{"id":2896,"date":"2008-07-10T10:25:59","date_gmt":"2008-07-10T07:25:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=2896"},"modified":"2011-07-21T14:24:39","modified_gmt":"2011-07-21T11:24:39","slug":"itsekasta-empatiaa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/07\/10\/itsekasta-empatiaa\/","title":{"rendered":"Itsek\u00e4st\u00e4 empatiaa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cAut\u00adta\u00admi\u00adsen halun ja tilai\u00adsuu\u00adden tul\u00adles\u00adsa avut\u00adto\u00admuus tun\u00adtuu kur\u00adjal\u00adta. Mel\u00adkein oli\u00adsi mie\u00adlum\u00admin ilman sit\u00e4 tilai\u00adsuut\u00adta tai aut\u00adta\u00admi\u00adsen halua koko\u00adnaan. Avut\u00adto\u00admuus muu\u00adten\u00adkin on toki ik\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4 asia, mut\u00adta sil\u00adloin kun kyse on esi\u00admer\u00adkik\u00adsi itsen\u00ads\u00e4 aut\u00adta\u00admi\u00adsen avut\u00adto\u00admuu\u00addes\u00adta, on kui\u00adten\u00adkin jol\u00adlain tapaa tilan\u00adteen her\u00adra, mut\u00adta sil\u00adloin kun kokee ettei voi halua\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta aut\u00adtaa tois\u00adta, avut\u00adto\u00admuus on koko\u00adnais\u00adval\u00adtais\u00adta kos\u00adka tilan\u00adne ei ole itses\u00adt\u00e4 kiin\u00adni. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Osit\u00adtain siis oma ala\u00adku\u00adloi\u00adsuus on itse\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 syys\u00adt\u00e4 aiheu\u00adtu\u00advaa. Itsek\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 sik\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 mik\u00e4\u00adli tun\u00adti\u00adsin voi\u00adva\u00adni aut\u00adtaa, tuli\u00adsi my\u00f6s itsel\u00adle\u00adni parem\u00adpi mie\u00adli.\u201d #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cToi\u00adnen luon\u00adnos ala\u00adku\u00adlos\u00adta\u201d<\/a> (Mel\u00adkein Blo\u00adgi<\/a>; mik\u00adsaus oma\u00adni) #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Tuol\u00adlai\u00adnen avut\u00adto\u00admuus omal\u00adla koh\u00addal\u00adla\u00adni saa minus\u00adsa aikaan hiu\u00adkan toi\u00adsen\u00adlai\u00adsen itsek\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n reak\u00adtion: tulen ik\u00e4\u00e4n kuin kateel\u00adli\u00adsek\u00adsi sii\u00adt\u00e4 toi\u00adsen ep\u00e4\u00adon\u00adnes\u00adta, eli haluai\u00adsin sen mie\u00adluum\u00admin itse\u00adni kan\u00adnet\u00adta\u00advak\u00adsi kuin jou\u00adtua avut\u00adto\u00adma\u00adna seu\u00adraa\u00admaan sivus\u00adta kuin\u00adka toi\u00adnen kan\u00adtaa. Itse\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 sii\u00adt\u00e4 ei tee niin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n halu olla jou\u00adtu\u00admat\u00adta koke\u00admaan sit\u00e4 avut\u00adto\u00admuut\u00adta (vaik\u00adka sekin on toki tot\u00adta), kuin se minun aja\u00adtus\u00admaa\u00adil\u00admas\u00adsa\u00adni v\u00e4hin\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adkin ali\u00adta\u00adjui\u00adsel\u00adla tasol\u00adla aina l\u00e4s\u00adn\u00e4 ole\u00adva k\u00e4si\u00adtys sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 min\u00e4 kes\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adsin sen pahoin\u00advoin\u00adnin parem\u00admin kuin se toi\u00adnen. #<\/a><\/p>\n

On tra\u00adgi\u00adkoo\u00admi\u00adsel\u00adla taval\u00adla nurin\u00adku\u00adris\u00adta, ett\u00e4 k\u00e4si\u00adtyk\u00adse\u00adni omas\u00adta vah\u00advuu\u00addes\u00adta\u00adni on jo vuo\u00adsien ajan ollut t\u00e4y\u00adsin p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adlael\u00adlaan: toden\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6i\u00adsim\u00admin min\u00e4 kes\u00adt\u00e4n nykyi\u00adsin pahoin\u00advoin\u00adtia huo\u00adnom\u00admin kuin suu\u00adrin osa tut\u00adta\u00advis\u00adta\u00adni, joh\u00adtuen sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 aivo\u00adni paloi\u00advat poh\u00adjaan<\/a> kun elin el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adni suh\u00adtees\u00adsa l\u00e4hei\u00adseen ihmi\u00adseen t\u00e4m\u00e4n usko\u00admuk\u00adse\u00adni mukai\u00adses\u00adti. Eik\u00e4 se toden\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6i\u00adses\u00adti tie\u00adten\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ollut rea\u00adlis\u00adti\u00adnen k\u00e4si\u00adtys sil\u00adloin\u00adkaan. Yli\u00adver\u00adtai\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adta\u00adni ei kai kos\u00adkaan ole ollut\u00adkaan mit\u00e4\u00e4n todis\u00adtei\u00adta. #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Poi\u00admin Mel\u00adkein Blo\u00adgis\u00adta aiheek\u00adsi toi\u00adsen k\u00e4r\u00adsi\u00admyk\u00adsen aiheut\u00adta\u00admat itsek\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4t reaktiot.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[1986],"class_list":["post-2896","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-psykologia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2896","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2896"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2896\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19695,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2896\/revisions\/19695"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2896"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2896"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2896"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}