{"id":823,"date":"2004-12-25T16:22:14","date_gmt":"2004-12-25T14:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/skm\/?p=823"},"modified":"2004-12-25T16:22:14","modified_gmt":"2004-12-25T14:22:14","slug":"seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/","title":{"rendered":"Seuranhakupalstojen evoluutiopsykologiaa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"post823-koxv74juyw47p8eui4beo8r4l\">Kom\u00adpu\u00adroin <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/science\/humanbody\/mind\/\">BBC:n ihmis\u00adtie\u00adde\u00adsi\u00advul\u00adle<\/a>, jos\u00adta l\u00f6y\u00adtyi <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/science\/humanbody\/mind\/articles\/emotions\/lonelyhearts.shtml\">mie\u00adlen\u00adkiin\u00adtoi\u00adnen jut\u00adtu<\/a> seu\u00adran\u00adha\u00adku\u00adpals\u00adto\u00adjen evo\u00adluu\u00adtiop\u00adsy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adsis\u00adta puo\u00adlis\u00adta.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-koxv74juyw47p8eui4beo8r4l\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p id=\"post823-hv7ae0a6pl3f5obb1e3lvus33\">\u201cJos et kos\u00adkaan ole edes har\u00adkin\u00adnut etsi\u00adv\u00e4\u00adsi seu\u00adraa sii\u00adhen tar\u00adkoi\u00adte\u00adtuil\u00adta pals\u00adtoil\u00adta, voit pit\u00e4\u00e4 itse\u00e4\u00adsi onne\u00adkaa\u00adna. Siel\u00adl\u00e4 val\u00adlit\u00adsee vii\u00adda\u00adkon laki, ja t\u00e4m\u00e4 on tie\u00adteel\u00adli\u00adnen tosia\u00adsia.\u201d&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-hv7ae0a6pl3f5obb1e3lvus33\">#<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p id=\"post823-ouh5jb8oetdidgbtayi8kh9h3\">Kes\u00adkeis\u00adt\u00e4 ilmoi\u00adtuk\u00adsia tut\u00adki\u00admus\u00adta var\u00adten arvioi\u00adtaes\u00adsa ei niin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ollut se, mit\u00e4 tar\u00adjo\u00adtaan, vaan se, mit\u00e4 ihmi\u00adset <em>halua\u00advat<\/em> tar\u00adjo\u00adta; lop\u00adpu\u00adjen lopuk\u00adsi suu\u00adrin osa seu\u00adran\u00adha\u00adku\u00adpals\u00adtoi\u00adhin koh\u00addis\u00adtu\u00adneis\u00adta vali\u00adtuk\u00adsis\u00adta kos\u00adki nimit\u00adt\u00e4in sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 ihmi\u00adset eiv\u00e4t olleet alkuun\u00adkaan sit\u00e4, mit\u00e4 oli\u00advat ilmoi\u00adtuk\u00adses\u00adsaan anta\u00adneet ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-ouh5jb8oetdidgbtayi8kh9h3\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post823-jagsqfb612ofoaekuhk9ob53d\">Yksin\u00adker\u00adtais\u00adtuk\u00adset ovat aina mie\u00adlen\u00adkiin\u00adtoi\u00adsia, ja niin\u00adp\u00e4 t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4\u00adkin tar\u00adjo\u00adtaan kak\u00adsi top-lis\u00adtaa omi\u00adnai\u00adsuuk\u00adsis\u00adta, joi\u00adta (hete\u00adro\u00adsek\u00adsu\u00adaa\u00adlit) kump\u00adpa\u00adnin\u00adha\u00adki\u00adjat arvos\u00adta\u00advat:&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-jagsqfb612ofoaekuhk9ob53d\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><strong>Mie\u00adhet arvostavat<\/strong><\/td>\n<td><strong>Nai\u00adset arvostavat<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>1. Vie\u00adh\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00advyyt\u00adt\u00e4<\/td>\n<td>1. Sitou\u00adtu\u00admis\u00adta<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>1. Sitou\u00adtu\u00admis\u00adta<\/td>\n<td>2. Sosi\u00adaa\u00adli\u00adsia taitoja<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>3. Sosi\u00adaa\u00adli\u00adsia taitoja<\/td>\n<td>3. Resurs\u00adse\u00adja<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>4. Resurs\u00adse\u00adja<\/td>\n<td>4. Vie\u00adh\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00advyyt\u00adt\u00e4<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>4. Sek\u00adsik\u00adkyyt\u00adt\u00e4<\/td>\n<td>5. Sek\u00adsik\u00adkyyt\u00adt\u00e4<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p id=\"post823-fsfto2uf9y7oolhxanwqnvwto\">Jol\u00adlei mies\u00adten lis\u00adtan nume\u00adroin\u00adnis\u00adsa ole jotain vikaa, niin sama nume\u00adro kah\u00adteen ker\u00adtaan lie\u00adnee tul\u00adkit\u00adta\u00advis\u00adsa siten, ett\u00e4 kak\u00adsi koh\u00adtaa ovat sama\u00adnar\u00advoi\u00adsia.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-fsfto2uf9y7oolhxanwqnvwto\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post823-3x1ftgg204ylp1wlrexifusc\">Sosi\u00adaa\u00adli\u00adsis\u00adta kyvyis\u00adt\u00e4 arvos\u00adte\u00adtaan eri\u00adtyi\u00adses\u00adti huu\u00admo\u00adrin\u00adta\u00adjua. Seu\u00adraa\u00advas\u00adta sitaa\u00adtis\u00adta en jutun perus\u00adteel\u00adla voi sanoa, onko kysees\u00ads\u00e4 ihan tut\u00adkit\u00adtu asia vai tut\u00adki\u00adjan oma arvaus, mut\u00adta onhan se ihan myy\u00adv\u00e4 totea\u00admus:&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-3x1ftgg204ylp1wlrexifusc\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p id=\"post823-ku92stgsru753uwvi8hkw19c5\">\u201cKun nai\u00adset hake\u00advat mie\u00adhes\u00ads\u00e4 huu\u00admo\u00adrin\u00adta\u00adjua, he vies\u00adtit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t sil\u00adl\u00e4 \u2018n\u00e4y\u00adt\u00e4 minul\u00adle, mit\u00e4 sinul\u00adla on tar\u00adjol\u00adla\u2019. Kun taas mies hakee huu\u00admo\u00adrin\u00adta\u00adjua nai\u00adses\u00adsa, h\u00e4nen vies\u00adtin\u00ads\u00e4 on \u2018h\u00e4n nau\u00adraa vit\u00adseil\u00adle\u00adni, joten h\u00e4n pit\u00e4\u00e4 minua var\u00admaan hyv\u00e4\u00adn\u00e4 tyyp\u00adpi\u00adn\u00e4\u2019.\u201d&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-ku92stgsru753uwvi8hkw19c5\">#<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p id=\"post823-royo023venapxlswq1y82ivr1\">Olen jo <a href=\"http:\/\/aaretontylsyys.blogspot.com\/2004\/12\/teini-ja-vhn-muistakin-tytist-taas.html#c110345270480197290\">toi\u00adsaal\u00adla\u00adkin puo\u00adlus\u00adtel\u00adlut<\/a> perin\u00adtei\u00adses\u00adt\u00e4 \u201cmies on van\u00adhem\u00adpi\u201d -ase\u00adtel\u00admas\u00adta poik\u00adkea\u00advaa kuvio\u00adta, ja sit\u00e4\u00adkin t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 sivu\u00adtaan. Sii\u00adn\u00e4, mis\u00ads\u00e4 nuo\u00adruus lie\u00adnee nai\u00adsel\u00adle kiis\u00adtat\u00adta hyv\u00e4 valt\u00adti (kos\u00adka nuo\u00adruus asso\u00adsioi\u00addaan hyvin vah\u00advas\u00adti hedel\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adli\u00adsyy\u00adteen, joka puo\u00adles\u00adtaan on tie\u00adtys\u00adti ilmei\u00adnen etu, kos\u00adka kyse on evo\u00adluu\u00adtiop\u00adsy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adsis\u00adta teki\u00adj\u00f6is\u00adt\u00e4), tut\u00adki\u00admuk\u00adsen mukaan ulkoi\u00adnen vie\u00adh\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00advyys menee kui\u00adten\u00adkin sen\u00adkin edel\u00adle: kun mie\u00adhi\u00e4 pyy\u00addet\u00adtiin valit\u00adse\u00admaan pit\u00adk\u00e4\u00adai\u00adkai\u00adnen kump\u00adpa\u00adni valo\u00adku\u00advien perus\u00adteel\u00adla, kaik\u00adki suo\u00adsi\u00advat (toi\u00adses\u00adsa kokees\u00adsa) kau\u00adniik\u00adsi arvos\u00adtel\u00adtua, van\u00adhem\u00adpaa nais\u00adta nuo\u00adrem\u00adman, v\u00e4hem\u00adm\u00e4n vie\u00adh\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n kus\u00adtan\u00adnuk\u00adsel\u00adla.&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-royo023venapxlswq1y82ivr1\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p id=\"post823-sc28onvc8sqx32gy01crxe2qm\">\u201c\u00bbHei\u00add\u00e4n vies\u00adtin\u00ads\u00e4 on: \u2018Olen mie\u00adluum\u00admin suh\u00adtees\u00adsa van\u00adhem\u00adman nai\u00adsen kans\u00adsa vaik\u00adka en sai\u00adsi\u00adkaan h\u00e4nel\u00adt\u00e4 yht\u00e4 pal\u00adjon lap\u00adsia, jos h\u00e4n on kau\u00adnis, kuin nuo\u00adrem\u00adman, hedel\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adli\u00adsem\u00adm\u00e4n nai\u00adsen kans\u00adsa, jon\u00adka lap\u00adset ovat taval\u00adli\u00adsem\u00adman n\u00e4k\u00f6i\u00adsi\u00e4\u2019\u00ab, sanoo [tut\u00adki\u00admuk\u00adsen teh\u00adnyt toh\u00adto\u00adri] Field\u00adman. Teo\u00adria perus\u00adtuu k\u00e4si\u00adtyk\u00adseen, jon\u00adka mukaan kau\u00adnis nai\u00adnen saa toden\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6i\u00adsem\u00admin kau\u00adnii\u00adta j\u00e4l\u00adke\u00adl\u00e4i\u00adsi\u00e4, ja kau\u00adniit j\u00e4l\u00adke\u00adl\u00e4i\u00adset taas puo\u00adles\u00adtaan menes\u00adty\u00adv\u00e4t taval\u00adli\u00adsen\u00adn\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6i\u00adsi\u00e4 parem\u00admin.\u201d&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-sc28onvc8sqx32gy01crxe2qm\">#<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p id=\"post823-trrfto4dv54wwuwvvtk13lhfe\">Jos oli\u00adsin nai\u00adnen, en v\u00e4lt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00e4 oli\u00adsi t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 kovin huo\u00adjen\u00adtu\u00adnut, sil\u00adl\u00e4 vaih\u00adtoeh\u00addot ovat joko \u201cole nuo\u00adri\u201d tai \u201cole kau\u00adnis\u201d. Mut\u00adta t\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4 oli\u00adkin kyse vain vii\u00adda\u00adkon laeis\u00adta, jot\u00adka siis jos\u00adtain syys\u00adt\u00e4 tule\u00advat pin\u00adtaan eri\u00adtyi\u00adsen voi\u00admak\u00adkai\u00adna nime\u00adno\u00admaan sens\u00adsi\u00adpals\u00adtoil\u00adla. Olen tosin itse my\u00f6s sit\u00e4 miel\u00adt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 jos vii\u00adda\u00adkon lakien mukaan ruve\u00adtaan el\u00e4\u00adm\u00e4\u00e4n, niin kos\u00adka nai\u00adsil\u00adle riit\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 mie\u00adhis\u00ads\u00e4 tar\u00adjok\u00adkai\u00adta, nais\u00adten ongel\u00adma ei niin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ole vali\u00adtuk\u00adsi\u00adtu\u00adle\u00admi\u00adnen kuin valin\u00adnan vai\u00adkeus sii\u00adn\u00e4 mie\u00adles\u00ads\u00e4, ett\u00e4 kuin\u00adka l\u00f6y\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 ja saa\u00adda itsel\u00adleen val\u00adta\u00advas\u00adta tar\u00adjok\u00adkai\u00adden jou\u00adkos\u00adta ne kai\u00adkis\u00adta par\u00adhaat sie\u00adme\u00adnet. (Ja nyt voin pahoin kun tuon sanoin, \u00f6rrk.)&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-trrfto4dv54wwuwvvtk13lhfe\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post823-631c5wpb3ocqniwacolmp1k3c\">Mik\u00adsi ihmees\u00ads\u00e4 min\u00e4 t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4 kir\u00adjoi\u00adtin? Tulee\u00adko t\u00e4s\u00adt\u00e4\u00adkin taas yksi ihmis\u00adsuh\u00adde\u00adblo\u00adgi? Ei, min\u00e4 vain halusin pan\u00adna tuon jutun itsel\u00adle\u00adni muis\u00adtiin, enk\u00e4 kek\u00adsi\u00adnyt parem\u00adpaa\u00adkaan teko\u00adsyy\u00adt\u00e4 kuin selos\u00adtaa mis\u00adt\u00e4 sii\u00adn\u00e4 oli kyse. Oli toi\u00adnen\u00adkin syy: sivus\u00adtol\u00adta <a href=\"http:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/senssipalstatesti\/\">l\u00f6y\u00adtyi my\u00f6s tes\u00adti<\/a>, ja min\u00e4 tyk\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n niis\u00adt\u00e4!&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-631c5wpb3ocqniwacolmp1k3c\">#<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"post823-10afiodelfednrumma0u5q006\">l\u00e4h\u00adde: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/science\/humanbody\/mind\/articles\/emotions\/lonelyhearts.shtml\">\u201cThe mating game: Read between the&nbsp;lines\u201d<\/a><br>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/science\/humanbody\/mind\/\">BBC Science &amp; Natu\u00adre<\/a> (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.stumbleupon.com\/\">via <em>Stumble!<\/em><\/a>)<br>\n<em>suo\u00admen\u00adnos ja tie\u00adtel\u00adlis\u00adten fak\u00adto\u00adjen v\u00e4\u00e4\u00adris\u00adte\u00adly sii\u00adn\u00e4 sivus\u00adsa omia\u00adni<\/em>&nbsp;<a rel=\"bookmark\" class=\"paragraph-permalink\" href=\"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2004\/12\/25\/seuranhakupalstojen-evoluutiopsykologiaa\/#post823-10afiodelfednrumma0u5q006\">#<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kom\u00adpu\u00adroin BBC:n ihmis\u00adtie\u00adde\u00adsi\u00advul\u00adle, jos\u00adta l\u00f6y\u00adtyi mie\u00adlen\u00adkiin\u00adtoi\u00adnen jut\u00adtu seu\u00adran\u00adha\u00adku\u00adpals\u00adto\u00adjen evo\u00adluu\u00adtiop\u00adsy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adsis\u00adta puo\u00adlis\u00adta.&nbsp;# \u201cJos et kos\u00adkaan ole edes har\u00adkin\u00adnut etsi\u00adv\u00e4\u00adsi seu\u00adraa sii\u00adhen tar\u00adkoi\u00adte\u00adtuil\u00adta pals\u00adtoil\u00adta, voit pit\u00e4\u00e4 itse\u00e4\u00adsi onne\u00adkaa\u00adna. Siel\u00adl\u00e4 val\u00adlit\u00adsee vii\u00adda\u00adkon laki, ja t\u00e4m\u00e4 on tie\u00adteel\u00adli\u00adnen tosia\u00adsia.\u201d&nbsp;# Kes\u00adkeis\u00adt\u00e4 ilmoi\u00adtuk\u00adsia tut\u00adki\u00admus\u00adta var\u00adten arvioi\u00adtaes\u00adsa ei niin\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n ollut se, mit\u00e4 tar\u00adjo\u00adtaan, vaan se, mit\u00e4 ihmi\u00adset halua\u00advat tar\u00adjo\u00adta; lop\u00adpu\u00adjen lopuk\u00adsi suu\u00adrin&nbsp;osa&nbsp;[\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1521],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-823","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-meemit"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/823","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=823"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/823\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=823"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=823"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=823"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}