Aluk­si lavas­tet­tu tulos: #

Results of Your Jea­lousy Test #

	Jea­lousy
Your sco­re = 100

What does your sco­re mean? #

Most people expe­rience a cer­tain amount of fear that their loved one could lea­ve them for someo­ne else. After all, the­se things hap­pen, and when they do, it is usual­ly very pain­ful. You, howe­ver, are slight­ly more preoccu­pied than most with the thought of losing your part­ner, whet­her that fear is conscious or subconscious. Whi­le you are not living in a cons­tant sta­te of fear, your jea­lousy may be put­ting a strain on your relationship…especially if your part­ner is not wil­ling to play along. Some work on your self-esteem and com­mu­nica­tion skills could help you to feel stron­ger and more inde­pen­dent. In turn, you would rea­lize that if you ever lost your mate to someo­ne else, you could sur­vi­ve with your dig­ni­ty intact. Even though you might love your part­ner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea and you would even­tual­ly find hap­pi­ness with someo­ne else. This rea­liza­tion would give you a sen­se of secu­ri­ty and the strength to trust, allowing you to be more com­for­table in the rela­tions­hip. That, in turn, would boost the chances of a las­ting and ful­fil­ling rela­tions­hip. #

Disco­ve­ry Health: “Jea­lousy Test […] for Hete­ro­sexual Men” #

Lavas­tin tuon näh­däk­se­ni, että oli­ko 100 pis­tet­tä edes mah­dol­li­nen, kos­ka oma, todel­li­nen tulok­se­ni oli näin alhai­nen: #

Results of Your Jea­lousy Test #

	Jea­lousy
Your sco­re = 58

What does your sco­re mean? #

Most people expe­rience a cer­tain amount of fear that their loved one could lea­ve them for someo­ne else. After all, the­se things hap­pen, and when they do, it is usual­ly very pain­ful. You fit right into this usual ran­ge - cer­tain situa­tions may spark fee­lings of jea­lousy, but gene­ral­ly you are not preoccu­pied with the fear of losing your part­ner. If you were honest with your­self whi­le taking the test, this means that you are secu­re, strong, inde­pen­dent and ratio­nal enough to recog­nize the pos­si­bi­li­ty of losing your part­ner to someo­ne else, but not be con­su­med by it. That does not mean that you do not care; you would cer­tain­ly be as sad or crus­hed as any­bo­dy else. Howe­ver, you know that if it ever hap­pens, you will sur­vi­ve with your self-esteem and dig­ni­ty intact. You rea­lize that even though you might love your part­ner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea, and that you would even­tual­ly find hap­pi­ness with someo­ne else. Such fee­lings give you a sen­se of secu­ri­ty and the strength to trust, and allow you to be com­for­table in the rela­tions­hip. That, in turn, boosts the chances of a las­ting and ful­fil­ling rela­tions­hip. #

ed. #

100 pis­tet­tä saa­vut­taa ilmei­ses­ti sil­lä stra­te­gial­la, että jokai­nen louk­kaus mak­se­taan takai­sin samal­la mital­la, tai fyy­si­sel­lä väki­val­lal­la: #

“Your wife/girlfriend and you are at a par­ty. An att­rac­ti­ve man is flir­ting with her and she seems to be flir­ting back. How would do you react? #

• I would get up and beat the crap out of the man.”

ed. #

Täy­tyy kyl­lä tode­ta että tämä on tosi poliit­ti­ses­ti kor­rek­tis­ti muo­toil­tu, eli tuos­ta tar­koi­tuk­sel­li­ses­ti hank­ki­mas­ta­ni 100 pis­teen kuvauk­ses­ta tun­nis­tan itse­ni, täs­tä 58 pis­teen kuvauk­ses­ta en ollen­kaan. Ja sil­ti tie­dän että on ole­mas­sa vie­lä minua­kin pahem­min mus­ta­suk­kai­sia ihmi­siä, eli asteik­ko lop­puu kes­ken ylä­pääs­tään, ja itsel­leen vahin­gol­li­sen mus­ta­suk­kai­set ihmi­set kuten minä saa­vat tes­tis­tä nor­maa­lin tulok­set (jol­lai­sik­si täs­sä ole­tan pis­teet 40-60). Tai sit­ten Ame­ri­kois­sa ei olla niin mus­ta­suk­kai­sia kuin Suo­mes­sa. #

Tämä tes­ti oli mie­hil­le tar­koi­tet­tu. Pitää­kin kat­soa, löy­tyy­kö nai­sil­le samaa tes­tiä ja mil­lä stra­te­gial­la nai­nen saa mus­ta­suk­kai­sen lei­man sen mukaan. #

Lisäys: Nai­sil­le tar­koi­tet­tu tes­ti vaa­tii sie­lun myy­mis­tä. Ei kii­tos. #

Lisäys: Nyt löy­tyi tuo sama tes­ti nais­ten­ver­sio­na. #

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