{"id":396,"date":"2004-09-24T16:40:43","date_gmt":"2004-09-24T14:40:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/skm\/?p=396"},"modified":"2004-09-24T16:40:43","modified_gmt":"2004-09-24T14:40:43","slug":"tie-ii-pakotie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/24\/tie-ii-pakotie\/","title":{"rendered":"Tie II: Pakotie"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"post396-q3hnqshnfgca16c5apheikec8\">Osin <a href=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/04\/16\/uusi-potilastyyppi\/1\">eili\u00adsil\u00adtai\u00adsen vuo\u00adda\u00adtuk\u00adsen<\/a> takia, osin muu\u00adtoin vain ilman mit\u00e4\u00e4n sen ilmei\u00adsem\u00adp\u00e4\u00e4 syy\u00adt\u00e4, p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni on hah\u00admot\u00adtu\u00adnut jon\u00adkin\u00adlai\u00adnen kuva sii\u00adt\u00e4, miten masen\u00adnus omas\u00adsa tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa\u00adni on syn\u00adty\u00adnyt. Koe\u00adtan seu\u00adraa\u00advas\u00adsa kui\u00adten\u00adkin hie\u00adman laa\u00adja-alais\u00adtaa seli\u00adtys\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni sen kuvai\u00adlun hel\u00adpot\u00adta\u00admi\u00adsek\u00adsi itsel\u00adle\u00adni. Toi\u00adsaal\u00adta n\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 asiois\u00adta on var\u00admas\u00adti kir\u00adjoi\u00adtet\u00adtu pal\u00adjon ennen\u00adkin, mut\u00adta kos\u00adka omal\u00adle koh\u00addal\u00adle\u00adni ei ole sat\u00adtu\u00adnut seli\u00adtys\u00adt\u00e4, joka oli\u00adsi osu\u00adnut koh\u00addal\u00adleen niin, ett\u00e4 oli\u00adsin sen ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00adnyt niin kuin ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4n n\u00e4m\u00e4 asiat, kun ne itse omil\u00adla sanoil\u00adla\u00adni ker\u00adron, ker\u00adron ne asiat nyt niil\u00adl\u00e4 omil\u00adla sanoil\u00adla\u00adni t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4, jot\u00adta mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti joku muu, joka kokee n\u00e4m\u00e4 asiat samoin kuin min\u00e4, voi\u00adsi t\u00e4\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4 val\u00admiin kar\u00adtan mie\u00adlen\u00adliik\u00adkeil\u00adlen\u00ads\u00e4 l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/24\/tie-ii-pakotie\/#post396-q3hnqshnfgca16c5apheikec8\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post396-ntl37qemdyvjbnbewrvwfoje\">L\u00e4h\u00adt\u00f6\u00adkoh\u00adta\u00adna on lap\u00adsi, jol\u00adla on jokin vai\u00adkea koke\u00admus. Koke\u00admus voi olla kir\u00adjai\u00admel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti jokin tapah\u00adtu\u00adma, kuten onnet\u00adto\u00admuus, tois\u00adtu\u00advas\u00adta tapah\u00adtu\u00admas\u00adta, kuten pahoin\u00adpi\u00adte\u00adlys\u00adt\u00e4 joh\u00adtu\u00adva trau\u00adma, tai koke\u00admus sen sub\u00adjek\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adses\u00adsa mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4, eli lap\u00adsen koke\u00admuk\u00adse\u00adna sii\u00adt\u00e4, miten h\u00e4n\u00adt\u00e4 ymp\u00e4\u00adr\u00f6i\u00adv\u00e4 maa\u00adil\u00adma toi\u00admii, tai mik\u00e4 on h\u00e4nen ase\u00adman\u00adsa sii\u00adn\u00e4\u00adKos\u00adka en ole kyen\u00adnyt j\u00e4l\u00adjit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n lap\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adta\u00adni min\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adlai\u00adsia trau\u00admaat\u00adti\u00adsia tapah\u00adtu\u00admia, olen olet\u00adta\u00adnut, ett\u00e4 oma koke\u00admuk\u00adse\u00adni on nime\u00adno\u00admaan t\u00e4t\u00e4 vii\u00admek\u00adsi\u00admai\u00adnit\u00adtua, sub\u00adjek\u00adtii\u00advis\u00adta lajia.. Rat\u00adkai\u00adse\u00advaa on se, ett\u00e4 lap\u00adsi tun\u00adtee, ett\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4 koke\u00admus on h\u00e4nel\u00adle yli\u00advoi\u00admai\u00adnen; h\u00e4n ei pys\u00adty tule\u00admaan sen kans\u00adsa toi\u00admeen, eik\u00e4 k\u00e4sit\u00adte\u00adle\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, ehk\u00e4 edes k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n sit\u00e4 oikein mil\u00adl\u00e4\u00e4n k\u00e4y\u00adt\u00f6s\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n ole\u00adval\u00adla (psyyk\u00adki\u00adsel\u00adl\u00e4) kei\u00adnol\u00adla. Niin\u00adp\u00e4 koh\u00adtaa\u00admi\u00adsen ja sis\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adsen sijas\u00adta lap\u00adsi pake\u00adnee psyyk\u00adki\u00adsel\u00adl\u00e4 tasol\u00adla t\u00e4t\u00e4 koke\u00admus\u00adtaan, k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4en mit\u00e4 tahan\u00adsa k\u00e4sil\u00adl\u00e4 ole\u00advaa reit\u00adti\u00e4.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/24\/tie-ii-pakotie\/#post396-ntl37qemdyvjbnbewrvwfoje\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post396-fs9gvewqx3rdl3y2sdotnt9l3\">Nuo\u00adri ihmis\u00admie\u00adli on l\u00e4hes loput\u00adto\u00adman sin\u00adni\u00adk\u00e4s n\u00e4is\u00ads\u00e4 pyr\u00adki\u00admyk\u00adsis\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n, ja pako\u00ady\u00adri\u00adtyk\u00adsien\u00ads\u00e4 tulok\u00adse\u00adna lap\u00adsi sin\u00adkou\u00adtuu kuin ohjus lop\u00adpu\u00adjen lopuk\u00adsi l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adleen tiel\u00adle. Samal\u00adla kun se pake\u00adnee, lap\u00adsen mie\u00adli ker\u00e4\u00e4 taak\u00adseen estei\u00adt\u00e4, jot\u00adka pit\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t h\u00e4net my\u00f6\u00adhem\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 i\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 var\u00admas\u00adti ereh\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 koke\u00admuk\u00adsen suun\u00adtaan\u00adkaan. Itse asias\u00adsa esteet osoit\u00adtau\u00adtu\u00advat lopul\u00adta niin pit\u00e4\u00advik\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 nyt jo vart\u00adtu\u00adnut lap\u00adsi pys\u00adtyy j\u00e4l\u00adleen valit\u00adse\u00admaan suun\u00adtan\u00adsa vapaas\u00adti, kos\u00adka pel\u00adkoa alku\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adseen koke\u00admuk\u00adseen t\u00f6r\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00admi\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 ei en\u00e4\u00e4 ole.T\u00e4ss\u00e4 n\u00e4kyy yhteys eili\u00adsil\u00adtai\u00adseen teks\u00adtiin ja sit\u00e4 kaut\u00adta omaan koke\u00admuk\u00adsee\u00adni; psyyk\u00adki\u00adset suo\u00adja\u00admuu\u00adri\u00adni ovat niin van\u00adkas\u00adti ali\u00adta\u00adjun\u00adtaan isket\u00adty\u00adj\u00e4, ett\u00e4 tie\u00adtoi\u00adnen min\u00e4 on vapaa nii\u00adden yll\u00e4\u00adpi\u00addos\u00adta, jol\u00adloin sil\u00adle syn\u00adtyy illuusio t\u00e4y\u00addel\u00adli\u00adsen sis\u00e4i\u00adsen vapau\u00adden val\u00adlit\u00adse\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/24\/tie-ii-pakotie\/#post396-fs9gvewqx3rdl3y2sdotnt9l3\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post396-63aa70qjo6fie06wbv8h20ru0\">Masen\u00adnuk\u00adsen yhtey\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4 usein mai\u00adnit\u00adtu lau\u00adkai\u00adse\u00adva teki\u00adj\u00e4 on sel\u00adlai\u00adnen asia tai koke\u00admus, joka my\u00f6\u00adhem\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 i\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 tulee ja iskee rei\u00e4n tuo\u00adhon suo\u00adja\u00admuu\u00adriin, jos ei per\u00e4\u00adti ly\u00f6 sit\u00e4 ker\u00adras\u00adsaan s\u00e4p\u00e4\u00adleik\u00adsi. Ihmis\u00admie\u00adli, joka kyvyt\u00adt\u00f6\u00admyy\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n koh\u00adda\u00adta lap\u00adsuu\u00adden\u00adko\u00adke\u00admus\u00adtaan pake\u00adni sit\u00e4, ei my\u00f6s\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n kos\u00adkaan saa\u00adnut tilai\u00adsuut\u00adta kehit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 tuo\u00adta kyky\u00e4. Nyt, t\u00e4y\u00adsin yll\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4en se jou\u00adtuu\u00adkin siis j\u00e4l\u00adleen suo\u00adraan kas\u00advok\u00adkain kivu\u00adli\u00adaan koke\u00admuk\u00adsen\u00adsa kans\u00adsa ja huo\u00admaa ole\u00advan\u00adsa juu\u00adri yht\u00e4 avu\u00adton kuin sil\u00adloin, kun pie\u00adne\u00adn\u00e4 lap\u00adsen\u00admie\u00adle\u00adn\u00e4 sit\u00e4 voi\u00admien\u00adsa takaa pake\u00adni.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/24\/tie-ii-pakotie\/#post396-63aa70qjo6fie06wbv8h20ru0\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post396-gkuotl644uajvvnjqjmgmlg92\">Mie\u00adles\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni py\u00f6\u00adrii jon\u00adkin\u00adlai\u00adnen ep\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adnen ana\u00adlo\u00adgia ihmi\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4, joka pais\u00adka\u00adtaan val\u00adtai\u00adsaan, tuli\u00adkuu\u00admaan kat\u00adti\u00adlaan pie\u00adne\u00adn\u00e4. Lopul\u00adta l\u00f6y\u00adtyy k\u00f6y\u00adsi, jos\u00adta riippumalla[alaviite]Kyll\u00e4, sana\u00adva\u00adlin\u00adta on tietoinen.[\/alaviite] kat\u00adti\u00adlan poh\u00adja ei en\u00e4\u00e4 polt\u00adte\u00adle. K\u00f6y\u00adsi on tyy\u00adpil\u00adli\u00adsim\u00admin kon\u00adkreet\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti jokin k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00admis\u00admal\u00adli hyvin laa\u00adjas\u00adsa mer\u00adki\u00adtyk\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4; kysees\u00ads\u00e4 voi olla esi\u00admer\u00adkik\u00adsi yleen\u00ads\u00e4 ihmis\u00adten tai vaik\u00adka\u00adpa hyvin tiu\u00adkas\u00adti rajat\u00adtu\u00adjen l\u00e4heis\u00adten ihmis\u00adten kans\u00adsa tapah\u00adtu\u00advaa sosi\u00adaa\u00adlis\u00adta k\u00e4y\u00adt\u00f6s\u00adt\u00e4 s\u00e4\u00e4\u00adte\u00adle\u00adv\u00e4t mal\u00adlit, jokin omak\u00adsi koet\u00adtu poliit\u00adti\u00adnen, uskon\u00adnol\u00adli\u00adnen tai muu moraa\u00adli\u00adnen mal\u00adli, tai jopa laa\u00adjem\u00admin auk\u00adto\u00adri\u00adteet\u00adtius\u00adkoi\u00adsuus tai nii\u00adt\u00e4 vas\u00adtaan kapi\u00adnoin\u00adti. Oli mal\u00adli mik\u00e4 tahan\u00adsa, lau\u00adkai\u00adse\u00adva teki\u00adj\u00e4 on yht\u00e4 kuin k\u00f6y\u00adden kat\u00adkea\u00admi\u00adnen, eli tuon opi\u00adtun mal\u00adlin pet\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adnen vai\u00adkeal\u00adta koke\u00admuk\u00adsel\u00adta suo\u00adjaa\u00advas\u00adsa teh\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4\u00e4n.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/24\/tie-ii-pakotie\/#post396-gkuotl644uajvvnjqjmgmlg92\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post396-qt7ebnft4b3ery4tiah14h8m0\">Mit\u00e4 tulee sen j\u00e4l\u00adkeen? Sii\u00adt\u00e4 en pys\u00adty vie\u00adl\u00e4 kir\u00adjoit\u00adta\u00admaan, tai tar\u00adkem\u00admin sanot\u00adtu\u00adna en halua kir\u00adjoit\u00adtaa sii\u00adt\u00e4 t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 yhtey\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4, kos\u00adka t\u00e4h\u00e4\u00adnas\u00adti\u00adnen teks\u00adti on ollut oma\u00adkoh\u00adtai\u00adsen koke\u00admuk\u00adsen sane\u00adle\u00admaa, ja t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 eteen\u00adp\u00e4in se oli\u00adsi pelk\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4 spe\u00adku\u00adloin\u00adtia. Var\u00admas\u00adti kyl\u00adl\u00e4 vie\u00adl\u00e4 jonain p\u00e4i\u00adv\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 kir\u00adjoi\u00adtan my\u00f6s sii\u00adt\u00e4, mit\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4n j\u00e4l\u00adkeen tapah\u00adtuu. Voin vain toi\u00advoa, ett\u00e4 tule\u00advai\u00adsuus nou\u00addat\u00adtaa jotain opti\u00admis\u00adtis\u00adta ske\u00adnaa\u00adrio\u00adta, jos\u00adsa van\u00adha koi\u00adra oppii uusia temp\u00adpu\u00adja, eli kivu\u00adli\u00adaa\u00adseen j\u00e4l\u00adleen\u00adn\u00e4\u00adke\u00admi\u00adseen jou\u00adtu\u00adnut mie\u00adli oppii vaik\u00adka\u00adpa sit\u00adten tera\u00adpian avul\u00adla tule\u00admaan koke\u00admuk\u00adsen\u00adsa kans\u00adsa toi\u00admeen. Pes\u00adsi\u00admis\u00adti\u00adset ske\u00adnaa\u00adriot puo\u00adles\u00adtaan masen\u00adtai\u00adsi\u00advat vain luki\u00adjan\u00adkin, ja sen oikeu\u00adden pid\u00e4\u00adt\u00e4n itsel\u00adl\u00e4\u00adni tuon\u00adnem\u00admak\u00adsi, sii\u00adhen mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adseen tule\u00advai\u00adsuu\u00adteen, jos\u00adsa pys\u00adtyn teke\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n sen koke\u00admuk\u00adsen syv\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 rin\u00adta\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4\u00adnel\u00adl\u00e4, joka on pal\u00adjon tehok\u00adkaam\u00adpi.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/24\/tie-ii-pakotie\/#post396-qt7ebnft4b3ery4tiah14h8m0\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post396-b3afmvoq2wqjr55wye89xid5p\">[muok\u00adkauk\u00adset]<br>\n[muokkaus][klo]17:51[\/klo] Vii\u00adlaus\u00adta, pil\u00adkun\u00advii\u00adlaus\u00adta ja oikoluku.[\/muokkaus]<br>\n[muokkaus][klo]16.10.[\/klo] 15:58 Siir\u00adsin muu\u00adtos\u00adhis\u00adto\u00adrian ala\u00adviit\u00adtei\u00adden ala\u00adpuo\u00adlel\u00adle. Muo\u00adtoi\u00adlin nyky\u00adtyy\u00adlil\u00adl\u00e4\u00adni. Lis\u00e4\u00adsin muu\u00adtos\u00adhis\u00adto\u00adrian piilotusvekottimen.[\/muokkaus]<br>\n[muokkaus][klo]27.8.[\/klo] 13:29 Muo\u00adtoi\u00adlin WP:lle.[\/muokkaus]<br>\n[\/muokkaukset]&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/24\/tie-ii-pakotie\/#post396-b3afmvoq2wqjr55wye89xid5p\">#<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Osin eili\u00adsil\u00adtai\u00adsen vuo\u00adda\u00adtuk\u00adsen takia, osin muu\u00adtoin vain ilman mit\u00e4\u00e4n sen ilmei\u00adsem\u00adp\u00e4\u00e4 syy\u00adt\u00e4, p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni on hah\u00admot\u00adtu\u00adnut jon\u00adkin\u00adlai\u00adnen kuva sii\u00adt\u00e4, miten masen\u00adnus omas\u00adsa tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa\u00adni on syn\u00adty\u00adnyt. Koe\u00adtan seu\u00adraa\u00advas\u00adsa kui\u00adten\u00adkin hie\u00adman laa\u00ad\u00adja-alais\u00ad\u00adtaa seli\u00adtys\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni sen kuvai\u00adlun hel\u00adpot\u00adta\u00admi\u00adsek\u00adsi itsel\u00adle\u00adni. Toi\u00adsaal\u00adta n\u00e4is\u00adt\u00e4 asiois\u00adta on var\u00admas\u00adti kir\u00adjoi\u00adtet\u00adtu pal\u00adjon ennen\u00adkin, mut\u00adta kos\u00adka omal\u00adle koh\u00addal\u00adle\u00adni ei ole sat\u00adtu\u00adnut seli\u00adtys\u00adt\u00e4, joka oli\u00adsi osu\u00adnut koh\u00addal\u00adleen&nbsp;niin,&nbsp;[\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-396","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=396"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=396"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=396"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=396"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}