Add -f to all ps calls in Makefile
Output from procps’ ps with -e only produces the process name, so grepping for ”cli.js start” fails every time. This change adds (POSIX-compliant) -f to all ps calls to get the full command. AWK print parameter is adjusted accordingly where needed.
Issue #1359 resulted in PR #1370, but only addressed the stop: target. The changes here address the rest of the ps calls the same way.