{"id":5779,"date":"2009-01-30T11:11:08","date_gmt":"2009-01-30T09:11:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/?p=5779"},"modified":"2011-07-23T10:05:15","modified_gmt":"2011-07-23T07:05:15","slug":"viisi-vuotta-sitten-vainoahdistusta-ryhmassa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2009\/01\/30\/viisi-vuotta-sitten-vainoahdistusta-ryhmassa\/","title":{"rendered":"Viisi vuotta sitten: Vainoahdistusta ryhm\u00e4ss\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kos\u00adka psy\u00adko\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpi\u00adaa ja var\u00adsin\u00adkin ryh\u00adm\u00e4\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpi\u00adaaRyh\u00adm\u00e4\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpias\u00adta<\/a> ei vie\u00adl\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4n kir\u00adjoi\u00adtus\u00adhet\u00adkel\u00adl\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ole esi\u00admer\u00adkik\u00adsi suo\u00admen\u00adkie\u00adlis\u00adt\u00e4 Wiki\u00adpe\u00addia-artik\u00adke\u00adlia lain\u00adkaan. tun\u00adtui sit\u00e4 aloi\u00adtel\u00adles\u00adsa\u00adni ymp\u00e4\u00adr\u00f6i\u00adv\u00e4n sala\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsyy\u00adden ver\u00adho, ajat\u00adte\u00adlin k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 saa\u00admaa\u00adni tilai\u00adsuut\u00adta hyv\u00e4k\u00adse\u00adni ja kir\u00adja\u00adta tera\u00adpias\u00adta yl\u00f6s sel\u00adlai\u00adsia ver\u00adtais\u00adko\u00adke\u00admuk\u00adsia, joi\u00adta oli\u00adsin kovas\u00adti halun\u00adnut itse\u00adkin lukea ennen sen alka\u00admis\u00adta. Sala\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsyys her\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 aina\u00adkin minus\u00adsa yleen\u00ads\u00e4 aina ep\u00e4i\u00adlyk\u00adsi\u00e4 my\u00f6s h\u00e4m\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsyy\u00addes\u00adt\u00e4, vaik\u00adka psy\u00adko\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpian koh\u00addal\u00adla ver\u00adtais\u00adko\u00adke\u00admuk\u00adsien v\u00e4h\u00e4i\u00adnen tar\u00adjon\u00adta joh\u00adtuu\u00adkin var\u00admas\u00adti tosia\u00adsias\u00adsa pikem\u00admin\u00adkin sii\u00adn\u00e4 k\u00e4si\u00adtel\u00adty\u00adjen asioi\u00adden arka\u00adluon\u00adtoi\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adta kuin taus\u00adtal\u00adla vai\u00adkut\u00adta\u00advas\u00adta, mani\u00adpu\u00adloi\u00advas\u00adta kul\u00adtis\u00adta, joka pyr\u00adkii visus\u00adti var\u00adje\u00adle\u00admaan salais\u00adta psy\u00adko\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpiak\u00adsi nimi\u00adtet\u00adty\u00e4 oppi\u00adaan. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Mik\u00e4\u00adli edel\u00adli\u00adnen kuu\u00adlos\u00adti koo\u00admi\u00adsel\u00adta lii\u00adoit\u00adte\u00adlul\u00adta, niin seu\u00adraa\u00adva kat\u00adkel\u00adma voi osoit\u00adtaa, ett\u00e4 aina\u00adkin minul\u00adle t\u00e4m\u00e4 psy\u00adko\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpian ep\u00e4i\u00adlyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00advyys oli tuol\u00adloin var\u00adsin todel\u00adli\u00adsen tun\u00adtui\u00adnen huo\u00adle\u00adnai\u00adhe. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Eilen oli puhet\u00adta uskon\u00adnois\u00adta ja sii\u00adn\u00e4 yhtey\u00addes\u00ads\u00e4 tera\u00adpeut\u00adti yrit\u00adti tapan\u00adsa mukaan k\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 kes\u00adkus\u00adte\u00adlun ylei\u00adsel\u00adt\u00e4 tasol\u00adta kos\u00adke\u00admaan ryh\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4 ja aiheen hei\u00adjas\u00adtu\u00admis\u00adta sii\u00adhen; pal\u00adjas\u00adtin oman ennak\u00adko\u00adluu\u00adlo\u00adni ole\u00advan mel\u00adkein\u00adp\u00e4 juu\u00adri t\u00e4s\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adleen sen mit\u00e4 tera\u00adpeut\u00adti ehdot\u00adti eli ett\u00e4 tera\u00adpian tar\u00adkoi\u00adtus on yrit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 jol\u00adla\u00adkin tapaa saa\u00adda mei\u00add\u00e4t \u201ck\u00e4\u00e4n\u00adny\u00adtet\u00adty\u00e4\u201d pois keret\u00adti\u00adl\u00e4i\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 pahoin\u00advoin\u00adnis\u00adtam\u00adme. #<\/a><\/p>\n

31. maa\u00adlis\u00adkuu\u00adta 2004: \u201cUskon p\u00e4i\u00adv\u00e4n ilta\u00adseu\u00adrat\u201d<\/a> #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Huo\u00admat\u00adta\u00advaa\u00adhan tuos\u00adsa on se, ett\u00e4 tera\u00adpeut\u00adti tosi\u00adaan\u00adkin sanal\u00adlis\u00adti aja\u00adtuk\u00adse\u00adni puo\u00adles\u00adta\u00adni. En n\u00e4in ollen var\u00admaan\u00adkaan ollut ensim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adnen h\u00e4nen tera\u00adpias\u00adsaan k\u00e4y\u00adnyt, jon\u00adka p\u00e4\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 tuon\u00adkal\u00adtai\u00adsia aja\u00adtuk\u00adsia liik\u00adkui. Luu\u00adlen, ett\u00e4 edel\u00adl\u00e4 kuvas\u00adtu\u00adva ajat\u00adte\u00adlu\u00adni on sit\u00e4, mis\u00adt\u00e4 alan ammat\u00adti\u00adlai\u00adset k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4i\u00adsi\u00adv\u00e4t las\u00adtenp\u00adsy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgian pio\u00adnee\u00adrin, Mela\u00adnie Klein<\/span>in<\/strong><\/a> kehit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4 k\u00e4si\u00adtet\u00adt\u00e4 vai\u00adnoah\u00addis\u00adtus<\/em>. Jos\u00adtain syys\u00adt\u00e4 ryh\u00adm\u00e4p\u00adsy\u00adko\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpias\u00adsa l\u00e4h\u00adde\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n ole\u00adtuk\u00adses\u00adta, ett\u00e4 Klein<\/span>in alku\u00adjaan var\u00adhais\u00adlap\u00adsuu\u00adden psyyk\u00adkis\u00adt\u00e4 kehi\u00adtys\u00adt\u00e4 kuvaa\u00admaan tar\u00adkoit\u00adta\u00adma mal\u00adli on sovel\u00adlet\u00adta\u00advis\u00adsa ryh\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, jota pide\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n vuo\u00adroin vau\u00adva\u00adna, vuo\u00adroin \u00e4iti\u00adn\u00e4 tera\u00adpeu\u00adtin n\u00e4y\u00adtel\u00adles\u00ads\u00e4 is\u00e4\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Vai\u00adnoah\u00addis\u00adtus on kes\u00adkim\u00adm\u00e4i\u00adnen osa Klein<\/span>in var\u00adsi\u00adnais\u00adta psy\u00adko\u00adjar\u00adgo\u00adnin kruu\u00adnun\u00adja\u00adlo\u00adki\u00adve\u00e4, skit\u00adso\u00adpa\u00adra\u00adnoi\u00addis\u00adta posi\u00adtio\u00adta<\/em><\/a> (para\u00adnoid-schizoid posi\u00adtion<\/em><\/a>). Alun skit\u00adso<\/em> viit\u00adtaa vau\u00advan suh\u00adtees\u00adsaan \u00e4itiin k\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n loh\u00adko\u00admi\u00adseen<\/a>: \u00e4idin hel\u00adli\u00adv\u00e4n rin\u00adnan lis\u00e4k\u00adsi vau\u00adval\u00adle on ole\u00admas\u00adsa paha ja vai\u00adnoa\u00adva rin\u00adta, vaik\u00adka todel\u00adli\u00adsuu\u00addes\u00adsa on kyse yhdes\u00adt\u00e4 ja samas\u00adta objek\u00adtis\u00adta. Voin sanoa ihan suo\u00adraan, ettei t\u00e4m\u00e4 Klein<\/span>in teo\u00adria eik\u00e4 var\u00adsin\u00adkaan sen sovel\u00adta\u00admi\u00adnen ryh\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n ollut omi\u00adaan h\u00e4l\u00adven\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n psy\u00adko\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpi\u00adaa koh\u00adtaan tun\u00adte\u00admaa\u00adni h\u00e4m\u00e4\u00adr\u00e4\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsyy\u00adse\u00adp\u00e4i\u00adly\u00e4. Tosin, mik\u00e4\u00adli se oli kuin oli\u00adkin vai\u00adnoah\u00addis\u00adtuk\u00adsen ilmen\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4, niin se ahdis\u00adtus-osa sii\u00adt\u00e4 alkoi kyl\u00adl\u00e4 sit\u00adtem\u00admin v\u00e4hi\u00adtel\u00adlen h\u00e4l\u00adve\u00adt\u00e4 ja kor\u00advau\u00adtua kiusaan\u00adtu\u00adnei\u00adsuu\u00addel\u00adla, kun koin minua vai\u00adnon\u00adnen rin\u00adnan aseis\u00adtau\u00adtu\u00adneen kovin ep\u00e4\u00adus\u00adkot\u00adta\u00adval\u00adta tun\u00adtu\u00adval\u00adla psy\u00adko\u00adh\u00f6mp\u00adp\u00e4\u00adteo\u00adrial\u00adla. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Vau\u00advan loh\u00adkai\u00adse\u00admis\u00adta \u00e4idin\u00adpuo\u00adlis\u00adkois\u00adta toi\u00adsel\u00adle, eli aja\u00adtuk\u00adsel\u00adle hyv\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 ja hel\u00adli\u00adv\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 rin\u00adnas\u00adta, on kui\u00adten\u00adkin sil\u00adle\u00adkin halut\u00adtaes\u00adsa help\u00adpo l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 ilmen\u00adty\u00adm\u00e4 saman istun\u00adto\u00adker\u00adran muis\u00adtiin\u00adpa\u00adnois\u00adta\u00adni. Aina\u00adkin jos v\u00e4h\u00e4n siris\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 sil\u00admi\u00e4. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Toi\u00adnen mie\u00adlen\u00adkiin\u00adtoi\u00adnen asia mik\u00e4 eilen sel\u00advi\u00adsi, on asia, joka minua on kiin\u00adnos\u00adta\u00adnut jo kau\u00adan ennen kuin oma tera\u00adpia tuli ajan\u00adkoh\u00adtai\u00adsek\u00adsi: mit\u00e4 tapah\u00adtuu poti\u00adlail\u00adle, kun tera\u00adpeu\u00adtil\u00adle sat\u00adtuu jota\u00adkin, joka est\u00e4\u00e4 tera\u00adpian jat\u00adku\u00admi\u00adsen. Kuu\u00adlem\u00adma n\u00e4i\u00adt\u00e4 tapauk\u00adsia var\u00adten pit\u00e4\u00e4\/pit\u00e4isi olla j\u00e4r\u00adjes\u00adte\u00adlyt ole\u00admas\u00adsa, ja aina\u00adkin mei\u00add\u00e4n ryh\u00adm\u00e4n osal\u00adta sel\u00adlai\u00adnen on ole\u00admas\u00adsa. Vaik\u00adka en aktii\u00advi\u00adses\u00adti t\u00e4t\u00e4 asi\u00adaa mie\u00adti\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n enk\u00e4 sit\u00e4 kos\u00adkaan ole mureh\u00adti\u00adnut (se vain on sil\u00adloin t\u00e4l\u00adl\u00f6in k\u00e4y\u00adnyt mie\u00adles\u00ads\u00e4 kos\u00adka kysy\u00admys on mie\u00adlen\u00adkiin\u00adtoi\u00adnen), niin tuon kuu\u00adle\u00admi\u00adnen tun\u00adtui suun\u00adnat\u00adto\u00adman hyv\u00e4l\u00adt\u00e4 - sit\u00e4 tun\u00adsi itsen\u00ads\u00e4 kovin t\u00e4r\u00adke\u00e4k\u00adsi; \u201cmeis\u00adt\u00e4 v\u00e4li\u00adte\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4n\u201d. #<\/a><\/p>\n

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Kos\u00adka psy\u00adko\u00adte\u00adra\u00adpia tun\u00adtui sala\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsel\u00adt\u00e4, p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adtin kir\u00adja\u00adta yl\u00f6s ver\u00adtais\u00adko\u00adke\u00admuk\u00adsia, jol\u00adlai\u00adsia oli\u00adsin itse\u00adkin halun\u00adnut lukea etu\u00adk\u00e4\u00adteen. Sala\u00adpe\u00adr\u00e4i\u00adsyys her\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 ep\u00e4i\u00adlyk\u00adsi\u00e4 h\u00e4m\u00e4r\u00e4per\u00e4isyydest\u00e4.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[1523,1986,8608],"class_list":["post-5779","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat","tag-melanie-klein","tag-psykologia","tag-terapia","series-viisi-vuotta-sitten"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5779","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5779"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5779\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20235,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5779\/revisions\/20235"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5779"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5779"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5779"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}