{"id":416,"date":"2004-09-20T12:45:08","date_gmt":"2004-09-20T10:45:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/skm\/?p=416"},"modified":"2004-09-20T12:45:08","modified_gmt":"2004-09-20T10:45:08","slug":"syksyista-sodankayntia-smsssa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/09\/20\/syksyista-sodankayntia-smsssa\/","title":{"rendered":"Syksyist\u00e4 sodank\u00e4ynti\u00e4 SMS:ss\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"

K\u00e4yn l\u00e4pi eilis\u00adt\u00e4 teks\u00adti\u00advies\u00adti\u00adso\u00adtaa samal\u00adla, kun kir\u00adjoi\u00adtan sit\u00e4 tal\u00adteen niil\u00adle omis\u00adtet\u00adtuun blogiini.Tuota blo\u00adgia\u00adni en lin\u00adki\u00adt\u00e4 kos\u00adka se on sala\u00adsa\u00adna\u00adsuo\u00adjat\u00adtu, sil\u00adl\u00e4 sii\u00adn\u00e4 on kui\u00adten\u00adkin p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adasial\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti kyse mui\u00adden kuin minun yksi\u00adtyi\u00adsyy\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Olen jaka\u00adnut Mes\u00adsen\u00adger-tun\u00adnuk\u00adse\u00adni niin, ett\u00e4 pikku-j:t\u00e4<\/strong> var\u00adten on oma tun\u00adnuk\u00adsen\u00adsa, jol\u00adla kir\u00adjau\u00addun sis\u00e4\u00e4n vain sil\u00adloin, kun meil\u00adl\u00e4 on sii\u00adhen sovi\u00adtut ajat. Kun kir\u00adjau\u00addun sis\u00e4\u00e4n var\u00adsi\u00adnai\u00adsil\u00adla tun\u00adnuk\u00adsil\u00adla\u00adni, pik\u00adku-j, joka tyk\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4 luu\u00adha\u00adta koneel\u00adla muu\u00adtoin\u00adkin kuin Mes\u00adsen\u00adger-tun\u00adtei\u00adna, ei n\u00e4e minua. N\u00e4in ei jou\u00addu\u00adta set\u00advi\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n rajo\u00adja sii\u00adt\u00e4, mik\u00e4 m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4 jut\u00adte\u00adlua on sopi\u00advaa ja mik\u00e4 liikaa.Lapsen kans\u00adsa jut\u00adte\u00adlu, vaik\u00adka onkin antoi\u00adsaa, on samal\u00adla my\u00f6s pal\u00adjon voi\u00admia\u00advaa\u00adti\u00advam\u00adpaa kuin aikui\u00adsen kans\u00adsa kes\u00adkus\u00adte\u00adlu. T\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 sanat lap\u00adsi<\/em> ja aikui\u00adnen<\/em> viit\u00adtaa\u00advat siis ihmi\u00adsen hen\u00adki\u00adseen kyp\u00adsyy\u00adteen, eiv\u00e4t kro\u00adno\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adseen ik\u00e4\u00e4n. Monet i\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n aikui\u00adset ovat uuvut\u00adta\u00advam\u00adpia kes\u00adkus\u00adte\u00adlu\u00adkump\u00adpa\u00adnei\u00adta kuin monet i\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n lap\u00adset. #<\/a><\/p>\n

V\u00e4hi\u00adtel\u00adlen pik\u00adku-j alkaa kui\u00adten\u00adkin p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 juo\u00adnes\u00adta\u00adni peril\u00adle, sil\u00adl\u00e4 n\u00e4p\u00adp\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 tyt\u00adt\u00f6\u00adn\u00e4 se on oppi\u00adnut vaih\u00adta\u00admaan Win\u00addows-k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adj\u00e4\u00e4, ja ensim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adnen tun\u00adnus, jon\u00adka var\u00adsi\u00adnai\u00adsen pro\u00adfii\u00adli\u00adni yhteys\u00adtie\u00addois\u00adta jou\u00adduin blok\u00adkaa\u00admaan ulos, oli h\u00e4nen \u00e4itin\u00ads\u00e4. Eilen puo\u00adles\u00adtaan mei\u00add\u00e4n \u00e4iti oli p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00adnyt pikku-j:n omal\u00adle koneel\u00adleen, ja vaik\u00adka olin sano\u00adnut jo mon\u00adta ker\u00adtaa sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 ei pid\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 sit\u00e4 kir\u00adjau\u00adtu\u00admaan tois\u00adten tun\u00adnuk\u00adsil\u00adla, eik\u00f6s vain koh\u00adta ruven\u00adneet n\u00e4i\u00adden kah\u00adden tun\u00adnuk\u00adset vuo\u00adrot\u00adte\u00adle\u00admaan l\u00e4s\u00adn\u00e4- ja pois\u00adsao\u00adlos\u00adsaan, mik\u00e4 kie\u00adlii sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 nii\u00adt\u00e4 vaih\u00addel\u00adlaan Win\u00addow\u00adsis\u00adsa. \u00c4iti oli kyl\u00adl\u00e4 toru\u00adnut ja kiel\u00adt\u00e4\u00adnyt sit\u00e4 kun oli t\u00e4m\u00e4n havain\u00adnut, kos\u00adka sit\u00e4 on kuu\u00adlem\u00adma kyl\u00adl\u00e4 kiel\u00adlet\u00adty aiem\u00admin\u00adkin niin teke\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4, mut\u00adta taas ker\u00adran se sai todis\u00adtei\u00adta sil\u00adle mit\u00e4 jo pel\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Seu\u00adraa oma k\u00e4si\u00adtyk\u00adse\u00adni sii\u00adt\u00e4, mik\u00e4 on lap\u00adsen tul\u00adkin\u00adta tilan\u00adtees\u00adta. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Minul\u00adla on yst\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4, jon\u00adka kans\u00adsa minus\u00adta on muka\u00adva jutel\u00adla. Ensin vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtuk\u00adsem\u00adme on raja\u00adton\u00adta. Sit\u00adten yht\u00e4k\u00adki\u00e4 jos\u00adta\u00adkin minul\u00adle k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 syys\u00adt\u00e4 sen m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4l\u00adle ase\u00adte\u00adtaan jot\u00adkin rajat, ja vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtuk\u00adsen koko\u00adnais\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4 v\u00e4he\u00adnee. #<\/a><\/p>\n

My\u00f6\u00adhem\u00admin minus\u00adta alkaa pelot\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti n\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 sil\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4 kans\u00adsa\u00adk\u00e4y\u00admi\u00adsen rajoi\u00adtus kos\u00adkee vain minua. En uskal\u00adla kysy\u00e4, ett\u00e4 onko asia todel\u00adla n\u00e4in, kos\u00adka jos olen oikeas\u00adsa, se on minul\u00adle lii\u00adan kau\u00adhis\u00adtut\u00adta\u00advaa; ett\u00e4 minut on sul\u00adjet\u00adtu jos\u00adta\u00adkin k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 syys\u00adt\u00e4 ulko\u00adpuo\u00adlel\u00adle toi\u00adsin kuin muut. Minul\u00adle on sanot\u00adtu, ett\u00e4 on tuh\u00admaa vakoil\u00adla tois\u00adten toi\u00admia. Minun on kui\u00adten\u00adkin pak\u00adko k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adty\u00e4 tuh\u00admas\u00adti, kos\u00adka vaik\u00adka en uskal\u00adla kysy\u00e4, minun on saa\u00adta\u00adva tie\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4, miten asia oikeas\u00adti on. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Vaik\u00adka tuh\u00adman k\u00e4y\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adse\u00adni takia oma\u00adtun\u00adto\u00adni soi\u00admaa minua, pahem\u00adpaa on kui\u00adten\u00adkin se, ett\u00e4 ep\u00e4i\u00adlyk\u00adse\u00adni vah\u00advis\u00adtuu: mui\u00adden kuin minun kans\u00adsa\u00adni tapah\u00adtu\u00adval\u00adla vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtuk\u00adsel\u00adla ei n\u00e4y\u00adt\u00e4 edel\u00adleen\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ole\u00advan mit\u00e4\u00e4n rajo\u00adja! Min\u00e4 olen ulko\u00adpuo\u00adli\u00adnen, minus\u00adsa on jota\u00adkin vikaa, en ole yht\u00e4 hyv\u00e4 kuin nuo muut! #<\/a><\/p>\n

Ehk\u00e4 se joh\u00adtuu sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 olen mui\u00adta pie\u00adnem\u00adpi. Mut\u00adta kuin\u00adka niin voi olla? Eik\u00f6 sen, ett\u00e4 olen lap\u00adsi, pit\u00e4i\u00adsi pikem\u00admin\u00adkin mer\u00adki\u00adt\u00e4 sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 min\u00e4 ja vuo\u00adro\u00advai\u00adku\u00adtus minun kans\u00adsa\u00adni on t\u00e4r\u00adke\u00e4m\u00adp\u00e4\u00e4 kuin yhden\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n muun kans\u00adsa? Minus\u00adsa itses\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni t\u00e4y\u00adtyy siis olla jotain todel\u00adla pahaa. #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Kyl\u00adl\u00e4, sekoi\u00adtin tuo\u00adhon hyvin vah\u00advas\u00adti oma\u00adkoh\u00adtais\u00adta lap\u00adsuu\u00adden\u00adko\u00adke\u00admus\u00adta. Osin t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00adkin syys\u00adt\u00e4 r\u00e4j\u00e4h\u00addin, kun n\u00e4in, ett\u00e4 \u00e4iti ei ollut pit\u00e4\u00adnyt huol\u00adta sii\u00adt\u00e4, ettei lap\u00adsi onnis\u00adtu hank\u00adki\u00admaan lis\u00e4\u00advah\u00advis\u00adtuk\u00adsia pelol\u00adleen. Toi\u00adsaal\u00adta syy on sii\u00adn\u00e4 k\u00e4si\u00adtyk\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni, ett\u00e4 jos lap\u00adsi onnis\u00adtuu vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00admaan itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n tut\u00adki\u00admus\u00admat\u00adkal\u00adlaan t\u00e4h\u00e4n maa\u00adil\u00admaan, syy ei kos\u00adkaan ole sen lap\u00adsen, vaan aina sen lap\u00adsen l\u00e4him\u00adm\u00e4is\u00adten aikuis\u00adten, jot\u00adka eiv\u00e4t ole pit\u00e4\u00adneet sii\u00adt\u00e4 riit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n hyv\u00e4\u00e4 huol\u00adta ja aset\u00adta\u00adneet riit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n tiuk\u00adko\u00adja rajo\u00adja, jot\u00adka suo\u00adje\u00adle\u00advat sit\u00e4 las\u00adta onnet\u00adto\u00admuuk\u00adsil\u00adta \u2014 oli\u00advat ne sit\u00adten kon\u00adkreet\u00adti\u00adsia tai psyyk\u00adki\u00adsi\u00e4 onnet\u00adto\u00admuuk\u00adsia. T\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 tapauk\u00adses\u00adsa siis vika oli siis oma\u00adni, ja \u00e4idin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Kiu\u00adkus\u00adtuk\u00adsis\u00adsa\u00adni blok\u00adka\u00adsin \u00e4idin\u00adkin tun\u00adnuk\u00adsen ulos. Sekin n\u00e4kee minut nyt siis vain sil\u00adloin, kun pik\u00adku-j, jol\u00adloin ei ole sit\u00e4 vaa\u00adraa, ett\u00e4 pik\u00adku-j en\u00e4\u00e4 huo\u00admai\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 \u201cJani<\/strong> halu\u00adaa n\u00e4ky\u00e4 S:lle<\/strong>, mut\u00adta ei halua n\u00e4ky\u00e4 minul\u00adle\u201d. #<\/a><\/p>\n

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K\u00e4yn l\u00e4pi eilis\u00adt\u00e4 teks\u00adti\u00advies\u00adti\u00adso\u00adtaa samal\u00adla, kun kir\u00adjoi\u00adtan sit\u00e4 tal\u00adteen niil\u00adle omis\u00adtet\u00adtuun blogiini.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-416","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/416","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=416"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/416\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=416"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=416"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=416"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}