{"id":25011,"date":"2012-01-30T19:10:31","date_gmt":"2012-01-30T17:10:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=25011"},"modified":"2012-01-30T19:10:31","modified_gmt":"2012-01-30T17:10:31","slug":"paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00e4iv\u00e4npaiste ja parisuhdehaaste"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"post25011-dkr35hl0iy60k1rmieb9seud9\">Olen miet\u00adti\u00adnyt ket\u00e4 naa\u00adpu\u00adrin set\u00e4 h\u00e4m\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4s\u00adti muis\u00adtut\u00adtaa. T\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n sen kek\u00adka\u00adsin: <a href=\"https:\/\/fi.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/John_Wayne_Gacy\" title=\"Wikipedia: John Wayne Gacy\"><strong>Gacy\u00adh\u00e4n<\/strong><\/a> se.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/#post25011-dkr35hl0iy60k1rmieb9seud9\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post25011-kf54q4ajiq5bt20xsg3qcp7mx\">Mut\u00adta nyt mee\u00admei\u00adhin.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/#post25011-kf54q4ajiq5bt20xsg3qcp7mx\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post25011-aebpr6bb86j83qqltqultwgge\">Ensin <a href=\"http:\/\/veloenisch.blogspot.com\/2012\/01\/paistepalkinto.html#121901692305648978\" title=\"Veloena: Paistepalkinto\">Pais\u00adte\u00adpal\u00adkin\u00adto, jon\u00adka sain <strong>Veloe\u00adnal\u00adta<\/strong><\/a>. Pit\u00e4\u00e4 kir\u00adjoit\u00adtaa jotain pal\u00adkin\u00adto\u00adku\u00advaan liit\u00adtyen. Ai niin se kuva.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/#post25011-aebpr6bb86j83qqltqultwgge\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post25011-axhvxovvytfmksdjkw9bs62re\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/files\/2012\/01\/sunshine-award.jpg\" alt=\"Oranssi keh\u00e4kukan kukinto, oikeassa yl\u00e4kulmassa teksti sunshine award\" width=\"150\" height=\"146\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-25014\">&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/#post25011-axhvxovvytfmksdjkw9bs62re\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post25011-t404e9cxehi7wd35m6o6ke4rg\">T\u00e4m\u00e4 on kuu\u00adlem\u00adma <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/fi\/wiki\/Tarhakeh%C3%A4kukka\" title=\"Wikipedia: Tarhakeh\u00e4kukka\">keh\u00e4\u00adkuk\u00adka<\/a>. Minun kas\u00advi\u00adtun\u00adte\u00admuk\u00adse\u00adni on aivan onne\u00adton\u00adta, mik\u00e4 joh\u00adtuu pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n sii\u00adt\u00e4, ettei <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/fi\/wiki\/David_Attenborough\" title=\"Wikipedia: David Attenborough\"><strong>David Atten\u00adbo\u00adrough<\/strong><\/a> ole <em>Kas\u00advien maa\u00adil\u00adman<\/em> (<a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/en\/wiki\/The_Private_Life_of_Plants\" title=\"Wikipedia: The Private Life of Plants (englanniksi)\"><em>The Pri\u00adva\u00adte Life of Plants<\/em><\/a>) lis\u00e4k\u00adsi teh\u00adnyt kas\u00advei\u00adhin kes\u00adkit\u00adty\u00adnei\u00adt\u00e4 tele\u00advi\u00adsio\u00adsar\u00adjo\u00adja.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/#post25011-t404e9cxehi7wd35m6o6ke4rg\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post25011-gg4ibg74crb4hd1i6wqwb3w29\">Kuva n\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 netis\u00ads\u00e4\u00adku\u00adlus\u00adsaan kol\u00adhiin\u00adtu\u00adneel\u00adta, joten yri\u00adtin etsi\u00e4 parem\u00adpi\u00adlaa\u00adtuis\u00adta ver\u00adsio\u00adta <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/en\/wiki\/TinEye\" title=\"Wikipedia: TinEye (englanniksi)\">TinEyel\u00adla<\/a>, mut\u00adta se l\u00f6y\u00adsi vain saman\u00adlai\u00adsia tai vie\u00adl\u00e4\u00adkin enem\u00adm\u00e4n uudel\u00adleen\u00adpa\u00adkat\u00adtu\u00adja. Googlen k\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adtei\u00adnen <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/en\/wiki\/Google_Images\" title=\"Wikipedia: Google Images (englanniksi)\">kuva\u00adha\u00adku<\/a> on minus\u00adta TinEye\u00adta huo\u00adnom\u00adpi, mut\u00adta kokei\u00adlin sit\u00e4\u00adkin, eik\u00e4 lyk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00adnyt. <a href=\"https:\/\/commons.wikimedia.org\/wiki\/Category:Calendula_officinalis?uselang=fi\" title=\"Wikimedia Commons: Category:Calendula officinalis\">Wiki\u00adme\u00addia Com\u00admon\u00adsin <em>Calen\u00addu\u00adla offici\u00adna\u00adlis<\/em> -luo\u00adkas\u00adta\u00adkaan<\/a> ei saman\u00adlais\u00adta l\u00f6y\u00adty\u00adnyt.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/#post25011-gg4ibg74crb4hd1i6wqwb3w29\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post25011-emmoyqkcckaeqcnrwsc8885nq\">Pal\u00adkin\u00adtoon kuu\u00adluu my\u00f6s tie\u00adtys\u00adti se pakol\u00adli\u00adnen edel\u00adleen\u00adna\u00adki\u00adtuso\u00adsio, jol\u00adlais\u00adten ansios\u00adta n\u00e4m\u00e4 mee\u00admit aina l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t vii\u00admei\u00adsen lepo\u00adsi\u00adjan\u00adsa t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 blo\u00adgis\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/#post25011-emmoyqkcckaeqcnrwsc8885nq\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post25011-d6fypvxaf9tki6q7onwlanpn2\">Sit\u00adten <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heijastuspinta.fi\/2011\/12\/tyttoystavahaaste.html#2019399560028753541\" title=\"Heijastuspinta: Tytt\u00f6yst\u00e4v\u00e4haaste\">tyt\u00adt\u00f6ys\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adhaas\u00adte, jon\u00adka l\u00f6y\u00adsin <em>Hei\u00adjas\u00adtus\u00adpin\u00adnal\u00adta<\/em><\/a>. T\u00e4n\u00adne sovel\u00adlet\u00adtu\u00adna sii\u00adt\u00e4 tulee poi\u00adkays\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adhaas\u00adte: pit\u00e4\u00e4 ker\u00adtoa vii\u00adsi asi\u00adaa itses\u00adt\u00e4 poi\u00adkays\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2012\/01\/30\/paivanpaiste-ja-parisuhdehaaste\/#post25011-d6fypvxaf9tki6q7onwlanpn2\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Olen ep\u00e4\u00adnor\u00admaa\u00adli<\/strong>. En kai\u00adkin puo\u00adlin, joil\u00adtain osin (esim. fysii\u00adkal\u00adta\u00adni) olen ihan nor\u00admaa\u00adli\u00adkin, mut\u00adta sen sijaan k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00admi\u00adse\u00adni, se miten el\u00e4n el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adni, on sii\u00adn\u00e4 m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrin tavan\u00adomai\u00adses\u00adta poik\u00adkea\u00advaa, ett\u00e4 mik\u00e4\u00adli haluat ns. nor\u00admaa\u00adlin kave\u00adrin, kan\u00adnat\u00adtaa kat\u00adsel\u00adla muu\u00adal\u00adle. Osa omi\u00adtui\u00adsuuk\u00adsis\u00adta\u00adni joh\u00adtuu luon\u00adtees\u00adta\u00adni, osa on opit\u00adtu\u00adja jut\u00adtu\u00adja, mut\u00adta oli\u00advat\u00adpa ne mis\u00adt\u00e4 tahan\u00adsa per\u00e4i\u00adsin, olen\u00adnais\u00adta t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 on se, ett\u00e4 min\u00e4 olen itsee\u00adni t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 suh\u00adtees\u00adsa tyy\u00adty\u00adv\u00e4i\u00adnen, eik\u00e4 siis mit\u00e4\u00e4n toi\u00advei\u00adta salon\u00adki\u00adkel\u00adpoi\u00adsek\u00adsi jalos\u00adta\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta\u00adni todel\u00adla\u00adkaan kan\u00adna\u00adta el\u00e4\u00adtel\u00adl\u00e4. Mik\u00e4\u00adli t\u00e4m\u00e4 oli\u00adsi s\u00e4h\u00adk\u00f6\u00adlait\u00adteen muka\u00adna tule\u00adva englan\u00adnin\u00adkie\u00adli\u00adnen takuu\u00adeh\u00adto\u00adlap\u00adpu\u00adnen, t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 koh\u00adtaa luki\u00adsi <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wiktionary\/fi\/wiki\/versaali\" title=\"Wikisanakirja: versaali\">ver\u00adsaa\u00adlil\u00adla<\/a>, ett\u00e4 tuo\u00adte myy\u00add\u00e4\u00e4n sel\u00adlai\u00adse\u00adnaan (\u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/en\/wiki\/As_is\" title=\"Wikipedia: As is\">AS IS<\/a>\u201d) eik\u00e4 sit\u00e4 pid\u00e4 yrit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 vas\u00adtoin alku\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 k\u00e4ytt\u00f6tarkoitusta.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Yksi\u00adno\u00adle\u00admi\u00adnen on minul\u00adle t\u00e4r\u00adke\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4<\/strong>. Olen <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/fi\/wiki\/Introvertti\" title=\"Wikipedia: Introvertti\">int\u00adro\u00advert\u00adti<\/a> ja lataan akku\u00adja\u00adni sul\u00adkeu\u00adtu\u00admal\u00adla tilaan, jos\u00adsa saan olla fyy\u00adsi\u00adses\u00adti muis\u00adta ihmi\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4 eris\u00adtyk\u00adsis\u00ads\u00e4. T\u00e4m\u00e4 on syy\u00adt\u00e4 nos\u00adtaa esil\u00adle t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 yhtey\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4, sil\u00adl\u00e4 minun koh\u00addal\u00adla\u00adni t\u00e4m\u00e4 p\u00e4tee my\u00f6s pari\u00adsuh\u00adtee\u00adseen: en voi olla kans\u00adsa\u00adsi kah\u00adden loput\u00adto\u00admas\u00adti, sil\u00adl\u00e4 tar\u00advit\u00adsen s\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adn\u00f6l\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti ymp\u00e4\u00adril\u00adle\u00adni abso\u00adluut\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti muis\u00adta ihmi\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4 tyh\u00adj\u00e4\u00e4 tilaa. Mik\u00e4\u00adli olem\u00adme yhteen\u00adso\u00adpi\u00advia, n\u00e4et t\u00e4h\u00e4n sis\u00e4l\u00adty\u00adv\u00e4t mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00addet: my\u00f6s sin\u00e4 saat s\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adn\u00f6l\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti vapaa\u00adta minus\u00adta, ja osaan puo\u00adles\u00adta\u00adni taa\u00adtus\u00adti kun\u00adnioit\u00adtaa sinun tilantarvettasi.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tasa-arvo on minul\u00adle t\u00e4r\u00adke\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4<\/strong>. El\u00e4t\u00adte\u00adlen kyl\u00adl\u00e4 hie\u00adman kuvi\u00adtel\u00admia van\u00adhan\u00adai\u00adkai\u00adsen rita\u00adril\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00adden arvok\u00adkuu\u00addes\u00adta, mut\u00adta se mer\u00adkit\u00adsee l\u00e4hin\u00adn\u00e4 sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 koki\u00adsin itse\u00adni mie\u00adhe\u00adn\u00e4 huo\u00adnok\u00adsi, jos minus\u00adta ei heik\u00adkou\u00adden takia oli\u00adsi sinul\u00adle apua fyy\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4 voi\u00admaa tai kes\u00adt\u00e4\u00advyyt\u00adt\u00e4 vaa\u00adti\u00advis\u00adsa arki\u00adsis\u00adsa asiois\u00adsa. P\u00e4\u00e4\u00adasias\u00adsa kui\u00adten\u00adkin uskon, ett\u00e4 arki\u00adset asiat tulee jakaa suku\u00adpuo\u00adli\u00adriip\u00adpu\u00admat\u00adto\u00admas\u00adti, enem\u00adm\u00e4n jaka\u00adjien tar\u00adpei\u00adden ja k\u00e4y\u00adtet\u00adt\u00e4\u00advis\u00ads\u00e4 ole\u00advien resurs\u00adsien poh\u00adjal\u00adta, prag\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti. T\u00e4m\u00e4n k\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adt\u00f6\u00adpuo\u00adle\u00adna voi\u00adsi pit\u00e4\u00e4 sit\u00e4, etten voi ensin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n sie\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 suku\u00adpuo\u00adleen ja vain suku\u00adpuo\u00adleen nojaa\u00advaa avut\u00adto\u00admak\u00adsi tekey\u00adty\u00admis\u00adt\u00e4. Jos et hei\u00adve\u00adr\u00f6i\u00adsem\u00adm\u00e4n var\u00adte\u00adsi takia pys\u00adty tai tai\u00adto\u00adje\u00adsi puut\u00adteen takia osaa teh\u00add\u00e4 jotain, mihin min\u00e4 pys\u00adtyn, se ei ole ongel\u00adma, mut\u00adta jol\u00adlet ole val\u00admis edes yrit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, perus\u00adte\u00adlet sit\u00e4 sil\u00adl\u00e4 ett\u00e4 olet nai\u00adnen, ja ole\u00adtat minun pit\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n sit\u00e4 joten\u00adkin hert\u00adtai\u00adse\u00adna, olet ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00adnyt rita\u00adril\u00adli\u00adsuus\u00adk\u00e4\u00adsi\u00adtyk\u00adse\u00adni pahas\u00adti v\u00e4\u00e4rin.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Lojaa\u00adliu\u00addes\u00adta ei tin\u00adgi\u00adt\u00e4<\/strong>. T\u00e4m\u00e4 p\u00e4tee molem\u00adpiin suun\u00adtiin. Kun opit tun\u00adte\u00admaan ehdot\u00adto\u00admuu\u00adte\u00adni ja sen, kuin\u00adka j\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4\u00adp\u00e4i\u00adses\u00adti voin pit\u00e4\u00e4 kiin\u00adni asiois\u00adta, voit kai\u00adken sii\u00adt\u00e4 seu\u00adraa\u00advan kit\u00adkan vas\u00adta\u00adpai\u00adnok\u00adsi kyt\u00adke\u00e4 sen my\u00f6s luot\u00adta\u00admuk\u00adseen, sil\u00adl\u00e4 minul\u00adle pet\u00adtu\u00adruus on teki\u00adj\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 riip\u00adpu\u00admat\u00adta (ja siis itse\u00adni mukaan\u00adlu\u00adkien) rikok\u00adsis\u00adta alhaisin.<\/li>\n<li>Nuo yll\u00e4\u00adole\u00advat tun\u00adtui\u00advat sen ver\u00adran ras\u00adkail\u00adta pyk\u00e4\u00adlil\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 t\u00e4h\u00e4n vii\u00admei\u00adsek\u00adsi on pak\u00adko ottaa lop\u00adpu\u00adke\u00adven\u00adnys: <strong>huu\u00admo\u00adri<\/strong> on sen ver\u00adran t\u00e4r\u00adke\u00e4 asia, ett\u00e4 edel\u00adly\u00adt\u00e4n sinul\u00adta sen tajun lis\u00e4k\u00adsi kyky\u00e4 sie\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 toi\u00adsi\u00adnaan \u00e4\u00e4ret\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4n huo\u00adno\u00adja jut\u00adtu\u00adja\u00adni. Ihmi\u00adset, jot\u00adka oppi\u00advat minut tun\u00adte\u00admaan, pit\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t minua yleen\u00ads\u00e4 koh\u00adta\u00adlai\u00adsen haus\u00adka\u00adna veik\u00adko\u00adna. En ole var\u00adsi\u00adnai\u00adnen pel\u00adle\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n, mut\u00adta en pane lei\u00adkin\u00adlas\u00adkua pahak\u00adse\u00adni mel\u00adkein\u00adp\u00e4 kos\u00adkaan enk\u00e4 eten\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n mis\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n aihees\u00adta. Sinun ei tar\u00advit\u00adse nau\u00adraa kai\u00adkel\u00adle mil\u00adle min\u00e4 nau\u00adran, sil\u00adl\u00e4 huu\u00admo\u00adri\u00adni voi usein\u00adkin olla aika mus\u00adtaa. P\u00e4\u00e4\u00adasia ettei sinun\u00adkaan pipo\u00adsi kiris\u00adt\u00e4 liikaa.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ensin Pais\u00adte\u00adpal\u00adkinto, jon\u00adka sain Veloe\u00adnalta. Pit\u00e4\u00e4 kir\u00adjoit\u00adtaa jotain pal\u00adkin\u00adto\u00adku\u00advaan liit\u00adtyen. 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