{"id":929,"date":"2005-01-27T20:11:59","date_gmt":"2005-01-27T18:11:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mummila.net\/skm\/?p=929"},"modified":"2011-07-28T08:26:05","modified_gmt":"2011-07-28T05:26:05","slug":"lapset-eivat-ymmarra-sarkasmia-eivatka-ironiaa-sarkasmi-ja-ironia-vahingoittavat-lapsen-itsetuntoa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/2005\/01\/27\/lapset-eivat-ymmarra-sarkasmia-eivatka-ironiaa-sarkasmi-ja-ironia-vahingoittavat-lapsen-itsetuntoa\/","title":{"rendered":"Lapset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4rr\u00e4 sarkasmia eiv\u00e4tk\u00e4 lapset ymm\u00e4rr\u00e4 ironiaa. Sarkasmi ja ironia vahingoittavat lapsen itsetuntoa."},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cSe lumi onkin var\u00admaan tosi puhdasta.\u201d
\n- \u00e4iti lun\u00adta sy\u00f6\u00adv\u00e4l\u00adle lap\u00adsel\u00adle bus\u00adsi\u00adpy\u00ads\u00e4\u00adkil\u00adl\u00e4 27.1.2005 #<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cNykyi\u00adsin on kui\u00adten\u00adkin psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adses\u00adti toden\u00adnet\u00adtu, ett\u00e4 lap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia<\/strong>. He koke\u00advat sen itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n koh\u00adtaan suun\u00adtau\u00adtu\u00adva\u00adna pilk\u00adka\u00adna<\/strong>, mik\u00e4 ei lis\u00e4\u00e4 lap\u00adsil\u00adle suo\u00adta\u00advaa hyv\u00e4\u00e4 itse\u00adtun\u00adtoa.\u201d #<\/a><\/p>\n

P\u00e4\u00e4\u00adkir\u00adjoi\u00adtus: Sivun\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adtet\u00adt\u00e4<\/a> (Uusi Nai\u00adnen 6\/2003<\/a>; koros\u00adtuk\u00adset omia\u00adni) #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u201c[\u2026] lap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t kui\u00adten\u00adkaan p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsen\u00adteon kyp\u00adsyy\u00addel\u00adt\u00e4 ole aikui\u00adsia. Lap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa<\/strong>, k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t vies\u00adtit kon\u00adkreet\u00adti\u00adses\u00adti [\u2026]\u201d #<\/a><\/p>\n

Kulut\u00adta\u00adjan\u00adsuo\u00adja: Las\u00adten vuo\u00adsi\u00adsa\u00adta ohi- lap\u00adsis\u00adta on tul\u00adlut pie\u00adni\u00e4 aikui\u00adsia?<\/a> (koros\u00adtus oma\u00adni) #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

No niin kaik\u00adki aikui\u00adset, var\u00adsin\u00adkin te, joil\u00adla on lap\u00adsia<\/strong>, tai jot\u00adka suun\u00adnit\u00adte\u00adlet\u00adte sel\u00adlai\u00adsia jos\u00adkus hank\u00adki\u00advan\u00adne, tois\u00adta\u00adkaa\u00adhan per\u00e4s\u00ads\u00e4: #<\/a><\/p>\n

Lap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.<\/em>
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.<\/em>
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.<\/em>
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.<\/strong>
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.<\/strong>
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.<\/strong>
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.<\/strong>
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itsetuntoa.<\/strong>
\nLap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia eiv\u00e4t\u00adk\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa. Sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja iro\u00adnia vahin\u00adgoit\u00adta\u00advat lap\u00adsen itse\u00adtun\u00adtoa.<\/strong> #<\/a><\/p>\n

- Tie\u00add\u00e4t\u00adte\u00adh\u00e4n, ett\u00e4 jos jota\u00adku\u00adta s\u00e4i\u00adk\u00e4yt\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4 kovin usein, h\u00e4n muut\u00adtuu hel\u00adpos\u00adti n\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4k\u00adsi, sanoi Tuu-tik\u00adki pis\u00adt\u00e4en suu\u00adhun\u00adsa maa\u00admu\u00adnan, joka muis\u00adtut\u00adti pien\u00adt\u00e4 muka\u00advaa lumi\u00adpal\u00adloa. Nojaa. Tuo\u00adta Nin\u00adni\u00e4 s\u00e4i\u00adkyt\u00adte\u00adli pahas\u00adti er\u00e4s t\u00e4ti, joka oli otta\u00adnut tyt\u00f6n hoi\u00adviin\u00adsa, vaik\u00adkei pit\u00e4\u00adnyt h\u00e4nes\u00adt\u00e4. Tapa\u00adsin t\u00e4din, ja h\u00e4n oli kau\u00adhea. Ei vihai\u00adnen, k\u00e4si\u00adt\u00e4t\u00adte\u00adk\u00f6, sel\u00adlai\u00adsen\u00adhan voi ymm\u00e4r\u00adt\u00e4\u00e4. H\u00e4n oli vain j\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4n kyl\u00adm\u00e4 ja iro\u00adni\u00adnen. #<\/a><\/p>\n

- Mit\u00e4 on iro\u00adni\u00adnen? kysyi Muu\u00admi\u00adpeik\u00adko. #<\/a><\/p>\n

- No, kuvit\u00adte\u00adle, ett\u00e4 liu\u00adkas\u00adtut johon\u00adkin lima\u00adsie\u00adneen ja l\u00e4s\u00e4h\u00add\u00e4t istu\u00admaan kes\u00adkel\u00adle puh\u00addis\u00adtet\u00adtu\u00adja sie\u00adni\u00e4, sanoi Tuu-tik\u00adki. Tie\u00adten\u00adkin odo\u00adtat \u00e4iti\u00adsi suut\u00adtu\u00advan, se oli\u00adsi luon\u00adnol\u00adlis\u00adta. Mut\u00adta ehei, h\u00e4n\u00adp\u00e4 ei suu\u00adtu\u00adkaan, sanoo vain kyl\u00adm\u00e4s\u00adti ja muser\u00adta\u00advas\u00adti: Ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4n ett\u00e4 tuo on sinun k\u00e4si\u00adtyk\u00adse\u00adsi tans\u00adsi\u00admi\u00adses\u00adta, mut\u00adta oli\u00adsin kii\u00adtol\u00adli\u00adnen, ellet tans\u00adsi\u00adsi ruo\u00adas\u00adsa. Suun\u00adnil\u00adleen sel\u00adlais\u00adta on iro\u00adnia. #<\/a><\/p>\n

- Hyi, miten ep\u00e4\u00admiel\u00adlyt\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4\u00e4, sanoi Muu\u00admi\u00adpeik\u00adko. #<\/a><\/p>\n

- Eik\u00f6 ole\u00adkin, my\u00f6n\u00adsi Tuu-tik\u00adki. Ja juu\u00adri tuol\u00adla taval\u00adla t\u00e4m\u00e4 t\u00e4ti puhui, h\u00e4n oli iro\u00adni\u00adnen aamus\u00adta iltaan. Lopul\u00adta lap\u00adsen \u00e4\u00e4ri\u00advii\u00advat alkoi\u00advat h\u00e4i\u00adpy\u00e4 ja h\u00e4n muut\u00adtui n\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4t\u00adt\u00f6\u00adm\u00e4k\u00adsi. Vii\u00adme per\u00adjan\u00adtai\u00adna h\u00e4n\u00adt\u00e4 ei n\u00e4ky\u00adnyt en\u00e4\u00e4 ollen\u00adkaan. T\u00e4ti antoi h\u00e4net minul\u00adle ja sanoi, ettei h\u00e4n todel\u00adla\u00adkaan voi huo\u00adleh\u00adtia suku\u00adlai\u00adsis\u00adta, joi\u00adta h\u00e4n ei edes n\u00e4e. #<\/a><\/p>\n

Tove Jans\u00adson: N\u00e4ky\u00adm\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6n lapsi<\/a>
\nWSOY<\/a> #<\/a><\/p>\n

lai\u00adnaus<\/a>
\nMuu\u00adri\u00adkin mie\u00adli\u00adku\u00advi\u00adtus\u00adkut\u00adku\u00adtus<\/a> #<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Joko se nyt menee peril\u00adle? Vai pit\u00e4\u00e4\u00adk\u00f6 ly\u00f6\u00add\u00e4? #<\/a><\/p>\n

Ette te kui\u00adten\u00adkaan vie\u00adl\u00e4\u00adk\u00e4\u00e4n tajua, mit\u00e4 on sar\u00adkas\u00admi ja mit\u00e4 on iro\u00adnia. Ja vaik\u00adka te sen tajuai\u00adsit\u00adte, ette te kui\u00adten\u00adkaan tajua sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 juu\u00adri te<\/em> olet\u00adte sar\u00adkas\u00adti\u00adsia tai iro\u00adni\u00adsia, juu\u00adri tei\u00add\u00e4n<\/em> lap\u00adsen\u00adne k\u00e4r\u00adsi\u00adv\u00e4t tei\u00add\u00e4n sar\u00adkas\u00admin\u00adne, tei\u00add\u00e4n iro\u00adnian\u00adne seu\u00adrauk\u00adset my\u00f6\u00adhem\u00adm\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4 i\u00e4l\u00adl\u00e4\u00e4n. #<\/a><\/p>\n

[muok\u00adkauk\u00adset]
\n[muokkaus][klo]2011-07-28 8:26[\/klo] Pois\u00adtin kuvan.[\/muokkaus]
\n[\/muokkaukset] #<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cSe lumi onkin var\u00admaan tosi puh\u00addas\u00adta.\u201d - \u00e4iti lun\u00adta sy\u00f6\u00adv\u00e4l\u00adle lap\u00adsel\u00adle bus\u00adsi\u00adpy\u00ads\u00e4\u00adkil\u00adl\u00e4 27.1.2005 # \u201cNykyi\u00adsin on kui\u00adten\u00adkin psy\u00adko\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adses\u00adti toden\u00adnet\u00adtu, ett\u00e4 lap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 sar\u00adkas\u00admia. He koke\u00advat sen itse\u00ad\u00e4\u00e4n koh\u00adtaan suun\u00adtau\u00adtu\u00adva\u00adna pilk\u00adka\u00adna, mik\u00e4 ei lis\u00e4\u00e4 lap\u00adsil\u00adle suo\u00adta\u00advaa hyv\u00e4\u00e4 itse\u00adtun\u00adtoa.\u201d # P\u00e4\u00e4\u00adkir\u00adjoi\u00adtus: Sivun\u00adt\u00e4y\u00adtet\u00adt\u00e4 (Uusi Nai\u00adnen 6\/2003; koros\u00adtuk\u00adset omia\u00adni) # \u201c[\u2026] lap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t kui\u00adten\u00adkaan p\u00e4\u00e4\u00adt\u00f6k\u00adsen\u00adteon kyp\u00adsyy\u00addel\u00adt\u00e4 ole aikui\u00adsia. Lap\u00adset eiv\u00e4t ymm\u00e4r\u00adr\u00e4 iro\u00adni\u00adaa, k\u00e4sit\u00adt\u00e4\u00adv\u00e4t viestit [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-929","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-merkinnat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/929","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=929"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/929\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20696,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/929\/revisions\/20696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=929"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=929"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mummila.net\/marginaali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=929"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}