{"id":389,"date":"2004-09-26T21:45:30","date_gmt":"2004-09-26T19:45:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/skm\/?p=389"},"modified":"2011-07-25T15:30:32","modified_gmt":"2011-07-25T12:30:32","slug":"ytimessa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/26\/ytimessa\/","title":{"rendered":"Ytimess\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201c- Nor\u00admaa\u00adlis\u00adti mur\u00adro\u00adsi\u00adk\u00e4 alkaa kes\u00adki\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrin 13-vuo\u00adti\u00adaa\u00adna. Mut\u00adta jos jo vii\u00adden- kuu\u00adden van\u00adha\u00adna kokee, ett\u00e4 aikui\u00adnen - oma \u00e4iti - ei ole aina oikeas\u00adsa, enk\u00e4 voi sii\u00adhen tur\u00adva\u00adta, on se tapah\u00adtu\u00adnut lii\u00adan var\u00adhain. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Eevan tur\u00advat\u00adto\u00admuu\u00adden tun\u00adne oli hen\u00adkis\u00adt\u00e4 laa\u00adtua, fyy\u00adsi\u00adses\u00adti koto\u00adna oli aina perus\u00adtur\u00adva. #<\/a><\/p>\n

- En ole jou\u00adtu\u00adnut miet\u00adti\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, mis\u00adt\u00e4 sai\u00adsin han\u00adkit\u00adtua ruo\u00adkaa tai muu\u00adta vas\u00adtaa\u00advaa, niin\u00adkuin on ollut monen muun koh\u00addal\u00adla. Mut\u00adta hen\u00adki\u00adsel\u00adl\u00e4 tasol\u00adla asia oli toi\u00adsin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

- Lap\u00adsen tuli\u00adsi tie\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 ja tun\u00adtea, ett\u00e4 van\u00adhem\u00adpi pit\u00e4\u00e4 huol\u00adta ja h\u00e4n voi olla rau\u00adhas\u00adsa lap\u00adsi. Kun sel\u00adlais\u00adta luot\u00adta\u00admus\u00adta ei ole, alkaa lap\u00adsi itse huo\u00adleh\u00adtia van\u00adhem\u00admas\u00adtaan.\u201d #<\/a><\/p>\n

Heli Lep\u00adp\u00e4<\/strong>: N\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n lap\u00adsuus<\/a> #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

N\u00e4in siis Eeva, jon\u00adka \u00e4iti oli mie\u00adli\u00adsai\u00adras. Oma\u00adni ei ollut, mut\u00adta sil\u00adti tuo vii\u00admei\u00adnen lause iskee kuin mil\u00adjoo\u00adna volt\u00adtia. Ei t\u00e4m\u00e4 minul\u00adle toki uusi asia ole, oli\u00adpa\u00adhan vain niin yti\u00admek\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adti sanot\u00adtu ett\u00e4 oli pak\u00adko lai\u00adna\u00adta. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Mut\u00adta mis\u00adt\u00e4 se sit\u00adten joh\u00adtuu, ett\u00e4 minun lap\u00adsuu\u00addel\u00adle\u00adni lei\u00admal\u00adlis\u00adta oli nime\u00adno\u00admaan tuo Eevan\u00adkin mai\u00adnit\u00adse\u00adma koke\u00admus sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 en voi luot\u00adtaa omiin van\u00adhem\u00adpii\u00adni<\/a> kuten lap\u00adsen tuli\u00adsi voi\u00adda teh\u00add\u00e4? Joh\u00adtuu\u00adko se van\u00adhem\u00adpien kes\u00adki\u00adn\u00e4i\u00adsis\u00adt\u00e4 rii\u00addois\u00adta, joi\u00adden todis\u00adta\u00adjak\u00adsi jou\u00adtu\u00admi\u00adnen ja nii\u00adden takia pelois\u00adsa\u00adni itke\u00admi\u00adnen lie\u00adnee var\u00adhai\u00adsim\u00adpia muis\u00adti\u00adku\u00advia\u00adni? Mut\u00adta kaik\u00adki, tai aina\u00adkin useim\u00admat van\u00adhem\u00admat\u00adhan rii\u00adte\u00adle\u00adv\u00e4t, eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 kaik\u00adki lap\u00adset sii\u00adt\u00e4 masen\u00adnu. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Iro\u00adnis\u00adta t\u00e4ti\u00e4 minul\u00adla ei ollut, kuten Nin\u00adnil\u00adl\u00e4, iro\u00adni\u00adsia seti\u00e4 ja eno\u00adja sit\u00adten sit\u00e4\u00adkin enemm\u00e4n.Mit\u00e4 se sekin sanon\u00adta muka oikein tar\u00adkoit\u00adtaa? Jos halu\u00adtaan ilmais\u00adta, ett\u00e4 jotain on pal\u00adjon, niin mit\u00e4 j\u00e4r\u00adke\u00e4 on sanoa ett\u00e4 sit\u00e4 on \u201cenem\u00adm\u00e4n kuin jotain muu\u00adta\u201d sil\u00adloin, jos sit\u00e4 \u201cjotain muu\u00adta\u201d ei ole yht\u00e4\u00e4n? Ei mit\u00e4\u00e4n! \"Ninni\" Tois\u00adtu\u00advas\u00adti sana\u00adlei\u00adkeil\u00adl\u00e4 ja lei\u00adkin var\u00adjol\u00adla teh\u00addyl\u00adl\u00e4 suo\u00adra\u00adnai\u00adsel\u00adla kuset\u00adta\u00admi\u00adsel\u00adla n\u00f6y\u00adryy\u00adte\u00adtyk\u00adsi tule\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta koke\u00adma\u00adni h\u00e4pe\u00e4n, ja sil\u00adle pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n vahin\u00adgo\u00adni\u00adloi\u00adses\u00adti nau\u00adra\u00advia aikui\u00adsia mie\u00adhi\u00e4 koh\u00adtaan tun\u00adte\u00adma\u00adni vihan itke\u00admi\u00adnen lie\u00adnee toi\u00adsek\u00adsi\u00advar\u00adhai\u00adsim\u00adpia muis\u00adti\u00adku\u00advia\u00adni, mut\u00adta olen sit\u00adten\u00adkin sit\u00e4 miel\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 masen\u00adnus\u00adta enem\u00adm\u00e4n se vai\u00adkut\u00adti suku\u00adpuo\u00adli-iden\u00adti\u00adteet\u00adti\u00adni kehit\u00adty\u00admi\u00adseen (tai kehit\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00admyy\u00adteen): jos\u00adkus nii\u00adhin aikoi\u00adhin tein luul\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti alus\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adse\u00adni, ett\u00e4 minus\u00adta ei kos\u00adkaan tule aikuis\u00adta mies\u00adt\u00e4. Tie\u00adten\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n minus\u00adta ei voi\u00adnut nais\u00adta\u00adkaan tul\u00adla pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsel\u00adl\u00e4, joten j\u00e4in haa\u00adhui\u00adle\u00admaan har\u00admaal\u00adle alu\u00adeel\u00adle, jon\u00adne\u00adkin sin\u00adne kah\u00adden maa\u00adil\u00adman v\u00e4liin<\/a>. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e4 suo\u00adma\u00adlais\u00adta\u00adkin suo\u00adma\u00adlai\u00adsem\u00adpi joka kodin perus\u00ada\u00adse\u00adtel\u00adma, is\u00e4n viha-rak\u00adkaus\u00adsuh\u00adde Kunin\u00adgas Alko\u00adho\u00adliin? Kai\u00adken kaik\u00adki\u00adaan is\u00e4n juo\u00admi\u00adnen ei suo\u00adraan vai\u00adkut\u00adta\u00adnut niin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n pal\u00adjon, kuin se, ett\u00e4 se oli yleen\u00ads\u00e4 edel\u00adl\u00e4 mai\u00adnit\u00adse\u00admie\u00adni is\u00e4n ja \u00e4idin v\u00e4li\u00adset rii\u00addat aina lopul\u00adta lau\u00adkais\u00adsut kipi\u00adn\u00e4. Toki sit\u00e4 my\u00f6\u00adten, kun jo pie\u00adnen lap\u00adsen j\u00e4r\u00adjel\u00adl\u00e4\u00adkin sen oppi k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, ett\u00e4 ihmi\u00adnen ei alko\u00adho\u00adlia tar\u00advit\u00adse el\u00e4\u00e4k\u00adseen, sit\u00e4 oppi vihaa\u00admaan niin p\u00e4ih\u00adtei\u00adt\u00e4 kuin nii\u00adden k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adji\u00e4\u00adkin, jot\u00adka vie\u00adl\u00e4 t\u00e4n\u00e4\u00adkin p\u00e4i\u00adv\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 minun lap\u00adsen\u00adsie\u00adlu\u00adni mus\u00adta\u00adval\u00adkoi\u00adsis\u00adsa sil\u00admis\u00ads\u00e4 ovat heik\u00adko\u00adja yksi\u00adl\u00f6i\u00adt\u00e4 ja ansait\u00adsi\u00adsi\u00advat katua tai kuol\u00adla. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Jos\u00adta p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adsem\u00adme\u00adkin k\u00e4te\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adti aasin\u00adsil\u00adtaa pit\u00adkin sii\u00adhen, ett\u00e4 vaik\u00adka heik\u00adko\u00adja yksi\u00adl\u00f6i\u00adt\u00e4 ovat\u00adkin, eiv\u00e4t ihmi\u00adset, joil\u00adla on ongel\u00admia, ja jot\u00adka ovat kyvyt\u00adt\u00f6\u00admi\u00e4 \u2018rat\u00adkai\u00adse\u00admaan\u2019 ongel\u00admi\u00adaan muu\u00adtoin kuin juo\u00admal\u00adla, pys\u00adty otta\u00admaan apua vas\u00adtaan toi\u00adsil\u00adta, eiv\u00e4t sit\u00e4 ansait\u00adsi\u00adsi vaik\u00adka pys\u00adtyi\u00adsi\u00adv\u00e4t\u00adkin, eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 n\u00e4in ollen ker\u00adta kaik\u00adki\u00adaan tar\u00advit\u00adse hol\u00adhoo\u00adjia. Toi\u00adsin sanoen suo\u00adma\u00adlai\u00adsen ongel\u00adma\u00admie\u00adhen rin\u00adnal\u00adla omas\u00adta mie\u00adles\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n urhool\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti, ulko\u00adpuo\u00adli\u00adsen sil\u00admin pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n h\u00e4pe\u00e4l\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti mart\u00adtyy\u00adrink\u00adruu\u00adnua itsel\u00adleen toi\u00admin\u00adnal\u00adlaan tavoit\u00adte\u00adle\u00adva suo\u00adma\u00adlai\u00adnen nai\u00adnen on minun sil\u00admis\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni yht\u00e4 lail\u00adla ongel\u00admai\u00adnen kuin mie\u00adhen\u00ads\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Olkoon\u00adkin, ett\u00e4 toi\u00adsiin\u00adsa taker\u00adtu\u00adnei\u00adna n\u00e4m\u00e4 kak\u00adsi vas\u00adtak\u00adkai\u00adsil\u00adla varauk\u00adsil\u00adla varus\u00adtet\u00adtua napaa yhdes\u00ads\u00e4 jos\u00adsain kau\u00adka\u00adna keh\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4\u00e4n kier\u00adt\u00e4\u00advi\u00adne, nega\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adses\u00adti ladat\u00adtui\u00adne lap\u00adsi\u00adneen ovat se ato\u00admi\u00adny\u00addin\u00adper\u00adhe, jois\u00adta t\u00e4m\u00e4n kan\u00adsan yhteis\u00adkun\u00adta\u00admo\u00adle\u00adkyy\u00adlit ovat muo\u00addos\u00adtu\u00adneet. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Eli kyl\u00adl\u00e4 ase\u00adtel\u00admat ylei\u00adses\u00adti ottaen ovat var\u00admas\u00adti olleet edul\u00adli\u00adset el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n arvot\u00adto\u00admuu\u00adden koke\u00admuk\u00adsen her\u00e4\u00e4\u00admi\u00adsel\u00adle minus\u00adsa jo tuol\u00adloin, mut\u00adta se ei tyy\u00addy\u00adt\u00e4 minua seli\u00adtyk\u00adse\u00adn\u00e4 sii\u00adn\u00e4 mie\u00adles\u00ads\u00e4, kuin minua tyy\u00addyt\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adsi jokin suo\u00adra\u00advii\u00advai\u00adnen seli\u00adtys, kuten v\u00e4ki\u00adval\u00adta, ilmi\u00adsel\u00adv\u00e4 hyl\u00adk\u00e4ys\u00adko\u00adke\u00admus tai jokin muu trau\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adnen koke\u00admus. Sil\u00adloin voi\u00adsin selit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 itsel\u00adle\u00adni, ett\u00e4 nykyi\u00adsin tun\u00adte\u00adma\u00adni el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n perin\u00adpoh\u00adjai\u00adnen arvot\u00adto\u00admuus on pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n sub\u00adjek\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adnen koke\u00admuk\u00adse\u00adni, jon\u00adka syn\u00adnyt\u00adti lap\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa se tapah\u00adtu\u00adma<\/em>. Sen sijaan nyt se on sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 olen ymp\u00e4\u00adril\u00adl\u00e4\u00adni sil\u00adloin olleen, ja yh\u00e4 t\u00e4n\u00e4\u00adkin p\u00e4i\u00adv\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 mie\u00adlet\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4k\u00adsi koke\u00adma\u00adni maa\u00adil\u00adman kau\u00adhus\u00adta paen\u00adnut sii\u00adhen aino\u00adaan toi\u00advoon, joka minus\u00adsa her\u00e4\u00adsi lap\u00adse\u00adna; kun\u00adpa minua, ket\u00e4\u00e4n, mit\u00e4\u00e4n, koko maa\u00adil\u00admaa ei oli\u00adsi. Mik\u00e4\u00e4n v\u00e4hem\u00adpi ei pelas\u00adtuk\u00adsek\u00adse\u00adni rii\u00adt\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

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\u201c- Nor\u00admaa\u00adlis\u00adti mur\u00adro\u00adsi\u00adk\u00e4 alkaa kes\u00adki\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrin 13-vuo\u00ad\u00adti\u00adaa\u00ad\u00adna. Mut\u00adta jos jo vii\u00ad\u00adden- kuu\u00adden van\u00adha\u00adna kokee, ett\u00e4 aikui\u00adnen - oma \u00e4iti - ei ole aina oikeas\u00adsa, enk\u00e4 voi sii\u00adhen tur\u00adva\u00adta, on se tapah\u00adtu\u00adnut lii\u00adan var\u00adhain. # Eevan tur\u00advat\u00adto\u00admuu\u00adden tun\u00adne oli hen\u00adkis\u00adt\u00e4 laa\u00adtua, fyy\u00adsi\u00adses\u00adti koto\u00adna oli aina perus\u00adtur\u00adva. # - En ole jou\u00adtu\u00adnut miet\u00adti\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, mis\u00adt\u00e4 sai\u00adsin han\u00adkit\u00adtua ruo\u00adkaa tai muu\u00adta vastaavaa, [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-389","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=389"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20683,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389\/revisions\/20683"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=389"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=389"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=389"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}