adtuu mon\u00adta sekun\u00adtia. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Vii\u00addes koh\u00adta<\/strong> on \u00e4itiys: nai\u00adsen ei kan\u00adna\u00adta uhra\u00adta resurs\u00adse\u00adjaan mie\u00adheen, joka on val\u00admis uhraa\u00admaan omat resurs\u00adsin\u00adsa pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n h\u00e4neen. Sijoi\u00adtus kier\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4n puk\u00adkiin on pal\u00adjon kan\u00adnat\u00adta\u00advam\u00adpi, kos\u00adka sil\u00adloin mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adnen poi\u00adka\u00adlap\u00adsi levit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 h\u00e4n\u00adkin \u00e4idil\u00adt\u00e4 saa\u00admi\u00adaan gee\u00adne\u00adj\u00e4 toden\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6i\u00adses\u00adti mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adsim\u00adman laa\u00adjal\u00adle. Kos\u00adka itse sijoi\u00adtus\u00adta\u00adpah\u00adtu\u00adma vie vain nuo jo mai\u00adni\u00adtut muu\u00adta\u00admat sekun\u00adnit, se ei sido nais\u00adta t\u00e4h\u00e4n mie\u00adheen vaan sen j\u00e4l\u00adkeen h\u00e4n voi, ja h\u00e4nen kan\u00adnat\u00adtaa sitoa itseen\u00ads\u00e4 juu\u00adri p\u00e4in\u00advas\u00adtai\u00adnen mies, joka uhraa resurs\u00adsin\u00adsa pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n h\u00e4neen tie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4 sijoi\u00adtuk\u00adsen\u00adsa ole\u00advan tur\u00adha. #<\/a><\/p>\n

P\u00e4\u00e4\u00adtel\u00adm\u00e4t<\/strong>
Ihmi\u00adnen ei ole ty\u00f6\u00adl\u00e4is\u00admuu\u00adra\u00adhai\u00adnen<\/a>, joka voi vain aut\u00adtaa mui\u00adta lis\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n puo\u00adles\u00adtaan. Vali\u00adtet\u00adta\u00advan monet ihmi\u00adset on vain nitis\u00adtet\u00adty sel\u00adlai\u00adseen roo\u00adliin, jon\u00adka aiheut\u00adta\u00adman k\u00e4r\u00adsi\u00admyk\u00adsen he sit\u00adten nie\u00adle\u00adv\u00e4t uskon\u00adnon tai muun yht\u00e4 pahas\u00adti har\u00adhai\u00adsen ajat\u00adte\u00adlun voi\u00admal\u00adla. Vali\u00adtet\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti edel\u00adl\u00e4 kuvai\u00adle\u00adma\u00adni luon\u00adnol\u00adli\u00adnen vaih\u00adtoeh\u00adto on vie\u00adl\u00e4\u00adkin kivu\u00adli\u00adaam\u00adpi. Mut\u00adta \u00e4iti luon\u00adto\u00adhan ei piit\u00adtaa ihmi\u00adsen k\u00e4r\u00adsi\u00admyk\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4, vaan vain sii\u00adt\u00e4, kuin\u00adka hyvin h\u00e4nen meka\u00adnis\u00adti\u00adsia p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adri\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n toteu\u00adte\u00adtaan. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No jopas on fik\u00adsu kom\u00adment\u00adti moros\u00adkoo\u00adpis\u00adsa. En juu\u00adri\u00adkaan oli\u00adsi voi\u00adnut sanoa tuo\u00adta parem\u00admin. Tosin pai\u00adno\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adni oli\u00adsi ollut hie\u00adman toi\u00adsen\u00adlai\u00adnen. Ano\u00adnyy\u00admi (onko\u00adhan h\u00e4nel\u00adl\u00e4 blo\u00adgia?) sanoo: # \u201c\u2026mus\u00adta\u00adsuk\u00adkai\u00adsuu\u00adden tun\u00adnet\u00adta sin\u00e4n\u00ads\u00e4 ei voi v\u00e4lt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, joten ei sit\u00e4 kan\u00adna\u00adta h\u00e4ve\u00adt\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n.\u201d # Posi\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adnen ajat\u00adte\u00adlu\u00adta\u00adpa, mut\u00adta ent\u00e4\u00adp\u00e4 k\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adt\u00f6\u00adpuo\u00adli? Mus\u00adta\u00adsuk\u00adkai\u00adsuus on aina\u00adkin minul\u00adle yksi vai\u00adkeim\u00admis\u00adta, ellei jopa vai\u00adkein tun\u00adne\u00adti\u00adla k\u00e4si\u00adtel\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4k\u00adsi. Itse asias\u00adsa v\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4n, ett\u00e4 [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-246","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/246","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=246"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/246\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24056,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/246\/revisions\/24056"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=246"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=246"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=246"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}