{"id":3271,"date":"2008-09-25T08:44:16","date_gmt":"2008-09-25T05:44:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=3271"},"modified":"2011-07-23T11:33:59","modified_gmt":"2011-07-23T08:33:59","slug":"sankaroidu-nuori-mies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/09\/25\/sankaroidu-nuori-mies\/","title":{"rendered":"Sankaroidu, nuori&nbsp;mies!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"post3271-exmdtetpgp0dx2v9pnv7io8lf\"><a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/wiki\/File:Iraqi_diesel_locomotive.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/files\/2008\/09\/dieselveturi-tulee.jpg\" alt=\"Keltavihre\u00e4 dieselveturi tulee\" width=\"250\" height=\"242\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-18523\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/files\/2008\/09\/dieselveturi-tulee.jpg 250w, https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/files\/2008\/09\/dieselveturi-tulee-150x145.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\"><\/a> Padot\u00adtua vihaa ja v\u00e4ki\u00adval\u00adtai\u00adsia fan\u00adt\u00adasioi\u00adta hau\u00adto\u00adva\u00adna nuor\u00adna mies\u00adn\u00e4 min\u00e4 aina\u00adkin kuvit\u00adte\u00adlen ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adni osit\u00adtain sit\u00e4 tus\u00adkaa, joka saa aikaan Joke\u00adlan ja Kau\u00adha\u00adjoen kal\u00adtai\u00adsia ilmi\u00f6i\u00adt\u00e4.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/09\/25\/sankaroidu-nuori-mies\/#post3271-exmdtetpgp0dx2v9pnv7io8lf\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post3271-mhidk2dwyc1eh87afythqch5t\">Ensin\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n min\u00e4 en n\u00e4e n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 niin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n jouk\u00adko\u00admur\u00adhi\u00adna kuin er\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adlai\u00adsi\u00adna laa\u00adjen\u00adnet\u00adtui\u00adna itse\u00admur\u00adhi\u00adna, vaik\u00adka\u00adkin sis\u00e4i\u00adsel\u00adt\u00e4 logii\u00adkal\u00adtaan n\u00e4m\u00e4 teot muis\u00adtut\u00adta\u00advat pikem\u00admin\u00adkin junan eteen hyp\u00adp\u00e4\u00e4\u00admis\u00adt\u00e4 tai vas\u00adtaan\u00adtu\u00adle\u00advaan rek\u00adkaan autol\u00adla pah\u00adki aja\u00admis\u00adta kuin oman l\u00e4hi\u00adpii\u00adrin sur\u00admaa\u00admis\u00adta, jon\u00adka taus\u00adtal\u00adla on k\u00e4si\u00adtys omas\u00adta teos\u00adta n\u00e4i\u00adden l\u00e4heis\u00adten suo\u00adje\u00adlu\u00adkei\u00adno\u00adna. Kou\u00adluam\u00admus\u00adke\u00adlus\u00adsa tar\u00adkoi\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adna on p\u00e4in\u00advas\u00adtoin levit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 oman tus\u00adkan sano\u00admaa, tar\u00adkem\u00admin sanot\u00adtu\u00adna ulkois\u00adtaa se kos\u00adket\u00adta\u00admaan ymp\u00e4\u00adril\u00adl\u00e4 ole\u00advia tavik\u00adsia, jot\u00adka omas\u00adta mie\u00adles\u00adt\u00e4 vai\u00adkut\u00adta\u00advat sii\u00adt\u00e4 autu\u00adaan tie\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00admil\u00adt\u00e4 ja sik\u00adsi hal\u00advek\u00adsut\u00adta\u00advil\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/09\/25\/sankaroidu-nuori-mies\/#post3271-mhidk2dwyc1eh87afythqch5t\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post3271-ktqqgptg5q2y662tv2fdet3fp\">N\u00e4in ollen my\u00f6s\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n empa\u00adtian t\u00e4y\u00addel\u00adli\u00adnen puut\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adnen ei k\u00e4y seli\u00adtys\u00admal\u00adlik\u00adsi. Vaja\u00advai\u00adsuut\u00adta niis\u00ads\u00e4 kyvyis\u00ads\u00e4 t\u00e4y\u00adtyy var\u00admas\u00adti olla, kos\u00adka teon seu\u00adrauk\u00adsien t\u00e4y\u00addel\u00adli\u00adnen ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adnen ep\u00e4i\u00adle\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4 est\u00e4i\u00adsi nii\u00adt\u00e4 syn\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4, mut\u00adta edes mis\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n poik\u00adkeuk\u00adsel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adta vaja\u00advuu\u00addes\u00adta ei mie\u00adles\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni voi\u00adda puhua. Sen sijaan jon\u00adki\u00adnas\u00adtei\u00adnen empa\u00adtia\u00adky\u00adky on itse asias\u00adsa edel\u00adly\u00adtys tuol\u00adlai\u00adsel\u00adle teol\u00adle, kos\u00adka kuten sanoin, sen tar\u00adkoi\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adna on siir\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 oma tus\u00adka mui\u00adhin ihmi\u00adsiin. V\u00e4ki\u00adval\u00adtaan tur\u00advau\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adnen ja jopa hen\u00adgen\u00adriis\u00adto on mit\u00e4 luon\u00adnol\u00adli\u00adsin aja\u00adtus t\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adses\u00adta <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/fi\/wiki\/Transferenssi\">tun\u00adteen\u00adsiir\u00adros\u00adta<\/a> haa\u00advei\u00adle\u00advan p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adh\u00e4n juo\u00adlah\u00adta\u00advak\u00adsi var\u00adsin\u00adkin, jos ahdis\u00adtuk\u00adsen taus\u00adtal\u00adla on <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/en\/wiki\/Castration_anxiety\">kastraa\u00adtio\u00adpel\u00adkoa<\/a>. V\u00e4ki\u00adval\u00adta\u00adrat\u00adkai\u00adsun syn\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen edel\u00adlyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 kui\u00adten\u00adkin koh\u00adta\u00adlais\u00adta empa\u00adtia\u00adky\u00adky\u00e4 \u2014 kyky\u00e4 k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, ett\u00e4 juu\u00adri tuon laji\u00adnen teko on omi\u00adaan syn\u00adnyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n kans\u00adsaih\u00admi\u00adsis\u00ads\u00e4 sit\u00e4 samaa ahdis\u00adtus\u00adta, joka itse\u00e4\u00adkin kal\u00advaa.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/09\/25\/sankaroidu-nuori-mies\/#post3271-ktqqgptg5q2y662tv2fdet3fp\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post3271-8kjn5jxd54pidcju7i36cewuk\">Van\u00adhem\u00adpien ja ymp\u00e4\u00adris\u00adt\u00f6n vas\u00adtuun per\u00e4\u00e4\u00admi\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4 tun\u00adnu\u00adtaan hel\u00adpos\u00adti mene\u00adv\u00e4n lii\u00adal\u00adli\u00adsuuk\u00adsiin. Vii\u00adme\u00adai\u00adkai\u00adsis\u00adsa teois\u00adsa ei ole ollut kyse mis\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n avut\u00adto\u00admis\u00adta lap\u00adsis\u00adta, vaan nuo\u00adris\u00adta aikui\u00adsis\u00adta, jot\u00adka teki\u00adv\u00e4t itse omat p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsen\u00ads\u00e4. P\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adset oli\u00advat ken\u00adties huo\u00adno\u00adja, mut\u00adta ne oli\u00advat n\u00e4i\u00adden j\u00e4t\u00adkien omia p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsi\u00e4. Nii\u00adt\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsi\u00e4 eiv\u00e4t teh\u00adneet van\u00adhem\u00admat, kou\u00adlu\u00adka\u00adve\u00adrit, You\u00adTu\u00adbe tai muu seu\u00adra\u00adkun\u00adta, vaan teki\u00adj\u00e4t itse. P\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsiin ajau\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adseen (kos\u00adka lop\u00adpu\u00adjen lopuk\u00adsi kukaan ei ole muu\u00adta kuin his\u00adto\u00adrian\u00adsa sum\u00adma) n\u00e4m\u00e4 muut teki\u00adj\u00e4t tie\u00adtys\u00adti ovat olleet vai\u00adkut\u00adta\u00admas\u00adsa, mut\u00adta mit\u00e4\u00e4n niis\u00adt\u00e4 ei voi\u00adda syy\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, vaan vas\u00adtuu on yksin teki\u00adj\u00e4n. Halu siir\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 vas\u00adtuu muu\u00adal\u00adle joh\u00adtuu ehk\u00e4 sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 syy halu\u00adtaan v\u00e4lt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4 n\u00e4h\u00add\u00e4 jos\u00adsain sel\u00adlai\u00adses\u00adsa koh\u00adtees\u00adsa, jota voi\u00adsi teon takia v\u00e4h\u00e4n ojen\u00adtaa, mik\u00e4 teki\u00adj\u00e4n elot\u00adto\u00adman ruu\u00admiin kans\u00adsa ei oikein ole mah\u00addol\u00adlis\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/09\/25\/sankaroidu-nuori-mies\/#post3271-8kjn5jxd54pidcju7i36cewuk\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post3271-qe1pnnm7x0o8dgrjtwpnn1l1u\">Kor\u00adkein\u00adtaan van\u00adhem\u00adpia voi mie\u00adles\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni syyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 sii\u00adn\u00e4 tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa, ett\u00e4 n\u00e4m\u00e4 ovat kas\u00adva\u00adtuk\u00adsel\u00adlaan tie\u00adtoi\u00adses\u00adti teh\u00adneet j\u00e4l\u00adke\u00adl\u00e4i\u00adsel\u00adleen mah\u00addot\u00adto\u00admak\u00adsi l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 tus\u00adkal\u00adle mit\u00e4\u00e4n muu\u00adta pur\u00adkau\u00adtu\u00admis\u00adka\u00adna\u00advaa. V\u00e4hem\u00adm\u00e4n tuhoi\u00adsien pur\u00adkau\u00adtu\u00admis\u00adka\u00adna\u00advien tar\u00adjol\u00adlao\u00adle\u00admi\u00adsen var\u00admis\u00adta\u00admi\u00adnen ja nii\u00adhin tur\u00advau\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adsen mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adsim\u00adman hel\u00adpok\u00adsi ja kan\u00adna\u00adtet\u00adta\u00advak\u00adsi teke\u00admi\u00adnen onkin ainut asia, jon\u00adka minun mie\u00adles\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni yhteis\u00adkun\u00adta voi teh\u00add\u00e4 t\u00e4l\u00adlais\u00adten tapauk\u00adsien ehk\u00e4i\u00adse\u00admi\u00adsek\u00adsi. K\u00e4s\u00adkyt, kiel\u00adlot ja rajoi\u00adtuk\u00adset eiv\u00e4t auta mit\u00e4\u00e4n, pikem\u00admin\u00adkin p\u00e4in\u00advas\u00adtoin. N\u00e4i\u00adden ihmis\u00adten pit\u00e4i\u00adsi kye\u00adt\u00e4 saa\u00admaan apua, ei pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n sanan sii\u00adn\u00e4 mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4, ett\u00e4 sit\u00e4 apua on tar\u00adjol\u00adla, vaan my\u00f6s sii\u00adn\u00e4, ett\u00e4 sit\u00e4 kyet\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adsiin otta\u00admaan vas\u00adtaan ilman tur\u00adhia ennak\u00adko\u00adluu\u00adlo\u00adja avun\u00adtar\u00advit\u00adsi\u00adjan itsen\u00ads\u00e4 ja var\u00adsin\u00adkaan t\u00e4l\u00adle mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adsel\u00adli\u00adsen l\u00e4hi\u00adpii\u00adrin tahol\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/09\/25\/sankaroidu-nuori-mies\/#post3271-qe1pnnm7x0o8dgrjtwpnn1l1u\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post3271-21o21xw4neien8vfhi3puy0i8\">Ja vie\u00adl\u00e4 sit\u00adten\u00adkin on pak\u00adko hyv\u00e4k\u00adsy\u00e4 se tosia\u00adsia, ett\u00e4 niin tii\u00advis\u00adt\u00e4 tur\u00adva\u00adverk\u00adkoa ei voi\u00adda kutoa, ettei\u00adk\u00f6 joku sen sil\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 l\u00e4vit\u00adse aina jos\u00adkus putoai\u00adsi. Mut\u00adta kak\u00adsi t\u00e4l\u00adlais\u00adta tapaus\u00adta n\u00e4in lyhyen ajan sis\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 ker\u00adtoo minus\u00adta ihan hel\u00adve\u00adtin sel\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti sii\u00adt\u00e4, ettei se tur\u00adva\u00adverk\u00adko ole vie\u00adl\u00e4 l\u00e4hes\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n niin hyv\u00e4 kuin se voi\u00adsi olla ja miten hyv\u00e4 sen pit\u00e4i\u00adsi olla.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/09\/25\/sankaroidu-nuori-mies\/#post3271-21o21xw4neien8vfhi3puy0i8\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post3271-5u9p2imy7k0a23hirk61309da\">[muok\u00adkauk\u00adset]<br>\n[muokkaus][klo]2011-05-19 14:26[\/klo] Vaih\u00addoin kuvan, enti\u00adnen oli non-free.[\/muokkaus]<br>\n[\/muokkaukset]&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2008\/09\/25\/sankaroidu-nuori-mies\/#post3271-5u9p2imy7k0a23hirk61309da\">#<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Padot\u00adtua vihaa ja v\u00e4ki\u00adval\u00adtai\u00adsia fan\u00adt\u00adasioi\u00adta hau\u00adto\u00adva\u00adna nuor\u00adna mies\u00adn\u00e4 min\u00e4 aina\u00adkin kuvit\u00adte\u00adlen ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00adni osit\u00adtain sit\u00e4 tus\u00adkaa, joka saa aikaan Joke\u00adlan ja Kau\u00adha\u00adjoen kal\u00adtai\u00adsia ilmi\u00f6it\u00e4.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[96,1986,2641,2828],"class_list":["post-3271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-ahdistuneisuus","tag-psykologia","tag-turvallisuus","tag-vakivalta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3271"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3271\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20365,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3271\/revisions\/20365"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}