{"id":490,"date":"2004-10-28T13:06:20","date_gmt":"2004-10-28T11:06:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/skm\/?p=490"},"modified":"2011-07-29T22:26:21","modified_gmt":"2011-07-29T19:26:21","slug":"kadestapitaminen-ja-selviytyminen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/10\/28\/kadestapitaminen-ja-selviytyminen\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u00e4dest\u00e4pit\u00e4minen ja selviytyminen"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e4in unta, jos\u00adsa pidim\u00adme tera\u00adpias\u00adsa vie\u00adres\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni istu\u00advan tyt\u00f6n kans\u00adsa toi\u00adsiam\u00adme k\u00e4des\u00adt\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Hah! Kyl\u00adl\u00e4\u00adp\u00e4 nyt tuli v\u00e4h\u00e4\u00adtel\u00adty\u00e4. Pikem\u00admin\u00adkin istuim\u00adme sylik\u00adk\u00e4in. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Sii\u00adn\u00e4 ei kui\u00adten\u00adkaan ollut mit\u00e4\u00e4n iljet\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4, vaan se oli ainoas\u00adtaan hel\u00adl\u00e4\u00e4, molem\u00admin\u00adpuo\u00adlis\u00adta loh\u00addu\u00adtus\u00adha\u00adlai\u00adlua. Ja sit\u00adten tera\u00adpeut\u00adti tie\u00adten\u00adkin kiel\u00adsi sen ja k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adtyi muu\u00adtoin\u00adkin toi\u00advo\u00admal\u00adla\u00adni taval\u00adla<\/a> eli sii\u00adn\u00e4 m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adrin vit\u00adtu\u00admai\u00adses\u00adti, ett\u00e4 se ansait\u00adsi suut\u00adtu\u00admuk\u00adse\u00adni, joka tosin t\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 ker\u00adtaa unes\u00adsa oli mei\u00add\u00e4n kah\u00adden halai\u00adli\u00adjan yhteis\u00adt\u00e4 suut\u00adtu\u00admus\u00adta. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Oikean el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n tera\u00adpias\u00adsa avau\u00adduin vii\u00adme ker\u00adral\u00adla hie\u00adman eri taval\u00adla kuin t\u00e4h\u00e4n asti, ilman kun\u00adnol\u00adlis\u00adta har\u00adkin\u00adtaa, eli p\u00f6l\u00adj\u00e4s\u00adti. Ker\u00adroin tera\u00adpia\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adtees\u00adsa minul\u00adle val\u00adlit\u00adse\u00advas\u00adta ase\u00adtel\u00admas\u00adta, eli sii\u00adt\u00e4, miten luot\u00adta\u00admus tera\u00adpeu\u00adtin ymm\u00e4r\u00adrys\u00adky\u00adkyyn vapaut\u00adtaa minut puhu\u00admaan eri taval\u00adla kuin puhun tera\u00adpia\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adteen ulko\u00adpuo\u00adlel\u00adla, IRL<\/abbr>. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Oikeas\u00adsa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 min\u00e4 ensin\u00adn\u00e4\u00adkin uskal\u00adlan ava\u00adta suu\u00adni ei-l\u00e4heis\u00adten ihmis\u00adten kans\u00adsa l\u00e4hes yksi\u00adno\u00admaan tilan\u00adteis\u00adsa, jois\u00adsa olen kah\u00adden kes\u00adken toi\u00adsen osa\u00adpuo\u00adlen kans\u00adsa. Vain t\u00e4l\u00adl\u00f6in koen hal\u00adlit\u00adse\u00adva\u00adni kom\u00admu\u00adni\u00adkaa\u00adtio\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adteen. T\u00e4m\u00e4 joh\u00adtuu luul\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti sii\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 minun t\u00e4y\u00adtyy hal\u00adli\u00adta yhtei\u00adnen kie\u00adli t\u00e4y\u00addel\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti roh\u00adje\u00adtak\u00adse\u00adni k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 sit\u00e4. Itse\u00adni lis\u00e4k\u00adsi yht\u00e4 useam\u00adman ihmi\u00adsen l\u00e4s\u00adn\u00e4\u00adolo r\u00e4j\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 kie\u00adlen vari\u00adaa\u00adtioi\u00adden m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4n niin j\u00e4r\u00adkyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n suu\u00adrek\u00adsi, ett\u00e4 sen hal\u00adlit\u00adse\u00admi\u00adnen on mah\u00addo\u00adton\u00adta. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Toi\u00adsek\u00adseen t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4, vain kah\u00adden ihmi\u00adsen v\u00e4li\u00adses\u00ads\u00e4 tilan\u00adtees\u00adsa puo\u00adles\u00adtaan on m\u00e4\u00e4\u00adri\u00adtel\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti se ongel\u00adma, ett\u00e4 jos toi\u00adnen osa\u00adpuo\u00adli ei kie\u00adlen hal\u00adlin\u00adnan yri\u00adtyk\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4\u00adni huo\u00adli\u00admat\u00adta kyke\u00adne ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n minua, ei ole ole\u00admas\u00adsa kol\u00admat\u00adta, objek\u00adtii\u00advis\u00adta osa\u00adpuol\u00adta, joka n\u00e4ki\u00adsi tilan\u00adteen molem\u00admat n\u00e4k\u00f6\u00adkul\u00admat ja osai\u00adsi ava\u00adta syn\u00adty\u00adneen luk\u00adko\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adteen. Ja juu\u00adri t\u00e4h\u00e4n, kol\u00adman\u00adnen objek\u00adtii\u00advi\u00adsen roo\u00adliin min\u00e4 olen tera\u00adpia\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adtees\u00adsa onnis\u00adtu\u00adnees\u00adti mie\u00adles\u00ads\u00e4\u00adni sijoit\u00adta\u00adnut tera\u00adpeu\u00adtin. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Minul\u00adla on, kuten siel\u00adl\u00e4 nyt vii\u00admek\u00adsi \u00e4\u00e4neen sanoin, lap\u00adsel\u00adli\u00adsen raja\u00adton luot\u00adta\u00admus tera\u00adpeu\u00adtin kykyyn n\u00e4h\u00add\u00e4 omat tar\u00adkoi\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adni ja sii\u00adhen, ett\u00e4 ep\u00e4\u00adsel\u00advyys- tai per\u00e4\u00adti ris\u00adti\u00adrii\u00adta\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adtees\u00adsa saan tukea aina\u00adkin tera\u00adpeu\u00adtin tahol\u00adta. Oikeas\u00adsa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4, jos\u00adsa t\u00e4l\u00adlai\u00adnen tark\u00adkai\u00adli\u00adja siis puut\u00adtuu, lop\u00adpu\u00adtu\u00adlok\u00adse\u00adna on minua kam\u00admot\u00adta\u00adva tilan\u00adne, jos\u00adsa vain min\u00e4 n\u00e4en kes\u00adkus\u00adte\u00adlun molem\u00adpien osa\u00adpuol\u00adten n\u00e4k\u00f6\u00adkul\u00admat. Vain min\u00e4 n\u00e4en sen, miten toi\u00adnen ei ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 minua ja t\u00e4m\u00e4n ylem\u00admyy\u00adte\u00adni k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00admi\u00adnen tilan\u00adteen rat\u00adkai\u00adse\u00admi\u00adsek\u00adsi tun\u00adtuu minus\u00adta jos\u00adta\u00adkin syys\u00adt\u00e4 \u00e4\u00e4ret\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4n vahin\u00adgol\u00adli\u00adsel\u00adta itse\u00e4\u00adni koh\u00adtaan (\u201cminun ei pit\u00e4i\u00adsi jou\u00adtua teke\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n n\u00e4in\u201d). #<\/a><\/p>\n

Sain my\u00f6s t\u00e4h\u00e4n men\u00adnes\u00ads\u00e4 toi\u00adsen aasin\u00adsil\u00adlan ilmais\u00adta sen, min\u00adk\u00e4 koen lopul\u00adli\u00adse\u00adna nau\u00adla\u00adna niin kut\u00adsu\u00adtun para\u00adne\u00admi\u00adsen ark\u00adkuun: sen, ett\u00e4 nykyi\u00adsen, en\u00e4\u00e4 pelk\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n kuo\u00adlin\u00adkou\u00adris\u00adtuk\u00adsen\u00adomai\u00adseen el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n kyke\u00adne\u00adv\u00e4n min\u00e4n tilal\u00adle tar\u00adkoi\u00adtet\u00adtu uusi min\u00e4 ei kui\u00adten\u00adkaan oli\u00adsi sit\u00e4 parem\u00adpi, huo\u00adnom\u00adpi tai sel\u00adviy\u00adty\u00admis\u00adkel\u00adpoi\u00adsem\u00adpi. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Se, ett\u00e4 nyky\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adtees\u00adsa uusi, ehe\u00e4 min\u00e4 oli\u00adsi toi\u00admi\u00advam\u00adpi, ei mer\u00adkit\u00adse minul\u00adle yht\u00e4\u00e4n mit\u00e4\u00e4n. Win\u00addow\u00adsin voi k\u00e4yn\u00adnis\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 uudel\u00adleen, mut\u00adta lopul\u00adta se kaa\u00adtuu. Win\u00addow\u00adsin voi vaih\u00adtaa Linuxiin, mut\u00adta lopul\u00adta rau\u00adta pet\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4. Ilman takei\u00adta min\u00e4n toi\u00admin\u00adnas\u00adta sen vaih\u00adta\u00admi\u00adnen on hy\u00f6\u00addy\u00adt\u00f6n\u00adt\u00e4. Tai ei hy\u00f6\u00addy\u00adt\u00f6n\u00adt\u00e4, mut\u00adta sen hy\u00f6\u00adty oli\u00adsi pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n minun itse\u00adni ulko\u00adpuo\u00adlel\u00adla: minus\u00adta v\u00e4lit\u00adt\u00e4\u00advien ihmis\u00adten hy\u00f6\u00adty\u00e4 (en oli\u00adsi hen\u00adki\u00adnen taak\u00adka), yhteis\u00adkun\u00adnan hy\u00f6\u00adty\u00e4 (oli\u00adsin tuot\u00adta\u00adva kulut\u00adta\u00adja kulu\u00adjen\u00adtuot\u00adta\u00adjan sijas\u00adta) ja ennen kaik\u00adkea tie\u00adtys\u00adti luon\u00adto\u00ad\u00e4i\u00addin hy\u00f6\u00adty\u00e4 (oli\u00adsin teho\u00adkas ja toi\u00admi\u00adva suvun\u00adjat\u00adko\u00adko\u00adne). #<\/a><\/p>\n

Iro\u00adnis\u00adta kyl\u00adl\u00e4, juu\u00adri t\u00e4m\u00e4 tun\u00adtui osoit\u00adtau\u00adtu\u00advan asiak\u00adsi, joka iski loven tuo\u00adhon edel\u00adl\u00e4 mai\u00adnit\u00adse\u00admaa\u00adni lap\u00adse\u00adnus\u00adkoo\u00adni tera\u00adpeu\u00adtin rajat\u00adto\u00admas\u00adta ymm\u00e4r\u00adrys\u00adky\u00advys\u00adt\u00e4. Tera\u00adpeut\u00adti, vaik\u00adka t\u00e4m\u00e4n ilmais\u00adtua\u00adni halusi\u00adkin koros\u00adtaa, ettei vaih\u00adtoeh\u00adtoi\u00adsia minuuk\u00adsia ole tar\u00adkoi\u00adtus aset\u00adtaa hyvyys- tai huo\u00adnous\u00adj\u00e4r\u00adjes\u00adtyk\u00adseen, tun\u00adtui kui\u00adten\u00adkin palaa\u00advaan sii\u00adhen seli\u00adtyk\u00adseen, ett\u00e4 nykyi\u00adnen min\u00e4 (ei siis pel\u00adk\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n minun min\u00e4\u00adni, vaan minun kal\u00adtai\u00adse\u00adni ihmi\u00adsen min\u00e4) on lap\u00adsuu\u00adden olo\u00adsuh\u00adtei\u00adden raken\u00adta\u00adma sel\u00adviy\u00adty\u00admis\u00adkei\u00adno ja sel\u00adlai\u00adse\u00adna ilmei\u00adses\u00adti h\u00e4nen n\u00e4h\u00add\u00e4k\u00adseen joten\u00adkin poik\u00adkea\u00adva niin sano\u00adtus\u00adti ter\u00adveen ihmi\u00adsen min\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Minun n\u00e4h\u00add\u00e4k\u00adse\u00adni ei ole ole\u00admas\u00adsa mit\u00e4\u00e4n \u201coike\u00adaa, aitoa min\u00e4\u00e4\u201d, jon\u00adka kas\u00advun ja kehi\u00adtyk\u00adsen tiel\u00adl\u00e4 oli\u00adsi ollut estei\u00adt\u00e4, jos\u00adta syys\u00adt\u00e4 oli\u00adsi kehit\u00adty\u00adnyt nykyi\u00adnen, tera\u00adpeu\u00adtin mie\u00adles\u00adt\u00e4 siis jol\u00adlain tapaa ep\u00e4\u00adai\u00adto minuus. Minun teo\u00adria\u00adni kuu\u00adluu, ett\u00e4 kaik\u00adki mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adset min\u00e4t ovat yht\u00e4 lail\u00adla val\u00adheel\u00adli\u00adsia tai tosia, ja kaik\u00adki, kaik\u00adki<\/strong> ovat lap\u00adsuu\u00adde\u00adno\u00adlo\u00adsuh\u00adtei\u00adden raken\u00adta\u00admia sel\u00adviy\u00adty\u00admis\u00admal\u00adle\u00adja. Se, ett\u00e4 toi\u00adset ovat toi\u00admi\u00advam\u00adpia toi\u00adsis\u00adsa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adteis\u00adsa kuin toi\u00adset, toi\u00adset useam\u00admis\u00adsa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adteis\u00adsa kuin toi\u00adset, ei tar\u00adkoi\u00adta, ett\u00e4 ne voi\u00adtai\u00adsiin aset\u00adtaa rin\u00adnak\u00adkain ver\u00adtai\u00adlua var\u00adten ja poi\u00admia niis\u00adt\u00e4 jokin t\u00e4m\u00e4n toi\u00admi\u00advuu\u00adten\u00adsa perus\u00adteel\u00adla. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Kenel\u00adl\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ei ole niin suur\u00adta vii\u00adsaut\u00adta, ett\u00e4 kyke\u00adni\u00adsi n\u00e4ke\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, mik\u00e4 sel\u00adviy\u00adty\u00admis\u00admal\u00adli tulee aut\u00adta\u00admaan h\u00e4net el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 pisim\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adle. Pelk\u00adk\u00e4 min\u00e4n vaih\u00adta\u00admi\u00adsen aiheut\u00adta\u00adma uutuu\u00adden\u00advie\u00adh\u00e4\u00adtys ja het\u00adkel\u00adli\u00adnen, n\u00e4en\u00adn\u00e4i\u00adses\u00adti entis\u00adt\u00e4 min\u00e4\u00e4 parem\u00adpi toi\u00admi\u00advuus riit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 seli\u00adtyk\u00adsek\u00adsi sil\u00adle, ett\u00e4 tera\u00adpias\u00adta avun saa\u00adneet eiv\u00e4t tule aja\u00adtel\u00adleek\u00adsi\u00adkaan, ett\u00e4 uusi, \u201cparem\u00adpi\u201d min\u00e4 onkin mah\u00addol\u00adli\u00adses\u00adti yht\u00e4 kel\u00advo\u00adton, tai mik\u00e4 pahem\u00adpaa, vie\u00adl\u00e4 kel\u00advot\u00adto\u00admam\u00adpi kuin enti\u00adnen. Voi\u00adhan jopa olla, ett\u00e4 t\u00e4h\u00e4n uuteen min\u00e4\u00e4n siir\u00adty\u00admi\u00adnen aiheut\u00adtaa jos\u00adkus tule\u00advai\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa ihmi\u00adsen lopul\u00adli\u00adsek\u00adsi tuhok\u00adsi koi\u00adtu\u00advan psyyk\u00adki\u00adsen krii\u00adsin, jos\u00adta van\u00adhal\u00adla, aiem\u00admas\u00adsa el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4n\u00adti\u00adlan\u00adtees\u00adsa kel\u00advot\u00adto\u00admal\u00adta vai\u00adkut\u00adta\u00adneel\u00adla min\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 oli\u00adsi\u00adkin sel\u00adviy\u00adty\u00adnyt. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Mik\u00e4 sit\u00adten oli\u00adsi toi\u00admi\u00adva rat\u00adkai\u00adsu? Nyky\u00adtie\u00adt\u00e4\u00admyk\u00adse\u00adni mukaan sel\u00adlais\u00adta ei ole\u00adkaan. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Kai\u00adpaan k\u00e4des\u00adt\u00e4\u00adpi\u00adt\u00e4\u00admis\u00adt\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

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